Newbie's questions

Angelina

Sara2001 It is most probably just another education

that's right, currently i notice with you that many components of your education transfer to your relationship

Vanessa

Sara2001

I think you both would need to improve it step by step,to find how to manage it for the best in your relationship.

Angelina therefore contracts 😃

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Sara2001 But I was never the one who really made the decision.

Don't you want to try it for a while,to know if you don't like it better than being more "submissive"?

Angelina

Vanessa Don't you want to try it for a while,to know if you don't like it better than being more "submissive"?

i think because of her upbringing she would be very overwhelmed (this is not meant to be mean)

Sara2001

Vanessa I think you both would need to improve it step by step,to find how to manage it for the best in your relationship

I think that's what we are doing 🙂 I still live at home, so my father can support Daniel a lot.

Vanessa Don't you want to try it for a while,to know if you don't like it better than being more "submissive"?

What would be the benefit?

Angelina i think it could also be difficult because i don't see Daniel woukld giving up some of the power

He would if it would be for a good goal.

Vanessa

Angelina

Possible,it would be a very uncommon situation for her,to not have a submissive role...But I still think it would be worth a try(but I doubt it would happen...).

Angelina

Vanessa

i think it could also be difficult because i don't see Daniel woukld giving up some of the power

Angelina

Sara2001 I still live at home, so my father can support Daniel a lot.

are there any plans to live together ? or will it be after the wedding ?

Sara2001 He would if it would be for a good goal.

are there certain situations, so you have an example? Or was that more an general statement ?

Vanessa

Sara2001 I think that's what we are doing

Wise decision.

Sara2001 What would be the benefit?

To have experiences in different sorts of relationship.You like how it works for your actual relationship,but have no idea of equal right relationship;difficult to be sure you would not like it more.You can't say you dislike spinach before tasting these,for example...

Sara2001

Angelina are there any plans to live together ? or will it be after the wedding ?

After wedding. I am not allowed to move out before wedding.

Angelina are there certain situations, so you have an example? Or was that more an general statement ?

A general statement. But for example I am allowed to do many things that would normally need a permission when it is for a good reason, like leaving the property for going to work. I just have to inform him but don't have to wait for his approval.

Vanessa To have experiences in different sorts of relationship.You like how it works for your actual relationship,but have no idea of equal right relationship;difficult to be sure you would not like it more.You can't say you dislike spinach before tasting these,for example...

That's correct, but I am sure a equal rights relationship with Daniel wouldn't feel the same. I like how it is.

Angelina

Vanessa .You can't say you dislike spinach before tasting these,for example...

sometimes you manage to hit my mark without even talking to me 😂

i hate spinach even though i have never eaten it, but the smell iiiiiihhhh

Vanessa

Angelina

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It is like high heels shoes,you should try it!😉

Angelina

Vanessa It is like high heels shoes,you should try it!😉

and like with high heels, I will only try if you make me a good counteroffer 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

😉

Sara2001 I am sure a equal rights relationship with Daniel wouldn't feel the same. I like how it is.

I agree with @Angelina.Without trying it,it is hard to be sure an equal right relationship would not feel better.

Angelina it is more because I am financially not in a position to finance my own apartment

But if it is ok,financially,before you marry,would you be allowed?Or not until marriage,too?

Sara2001

At least,it would be a long training,until your wedding!

Angelina

Sara2001 After wedding. I am not allowed to move out before wedding.

is similar to mine, but for me it is more because I am financially not in a position to finance my own apartment

Sara2001 I just have to inform him but don't have to wait for his approval.

well, currently you are still in training and I think, even if you stay at home later, that a completed training is an important goal 🙂

Sara2001 , but I am sure a equal rights relationship with Daniel wouldn't feel the same.

of course it is not the same feeling, but maybe a better feeling ? 🙂

Sara2001

Angelina well, currently you are still in training and I think, even if you stay at home later, that a completed training is an important goal 🙂

Of course it is. I have to be used to my rules,.so it is easier to live according to them.

Angelina

Sara2001 I have to be used to my rules,.so it is easier to live according to them.

that's why i think it makes a lot of sense if you live together with daniel before the wedding. so you can test your everyday life (with the rules) and see if it works 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa But if it is ok,financially,before you marry,would you be allowed?Or not until marriage,too?

if i can finance it myself, i can move out, but i can only take off the belt after the wedding

Vanessa

Angelina if i can finance it myself, i can move out, but i can only take off the belt after the wedding

Similar for me.

Angelina

Vanessa Similar for me.

although i have to say that if i can finance my own apartment, i can definitely afford a wedding 😉

Sara2001

Angelina although i have to say that if i can finance my own apartment, i can definitely afford a wedding 😉

I am not sure this is the case. I make enough money with my apprenticeship to have the possibility to pay for a small apartment, but I wouldn't be able to pay a wedding party from it.

Of course my father nor Daniel would allow me to life alone.

Vanessa

Angelina

Probably,yes.Even if you probably would have to save money for some time to be able to afford a wedding.

Angelina well weddings are very different concerning the price, theoretically it would cost almost nothing if you just register it at the registry office (is of course very unromantic)

A wedding should only happen once,so it would be better to wait(even if it means more time in the chastity belt...),and be able to pay for a very pleasant one.

Angelina

Sara2001 I make enough money with my apprenticeship to have the possibility to pay for a small apartment,

but then you earn very well (for an apprenticeship) 🙂

Sara2001 , but I wouldn't be able to pay a wedding party from it.

well weddings are very different concerning the price, theoretically it would cost almost nothing if you just register it at the registry office (is of course very unromantic)

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