Kaitlyn's (MilkyMilo) Chastity journey

Joh

milkymilo ah right, I not sure why there is such a focus on my mum being in chastity here and in fact the discussions around it are a bit creepy.

I agree with you.
t is also very strange for me that every time someone is new here, they immediately try to persuade all the women in their immediate circle of family and friends to wear a CB.

Laura

Joh t is also very strange for me that every time someone is new here, they immediately try to persuade all the women in their immediate circle of family and friends to wear a CB.

As @Angelina mentioned before, this is a projection of my family

Angelina

Joh they immediately try to persuade all the women in their immediate circle of family and friends to wear a CB.

i agree, i also find it a bit strange. we have to remember that there are different reasons for wearing or not wearing the belt in each case. that's what i keep saying here, each case is individual. @milkymilo currently has a good attitude towards the belt and wears it because it is a rule that uncle and aunt have set, it seems that she currently prefers to accept the belt rather than wanting/having to live somewhere else. but that doesn't infer any other woman.

Laura As @Angelina mentioned before, this is a projection of my family

right, but i wouldn't draw conclusions from your family to other families

curious

milkymilo I not sure why there is such a focus on my mum being in chastity here

Because unlike in earlier days now a majority of users here are fetish oriented into chastity belts and know no limits.
The focus here has shifted from wearers sharing their experiences to fetish and bdsm oriented interests. That is why.

Owl

curious

I'm not so sure, both regarding the motivation of users (who knows?) and whether it had really been that clear cut in the past, as well. For instance, I remember that belted marriages / partnerships and the transition towards that have been a topic for many years; and those clearly had a very strong element of domination and submission. (Let alone the bondage touch inherent to anything locked to your body.)

Owl

Is just in accordance with https://unwedchastity.org/p/1-f-a-q , question 3 to 5. 😁 Might be a case of "when in Rome, do as the Romans do", plus a grain of salt.

@milkymilo Welcome to the forum 👋 and thank you for your contribution.

youdontknowme

Except it has been Laura pushing that part. Literally the founder of this forum and the original girl belted for "serious purposes". The users with a BDSM background just pointed out impracticalities.

Owl

youdontknowme
Reply cross-over.

milkymilo

Laura so every woman in your family is in chastity? Even your aunts and cousins etc. Is it just the women or the men to. Who enforces and oversees all of this, is it one person or several?

Laura

milkymilo so every woman in your family is in chastity?

Every single woman

milkymilo Even your aunts and cousins etc.

Right

milkymilo Is it just the women or the men to.

Just the women

milkymilo Who enforces and oversees all of this, is it one person or several?

It's the parents' responsibility, so either one or two for each girl

Marder

Laura Every single woman

That sounds ambiguous to me. Do you mean, "each and every single one" or "every unmarried woman"? (not a native speaker, maybe I'm missing some nuance making it clear)

Laura

Joh Who is the KH?

Laura It's the parents' responsibility, so either one or two for each girl

Laura

Marder Every single(not married) woman from my family

Joh

Laura Every single(not married) woman from my family

Who is the KH?

Joh

Laura And if they don't live any more? Or if her mother's husband is deceased who is her mother's KH then?

curious

Laura
Is that a clearly defined rule? Or is each family in that clan handling the details individually?
For example at what age belting starts? If any self pleasure is permitted or none at all? Type of belt? End conditions? What if a girl resists the idea of being belted?

Laura

Marder Do we have one for questions to Laura?

The whole forum 😂 Anyway, let me answer the questions

Joh And if they don't live any more?

Nobody

Joh Or if her mother's husband is deceased who is her mother's KH then?

This is not a case

curious Is that a clearly defined rule?

The rule is about virginity only

curious Or is each family in that clan handling the details individually?

Most likely, yes

curious For example at what age belting starts? If any self pleasure is permitted or none at all?

Up to a family

curious Type of belt?

High security steel belt

curious End conditions?

Marriage

curious What if a girl resists the idea of being belted?

She will break up with her family

Marder

@milkymilo I've got a question about the practice of your wearing, if you don't mind... you are locked 24/7 with only short cleaning breaks every two days, if I remember correctly. This raises the question for me, how do you handle your period? That must be a challenge, hygiene-wise...

About the last posts: This is MilkyMilo's thread. Do we have one for questions to Laura? 😃

milkymilo

Marder yes that is a good question. I have endometriosis and to prevent the pain I was given depo-provera which is a birth control that prevents ovulation. Seems to be the common treatment here in NZ and been on it for a few years now with no issues. Google explains it better than I can if people are interested.

So menstrual bleeding is severely reduced in my case so barely get anything that needs managing differently. If I notice anything I just tell my kh and can have a good clean out. But it has only been 6 months so far so manageable so far.

curious

Laura Up to a family

When does / did it start in your family?
Ever allowed to have orgasms or never?

Do you know girls that resist being belted?

Feel free to move to wherever the questions fit best.

Laura

curious When does / did it start in your family?

I started at 19

curious Ever allowed to have orgasms or never?

Yes, although my parents are against masturbation, they are not strict with it

curious Feel free to move to wherever the questions fit best.

Better if you find an appropriate topic

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