Kaitlyn's (MilkyMilo) Chastity journey

milkymilo

Laura yes she is single, but she is not under their household so not under their rules so no reason why she would be in chastity. Otherwise by that logic every single female should be in chastity? I am not sure what happens around the rest of the world but here someone's brother-in-law has absolutely no say. Same when I was growing up and not living with them they had no say but as I am under their roof I abide by their rules out of respect

Angelina

milkymilo Otherwise by that logic every single female should be in chastity?

I see you have understood @Laura's logic 😂

Laura

milkymilo yes she is single, but she is not under their household so not under their rules so no reason why she would be in chastity.

She might be interested

milkymilo Otherwise by that logic every single female should be in chastity?

No, only those whose family is into it

Angelina I see you have understood @Laura's logic

🤣

Marder

Sorry for jumping back in the thread a bit, but I was curious about a different detail...

milkymilo Thats where we learnt the anal rings were not a great idea for me anyway.

I was first puzzled about that comment, but from context I deduced that you meant the somewhat circular "rear shield" as a feature of some chastity belts. So that one doesn't seem to work well for you, but what configuration do you use instead?
If I didn't miss anything else, Fancy Steel seems to offer rear configurations with a single wire in the crack of your butt, or two wires going over your buttocks - the latter reminding of a rather classical belt design where chains where used. Both seem to have drawbacks, like you sit on the the double wires which sounds uncomfortable, and the single wire would get in the way of #2 bathroom business. (But since they are still offered, I guess some people don't seem to mind.)
From my understanding, the most popular configuration seems to be the rear shield, which may sit uncomfortably between the butt cheeks, but has fewer issues hygiene-wise. Since that doesn't seem to have worked for you, I'm curious what other option seems to fit your needs better.

milkymilo

Marder Appologies if this is may give too much info but not sure how else to explain it lol

With the fs belts they use wire rope that runs through tubes on the shield and the tubes in the side of the anal ring. Without the anal ring I just have a silicone tube over the cables so they don't pinch and that sits between my but cheeks.

So when I sit on the toilet I can just pull the cable to the side and do my business. We are not like europe and bidets and the like are not standard so if the cable gets messy I use a wetwipe to clean it which is easy enough. With the ring is its not perfectly aligned then it get messy and no easy to clean without belt removal. Its is personal preference really

This is off their website showing the difference with the ring and not

Maija

I must say I respect @milkymilo for having at least a midly positive attitude towards her belting 🙂

Marder

Maija She's not in a bad position to start with. She has a low sex drive, and even if it should pick up eventually, there's still the option to learn to drive the tractor.

milkymilo

Maija i have learnt it is easier to accept and appreciate what one has in life rather than trying to fight it

milkymilo

Marder no driving the tractor is not an option. I want to live lol

Marder

milkymilo Appologies if this is may give too much info but not sure how else to explain it lol

Got it, thanks! It's really a matter of preference, I was just puzzled because I heard the exact opposite opinion before, that the single cable got too much in the way and was not easy to clean, so i wanted to make sure I didn't miss anything. I guess except preference, it may also have to do with anatomy, and tightness of the fit of the belt.

Maija

milkymilo regarding this, would it be okay to contact you via email?

Damien

milkymilo it is easier to accept and appreciate

Three months of being locked out of a little but not insignificant part of your own body seems quite the challenge though. Do you want to describe your ups and downs? I imagine crisis and catharsis, in addition to acceptance and appreciation^

milkymilo

Marder I cannot speak for the solid belts but as of the cable construction I find the belt has a bit of flex to allow this

milkymilo

Maija Absolutely, I have sent you a email

Marder

milkymilo A very tight cable would be hard to sufficiently pull to the side to not interfere with your business (or so I've been told, I have no personal wearing experience). And usually belts are adjusted to be on the tight side rather, for security reasons, and because static pressure from the belt against your body is easier to get used to than chafing, when it's too loose and starts moving against the skin. Sometimes a tight rear cable is also said to be a protection against anal penetration.
I guess your belt is a bit more loose than this, and that's fine too! As long as it's secure, and doesn't chafe.

milkymilo

Marder it is pretty tight and can just pull to the side enough to do what needs to be done. Thankfully no chaffing. Again it sort of depends on body shape. For me the ring is too uncomfortable parting my cheeks for long er wear and if it sits over the cheeks is not secure.

Joh

milkymilo New Zealand has quite unique geography that it seems to have a bit of everything all in a small space.

In any case, it is unique. You have the Hobbit village that you won't find anywhere else

milkymilo yes the tractor is here but my driving skills in a car are bad enough so not prepared to use a tractor lol

Practice makes perfect. 😉

milkymilo

Joh yeah that is true, I have been there years ago, was quite cool. That is in the North Island. Alot of the more mountainous and open scenes I believe were filmed down this end of the country. I hear that Weta workshops in Wellington is worth a visit but not been there yet

Joh

milkymilo If I travel to New Zeeland I will visit it for sure.

milkymilo

Joh yes it is certainly worth a visit I hear from all the tourists that I get to meet. But I suppose as I am from here I do not know any difference it is just home

Sasha

Welcome sorry I haven't written sooner. You have a very interesting story and I am happy this new lifestyle is working out for you so far.
I was curious, which shield did you select for your belt? And do you find yourself avoiding certain types of content on the internet now that you are in chastity?

milkymilo

Sasha thankyou for the welcome. It is the P1 3d printed shield that I have that came with the P1 full belt

No I actually find myself reading and learning more. If it is porn you mean then not really, I find so much porn out there rather comical. I think someone pointed put that I am sapiosexual I think which means are more interested in the persons mind and not just the body

Joh

milkymilo yes it is certainly worth a visit I hear from all the tourists that I get to meet.

Why do guests come to you?
I assume they won't be helping on the farm, but are on holiday. Are they coming to go hiking, or fishing, or mountain biking, or climbing, or just to do nothing? Or is it a good placed to do different sightseeing?

Sasha

milkymilo Thanks for the reply. I hadn't heard that term before but it's great you know who you are attracted to like that.

milkymilo

Sasha I think there is a terms for everything now. I think really it is more I mean I am attracted to someone's personality more than anything so just seeing a naked body or sex physically only is not unappealing just not overly arousing for me

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