Kaitlyn's (MilkyMilo) Chastity journey

milkymilo

Maija i have learnt it is easier to accept and appreciate what one has in life rather than trying to fight it

Maija

milkymilo regarding this, would it be okay to contact you via email?

Damien

milkymilo it is easier to accept and appreciate

Three months of being locked out of a little but not insignificant part of your own body seems quite the challenge though. Do you want to describe your ups and downs? I imagine crisis and catharsis, in addition to acceptance and appreciation^

milkymilo

Marder no driving the tractor is not an option. I want to live lol

Marder

milkymilo Appologies if this is may give too much info but not sure how else to explain it lol

Got it, thanks! It's really a matter of preference, I was just puzzled because I heard the exact opposite opinion before, that the single cable got too much in the way and was not easy to clean, so i wanted to make sure I didn't miss anything. I guess except preference, it may also have to do with anatomy, and tightness of the fit of the belt.

milkymilo

Marder I cannot speak for the solid belts but as of the cable construction I find the belt has a bit of flex to allow this

milkymilo

Maija Absolutely, I have sent you a email

Marder

milkymilo A very tight cable would be hard to sufficiently pull to the side to not interfere with your business (or so I've been told, I have no personal wearing experience). And usually belts are adjusted to be on the tight side rather, for security reasons, and because static pressure from the belt against your body is easier to get used to than chafing, when it's too loose and starts moving against the skin. Sometimes a tight rear cable is also said to be a protection against anal penetration.
I guess your belt is a bit more loose than this, and that's fine too! As long as it's secure, and doesn't chafe.

milkymilo

Marder it is pretty tight and can just pull to the side enough to do what needs to be done. Thankfully no chaffing. Again it sort of depends on body shape. For me the ring is too uncomfortable parting my cheeks for long er wear and if it sits over the cheeks is not secure.

Joh

milkymilo New Zealand has quite unique geography that it seems to have a bit of everything all in a small space.

In any case, it is unique. You have the Hobbit village that you won't find anywhere else

milkymilo yes the tractor is here but my driving skills in a car are bad enough so not prepared to use a tractor lol

Practice makes perfect. 😉

milkymilo

Joh yeah that is true, I have been there years ago, was quite cool. That is in the North Island. Alot of the more mountainous and open scenes I believe were filmed down this end of the country. I hear that Weta workshops in Wellington is worth a visit but not been there yet

Joh

milkymilo If I travel to New Zeeland I will visit it for sure.

milkymilo

Joh yes it is certainly worth a visit I hear from all the tourists that I get to meet. But I suppose as I am from here I do not know any difference it is just home

Sasha

Welcome sorry I haven't written sooner. You have a very interesting story and I am happy this new lifestyle is working out for you so far.
I was curious, which shield did you select for your belt? And do you find yourself avoiding certain types of content on the internet now that you are in chastity?

milkymilo

Sasha thankyou for the welcome. It is the P1 3d printed shield that I have that came with the P1 full belt

No I actually find myself reading and learning more. If it is porn you mean then not really, I find so much porn out there rather comical. I think someone pointed put that I am sapiosexual I think which means are more interested in the persons mind and not just the body

Joh

milkymilo yes it is certainly worth a visit I hear from all the tourists that I get to meet.

Why do guests come to you?
I assume they won't be helping on the farm, but are on holiday. Are they coming to go hiking, or fishing, or mountain biking, or climbing, or just to do nothing? Or is it a good placed to do different sightseeing?

Sasha

milkymilo Thanks for the reply. I hadn't heard that term before but it's great you know who you are attracted to like that.

milkymilo

Sasha I think there is a terms for everything now. I think really it is more I mean I am attracted to someone's personality more than anything so just seeing a naked body or sex physically only is not unappealing just not overly arousing for me

youdontknowme

milkymilo From an acespec perspective, I totally understand that bit. Nudity without context is not attractive or repulsive, it just is, and regular porn ranges from "why show me this" to "so what" to "this seems silly".

Personally do not relate to the sapiosexual term though since I find it frequently overused by people who want to communicate "I'm not shallow" - plus I personally prefer platonic relationships with the people I find intellectually attractive.

milkymilo

youdontknowme fully agree with the labels. I am just me and what I am, I am not there to impress lol...jus be me. You are so correct so many of these terms are overused by people.

milkymilo

Joh it's a holiday bed and breakfast set up. And yes hiking and fishing and hunting are big attractions here.

milkymilo

Damien many highs and not many lows other than the physical of adjusting to the belt and changing habbits

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