StrictButCorrectFather She was ok with trying it and now it is getting quite challenging for her because she says the urge is getting stronger.
But she still is ok with it...? (email in profile, just in case)
What are some good rules for my daughter?
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There is a big difference between agreeing or being forced to wear the CB for 24/7.
I don't know if she is of age in your country at 18, but I assume so. In other words, you are restricting her rights and forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do. You are clearly making yourself liable to prosecution. So don't be surprised that we are supporting you.
Sexual development is a right that everyone has. Preventing it just because it doesn't suit your point of view is a crime.
You want her to concentrate more on her tasks. If she can't satisfy her desires, it will put more stress on her and she will be less focused on her tasks.
Your imagination, execution and reality do not match. Whether you like it or not. That's why you won't get broad support for your plan here.
If you were really a responsible father, you would reconsider the whole thing. If you want to get her to focus more on the tasks then talk to her and convince her what is a good way. Accept your fatherly duties and guide her instead of forcing her.
youdontknowme Who is her mother? My wife! Wasn't that obvious?
Open bathroom door, no. Bedroom door possibly but not the bathroom.
Checking her devices is an absolute no. Restricting erotic content is ok, but she should have input on that.
Observing her orgasms, wtf no way! If she’s allowed the break it’s her free time leave her be. Lights out at 10, not a bad idea.
4 per year? Why that arbitrary number? One a week, two weeks, monthly can be performance based and adequate to relieve the tension. Or IF she agrees, none at all.
That’s my input on those suggestions
I will add my thoughts on your proposed rules.
A consistent bedtime is a good idea for everyone's health. 10PM is a reasonable time for young adults with later time on Friday and Saturday.
If you are supervising your daughter's belt because she has agreed for its help, then you should mutually agree on the frequency of her organisms. It seems creepy and wrong for you to want to watch when they are permitted. What is the purpose for this?
It seems unnecessary and improper for someone to watch an 18 year old while they shower to prevent masturbation. It is just as effective to limit the amount of time spent in the shower. And it saves on hot water.
Inspecting cell phones is also unnecessary and, as other have stated, an invasion of the privacy of an adult. There are parental monitoring apps that are available that will block access to objectional material and report material that you want to forbid. The continued presence of the apps on the phone can be verified without inspecting the phone.
I am in favor of parents (or others) helping people be accountable when they want the help. Forcing unwanted help on independent adults is likely a mistake.
i forgot the most important thing, what does your daughter think about your ideas for the rules? would she agree with one or more of your ideas? i think you've got a few opinions here now, discuss it with the person it concerns
what you are doing is unacceptable. if she did not agree to it, you are commiting a crime by putting her in a chastity belt. if she has revoked consent, you are commiting a crime. It does not matter that the entire point of chastity is that the person has no control. This is irrelevant to consent law in almost every part of the world. if she only agreed to it for a specified amount of time and that amount of time is over then you are committing a crime. Actually no it's a crime either way since you're in a place of authority so it is as such statutory rape.
I am solely on this forum to prevent cases of abuse.
fwoifhne I am solely on this forum to prevent cases of abuse.
So you are the type of person that feels compelled to tell other people what is right or wrong, based on and motivated by your experiences in the past. Do I get that right?
Apart from the simple fact that all your efforts are waste of time and energy, given the setting of this being an anonymousä Internet forum, I find it completely inappropriate.
What you are doing is no different from a vegan person joining a forum for meatlovers and bbq enthusiasts for the sole purpose of telling everyone there how wrong they are.
Just a suggestion: Why not help people who actually apprecitate your help (e.g. volunteer in a community project, donate some time to elderly people who are lonely etc) rather that join a forum where - by your own admission - you simply do not belong.
fwoifhne Actually, porn is prohibited by law to be consumed by minors. Since she's 18, I hope it had be prohibited to her till now. I'm completely ok with house-roules still prohibiting it.
Besises, lights out at 10pm - how is someone supposed to perform in high school the next day when staying up late? He does need to be a responsible caretaker and make sure she can perform the next day.
I have recently put my daughter in chastity. I’d rather not answer your questions on the public forum. But feel free to email me at pigtailsam@onmail.com
@StrictButCorrectFather I'm still curious to hear if your daughter is still fine with bring belted, now that she's experienced it for a while. (In case you are not comfortable with answering in public, my email address is in my profile.)
Even as someone who wants chastity for a daughter if i ever have one I think these rules are too strict, especially in regards to privacy. I think removing doors and checking phones is inappropriate especially as she is a developing adult. Like if you have her in chastity to limit sexual activity there’s no reason to simultaneously invade her privacy in every imaginable way. Having a private room and private communication are the only ways for a person to feel safe and secure. And while i can appreciate why you’d want showers to be supervised if she is unbelted Id recommend instead setting a reasonable time limit. That way she doesn’t feel creeped on but still has little if any chance to masturbate.
As far as the 4 orgasms a year, that seems like just enough to be a cruel tease.