Hi. I am curious how was your first day in chastity. How did you react? Did you know that you get it/was it shock for you? How was your cb putting on?

    Lea

    i knew i'd get one. on the first day i had worn the cb for only 4 hours (the time was increased during training), it was a pretty bad feeling but like i said before we have another theme for it 😉

    how was it with you ?

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      My fist day was in mom's old belt

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        Lea My first day in chastity was pretty stressful. Masturbation urges and painful erections were constant. This was during the weekend so it was easier to handle. The first week was not very fun, but after that I got used to it.
        J

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          Lea

          I advice you to read @Ines' linked topic,it is very useful to know how we felt,and discuss your feelinsg,too.

          Vanessa The first time,it was some mixed feelings:I was angry to have to wear it,but mostly felt sad and humiliated;and a bit scared too.

          I was more angry and frustrated a bit after,when I discovered I was totally unable to get an orgasm while I had it on,and fighted it a lot(I still do it),and it was true there is no way to take it off without the keys.

          I never accepted it willingly,only reluctantly,and I still feel very sad and angry sometimes,but manage such feelings better,most of times(even if it still happen I cry due to it,especially if my urges are strong).

          On my first day I felt trapped. I remember it was very uncomfortable and I thought all the time about things that have to change now and how I can handle anything. It was completely clear that I was on my way to 24/7 wearing.

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            How long did it take for you to manage it better?

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              Angelina It was shock for me, i did not expect it. It was SO uncomfortable (still is :/). So you wore it wilingly during training 😮

              Laura ? Why did you try it?

              Johnathan How do you deal with erection?

              Vanessa it is still not very good :/

              Sara2001 Same for me :/ I still think what will be next and what will be impact of cb on me :/

                Lea Why did you try it?

                Because I didn't have my own yet by that time. To see how it works.

                  Laura Because I didn't have my own yet by that time. To see how it works.

                  Let my try a guess:
                  Your mom wanted to convince you to wear a cb. Then you tried her old one, which was possibly a little too wide. You found it not too restrictive and agreed to order one. Once delivered, your new cb was fitting and much more secure as expected.

                  Am I right?

                  At least for me, it was like that. When i agreed, i never expected it as that secure and escape-proof

                    catherine98 Your mom wanted to convince you to wear a cb.

                    Pretty much yes. Excepting I knew already I was supposed to wear one, so it was like a demo session.

                    catherine98 Then you tried her old one, which was possibly a little too wide

                    I would say it was a little loose for me.

                    catherine98 Once delivered, your new cb was fitting and much more secure as expected.

                    Mine was fitted better than hers for sure.

                      Lea t was shock for me, i did not expect it. It was SO uncomfortable (still is :/). So you wore it wilingly during training 😮

                      Not exactly,I think.The chastity belt was used against her will,and a training is part of it.You had no training?

                      Lea it is still not very good :/

                      It will take time to accept,and I don't think we can be used to it.

                      Laura Mine was fitted better than hers for sure.

                      It helps to make it more comfortable,but the counterpart is it is much more secure.

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                        @Lea

                        yes it is very hard in the beginning and I have fought strongly against it 🙁, it is a little better now but I still fight 🙁

                        @catherine98

                        did you really think that the belt you ordered would be less escape-proof than your mother's?

                        @Vanessa

                        i also think that a certain training time is important, i think you also have to adjust psychologically to the belt, which lea couldn't do 🙁

                          Lea I just learned to supress them. Now they occur less frequently.
                          J

                            Angelina yes it is very hard in the beginning and I have fought strongly against it 🙁, it is a little better now but I still fight 🙁

                            Very natural reaction.By the way,have you managed to reduce your fights?Any news about your diary,and your father's opinion?

                            Angelina did you really think that the belt you ordered would be less escape-proof than your mother's?

                            Probably not,but hoped it won't be as escape-proof as it is.Probably thought it would be a bit loose,enough to defeat it.At least,it is how I understand her post.

                            Angelina i also think that a certain training time is important, i think you also have to adjust psychologically to the belt, which lea couldn't do 🙁

                            Yes,there should be a training for it,to increase it progressively.And it can allow to check if there is no health problem while wearing it,too.

                            Johnathan

                            How long did you need to manage it?

                              Angelina did you really think that the belt you ordered would be less escape-proof than your mother's?

                              Did i say that? I was guessing for Laura.
                              My mom wore a cb before her marriage. I have never seen anybody in a cb before I got mine.
                              But at least, i imagined it as less secure, before i got it

                                catherine98 But at least, i imagined it as less secure, before i got it

                                I guess you were shocked and worried,when you noticed you were wrong about it...

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                                  Vanessa It took me the first week and most of the second week to learn how to supress it.
                                  J