James
James You never slap their face, either (as much as women love to do that sort of thing).
James, what is the source from which you extract that girls like slap faces?
I think only accurate thing that you said in this post is that, in general, girls like to have a solid and kind man that make us feel safe.
strictfather I contined to propose her to give the example or her daughter will feel the cb as a punishment more than a protection.
Absolutely right, in fact I think, reading your comments, that at the moment, the only girl that could be advisable wearing a CB, is your wife, if she agreed it.
Of course, in my opinion, you should keep the keys, and you would send two powerful messages, firstly that you are in charge, I think that your daughters see you as fairer authority, and secondly that their mom wearing a belt is not sad, humilliated or shows anxiety. They will see a belt as the symbol of a calmer authority (you) taking control about a much more strident authority.
I think that wear a belt, can provide your wife a more proactive approach in therapy, and can boost the results of psychologist.
If all becomes calmer and anger and hostilities in you home go down, then you can propose your girls usage of the belt. Your daughters would be more used to see it, and it will not have any negative charge, in fact it could be seen as an element that solve problems.
I guess you grounded your daughter in order to correct a dangerous behavior and not as a vengeance, so if she improve the marks, the behavior and she starts to wear a chastity belt, there is not reason to maintain her grounded.
About the keys, I think, you have to maintain the keys of your wife's belt. You are the head of family, and you have to be seen as the calm and lovely authority, so give the daughter authority can be very cool and democratic, but it is a nonsense, and first stone for a new chaos: it is create in your home another little leader. You have the key and the girl the padlock, this is the way that it can run softly. And I am not saying that you tirannize your wife or abuse her. It is your responsibility make her happy. And you can not fail.
In a first moment, while there are tensionate relationship between your daughters and your wife, if finally your girls agree to wear a belt, you have to hold the keys too. They see mom happy, so dad is not bad keyholder, he is realistic, he is fair and generous, and relationship with mom is not in its best moment, and we can distrust about how fair can be she as keyholder.
When relationship in your home improve, for sure it will do, you should sit with your girls, and propose give one of your daughters keys to your wife, for the daily management of breaks, surpervised showers, if you want make some similar, and that kid of things. In my case, I love my father, but I am more comfortable talking with my mother about the period, or about toilet.
Anyway, belting or not, you should talk with your wife, and achieve to make a solid stone, in which, your girls can trust.
@strictfather , this is my opinion, but I wrote it with my heart in my hand.
