@a_father really please stop talking a rude way, you can't rule people what they should or shouldn't say, especially to a moderator. You are trying to abuse almost everybody for the reason I can't understand. Whatever it is, go troll people somewhere else.

a_father but it's a free world and I can ask what I want.

you can write whatever you want πŸ˜‰

a_father This is a talk between parents.

but everybody else can write what they want and this is a forum where everybody can write

and @Ines and @Tere have often described quite clearly how the conditions in the family are regulated

Angelina

Good decision.

a_father I know, that a lot of people here don't like what I write but it's a free world and I can ask what I want.

Think about it on a different context.On a board talking about Peugeot's car,with several people using one,and some liking to use a Peugeot,you come,and tell to the ones they like to use these they should not...After some time,what would happen?You would likely be told it is not the appropriate place for you,and if,you insist,you would be banned.It is the same here.If you want to talk with us,you're welcome,but if you still are agressive to @Ines and close to trolling,you should leave,and find another better place for your talks.

8 days later

Angelina I have a son and a daughter. Of course, I can only speak of myself and the relationship with my children. But at least in my circle of friends, all parents think the same way (and my parents, who unfortunately have died for a while, told me exactly that later). Parents love their children and hope that this love will be returned. They also often think about how children will think about their parents later when they are adults. In addition, no one wants to be alone in old age and without contact with the children.
And this is where I would start. If there is no argument and everything is fine, I would ask without warning; "What do you think our relationship will be like in 10 years, like when you are old?" At the momement he can blackmail you, and force you to wear what you hate, but at the latest when you are 18 years old, that will change. No matter what happens then, nobody can send you to a children's home or foster parents. You have to know yourself how to use this lever. If he slowly realizes that he is losing you and you, as an adult, do not forget what he did, it should slowly arrive in his head. Believe me, the biggest fear of "normal parents" is losing contact with the children. What you do in the future is up to you. What matters is what he BELIEVES, what you do. It must also be clear that you have evidence of everything. Your strongest sword is the (believed) future. Put yourself in the position of a mother. What would be your biggest concern? I hopee you understand, what I want to say. How you bring this in his mind is your task (I don't know your father and, believe me, it's better for him).

    a_father but at the latest when you are 18 years old, that will change. No matter what happens then, nobody can send you to a children's home or foster parents

    the problem is when i am 18, my girlfriend is 16 and we are not married yet, and i am going to study and need financial help from my father

    a_father Put yourself in the position of a mother. What would be your biggest concern?

    that my child does not love me

    a_father I hopee you understand, what I want to say.

    i understand very well what you want to say but that's not the point. to be more precise, i love my father and my father loves me. we have a very close relationship and have a very honest and open relationship with each other. of course i hate to wear these devices on my body and yes i am often angry and very frustrated but i also try to see the big picture. my father takes care of everything i need to live, even more, he spoils me very much. my chastity is only a small part of my life, that i write a lot about it here is because it is the main topic of this forum. if it were a forum about music i would write almost only about music. so i want to emphasize that i see my whole life as a whole and yes chastity is one of the things i don't like but in general i am happy in my life and i don't want to break off the relationship with my father. do you understand what i mean?

    i hope you understand what i write my english is not so good

    Ines I was not fully convinced those things actually simply rolled along till I saw it myself πŸ™‚

    Ines

    Ines are you mad at me for writing with a_father?

    • Ines replied to this.

      Ines No. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Of course I am not!
      Mafia style is not my Way.

      That’s what Ines says before she calls for the Brute Squad.

      • Ines replied to this.

        right now I think there are more important things to think about than a chastity belt or an orgasm of a daughter. for example the hope that the family remains healthy and alive. I say this as a closed person in the house with my wife and two daughters hoping that the coronavirus does not enter the house. in such a difficult moments like this, you can understand that certain ideas are a luxury that you can only have when there are no bigger problems to think about. however, apart from the terrible moment that I am living, I can confirm that the idea of ​​chastity belt is, in my opinion, a solution to the consequences but not to the causes. And it is better to solve the causes rather than ignore them and think only of hiding the problem under a piece of metal.

          Ines

          sorry i had to ask that

          it seemed a little like you wanted to prevent or sabotage the conversation (no offense πŸ˜‰ )

          but then everything is fine πŸ™‚

          strictfather

          You live in italy, right?

          i hope you stay healthy πŸ™‚ and that you will survive this difficult time πŸ™‚

          strictfather I hope you stay healthy. Your daughter was already have I got sex with a boy that's why you came here originally right? In curious if she still has a relationship with this boy and how things went. And @Angelina I did not know camryn is younger then you I hope everything works out when you go to school. And yes I think the whole "you can do what you want when your 18" is not true in today's world economy where we all need to pay for school with money we don't have. It's just something young people have to deal with today.

            Natescage where we all need to pay for school with money we don't have.

            Luckily this is not necessary in Germany. University is almost free (a few hundred bugs a year) and your parents must pay for your education and if they don't have enough the state will give you the money, many don't even have to give it back.

            Natescage And @Angelina I did not know camryn is younger then you I hope everything works out when you go to school. And yes I think the whole "you can do what you want when your 18" is not true in today's world economy where we all need to pay for school with money we don't have. It's just something young people have to deal with today.

            Maybe it's because there are so many posts, but what exactly are you referring to?

              Angelina the economy enables this kind of control because we can't afford school and we need it to be successful. That's what I'm getting at there a lot of control against out generation from government and economy. At least your dad seams to agree the gov is too controlling.

                My father removed all my panties for months, so I had no other underwear but a chastity belt.