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Angelina

I would consider this a rather level-headed review, but two key facts are being missed in there:

The fact that we are against forcing people into chastity does not mean that forced chastity never comes up here, just that the well-being of the victims matters more than the desire of the perpetrators. Those who lock up unwilling people find no sanctuary here, those who are locked up unwillingly do.
There is a diversity of opinion regarding gender roles here. Yes, some of the most present voices here argue for gender roles that have women and girls submit in sexual matters, but even among those, it is usually in the context that the women in their peer group want to submit, and plenty of voices in here are also quick to point out that women who want to be strong and independent to decide for themselves should have the opportunity to do so.

Ines

youdontknowme
Yes, I agree, but, in general it is accurate, and much more important is that he finds it boring.
Nice.

Angelina

Philip Also I think the author has badly missed the point of the forum.

well, he writes that it is actually uninteresting for fetishists, so he understood it from my point of view haha 😂

youdontknowme

of course he didn't understand everything and there are a few mistakes, but the forum is big and he was referring to the "basic tenor"

PS: however, i liked that he wrote about the friendly atmosphere and that we are good at answering technical questions, it shows that the forum generally works as it should 🙂

Joh

hanna_anders I ignore it because for me it makes no sense to answer Valadar. I suppose even if no one answers him, it will just stop when he gets no response to his statement.

Tonyand03

Joh I find that every time I log on to this forum I have to read that thread first. I've no idea why, except that it's as compulsive as poking at an aching tooth.

hanna_anders

Angelina it’s a very weird review, sounds like it was written by a horny teenage boy. Hopefully he and his friends will be so turned off by the description they won’t bother us.
I did like the phrase “insane virgin bitches” though 🙂

Philip

Angelina I suppose it did get that assessment correct. I would imaging that this forum would be fairly uninteresting to most fetishists. Not like this site is splattered with explicit images.

To be fair i would think that most folk would find my interests boring as sin.

Angelina

Philip To be fair i would think that most folk would find my interests boring as sin.

yes, me too as a non-fetishist. but i think everyone has their own story and should be allowed to tell it freely. i'm generally not a fan when something like that can be found on a fetish site, but if it's explicitly discouraged that fetishists visit the site, i think this kind of negative advertising is good 😉

Philip

Angelina Actually that is a very nice way of thinking. Hopefully it will put off fetishists from exploring this forum.

Angelina

Philip

i hope so too and if not, the fetishists should adapt to us and not the other way round. 😉

Angelina

@Laura

Quick question, I would like to update my profile text, but the whole text doesn't fit in, the field is too small. Do you have an idea what I can do about it, or can you do something about it? 😂

Laura

Angelina How much do you need? It was 800 chars, I have increased to 1000 😂

Angelina

Laura How much do you need? It was 800 chars, I have increased to 1000 😂

i was at about 1100 chars, but i will shorten it, then it should fit 😂

Laura

Angelina i was at about 1100 chars, but i will shorten it, then it should fit

Just let me know how many chars you need now and in future

Angelina

Laura Just let me know how many chars you need now and in future

thanks, i think i can do it with 1000 characters 😃

Angelina

I shortened and updated my profile text, it worked in almost 700 characters 😃

Kaja

Hi, @Ines,
can you please delete some of new spam messages? They are much of them in allmost all of conversations...

Please...

Ines

Kaja
Hello, @Kaja, yes, some of them will be moved or erased.

Joh

@Ines Why is my comment edited?
stefan's whole behaviour is like from a teenager and not from a 40 years old men. His over activities and pushing his question on everyone without spending much effort to find the information by himself is for me like he is on a sugar-high of a 5 year old kid.
To my question regarding his kind of relationship and if talked with his wife he post unspecific answers. I think he is not what he try to pretend.

Ines

Joh Why is my comment edited?

Hello, @Joh , I was trying to give him a chance.
I know your intention is good, but when moderation team is working, trying to solve a situation, it should be enough.
You can see that even I edited your post, I did not reproach you anything.
You can see gradation in mod work reading @Laura messages.

Angelina

Ines Hello, @Joh , I was trying to give him a chance.

that's good too, thanks for that. only when someone uses half of his first 50 posts to write contentless things that can have an intimidating effect on other users, something has to be done.

a question @Laura, @Ines. to make it easier for users like stefan, it would certainly be useful if you could read a user's posts the other way round. when i go to a profile, the latest posts are always on top. Is it possible to create a function so that the oldest posts are also displayed first?

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