Reasons for chastity

Vanessa

Sara2001

Good you can correct it before he looks at it,but you have several additional lines to copy again if you made a mistake,instead of being allowed to correct it if you noticed it!

Angelina i have to write an essay of 20 to 50 pages,

It is a lot!

Sara2001 The worst was 2.000 and I ended with ca. 2.700.

Not easy too!Can you tell us what offense was punished with so many lines?

Angelina I think you write those lines on your computer, don't you?

It would not be useful.It could be made easily by copy/paste...

Sara2001

I guess it is more likely to make mistakes when copying an essay instead of always the same line,right?

Angelina

Even if,at the end,it would exceed by far the supposed length?

Sara2001

Vanessa Not easy too!Can you tell us what offense was punished with so many lines?

It was for continuous back talking in combination with bad language. 2 years ago I was in a very rebellious phase. I tried out my borders and became very disobedient and disrespectful, at least for this family. I started to push my borders, especially I disagree on unplanned tasks I have to do immediately. So I should have known better but I didn't.

It coats me the full autumn holidays to write it.

Vanessa I guess it is more likely to make mistakes when copying an essay instead of always the same line,right?

Yes, but my writing has to be perfect when I write lines, when I copy essays or other text the rules of perfection are not that strict and it's ok to mark the sentence with the ruler and rewrite it again unless it's less then 3 times per page. Then I have to rewrite the page.

Angelina What was the worst essay you had to write how long did you need and what was the offence?

Angelina

Vanessa It would not be useful.It could be made easily by copy/paste...

I didn't think of that at all. 😂

Vanessa Even if,at the end,it would exceed by far the supposed length?

if that is the case i usually get an additional topic so that the length is not too long, or i have to write off the contract again

Sara2001 What was the worst essay you had to write how long did you need and what was the offence?

about 2 years ago i came home at 3am at night during the week and almost overslept the next day (my father had to wake me up to get me to school on time) that was very annoying and the essay was 48 pages long at the end

Vanessa

Sara2001 It was for continuous back talking in combination with bad language. 2 years ago I was in a very rebellious phase. I tried out my borders and became very disobedient and disrespectful, at least for this family. I started to push my borders, especially I disagree on unplanned tasks I have to do immediately. So I should have known better but I didn't.

It coats me the full autumn holidays to write it.

Very hard punishment for these offenses,but I guess it was for all the offenses,and your father may have wanted to use it to end this rebellious phase(if it was the case,did it worked?).

Sara2001 Yes, but my writing has to be perfect when I write lines, when I copy essays or other text the rules of perfection are not that strict and it's ok to mark the sentence with the ruler and rewrite it again unless it's less then 3 times per page. Then I have to rewrite the page.

Ok,it is adapted to the difficulty of the writing,good.

Angelina if that is the case i usually get an additional topic so that the length is not too long, or i have to write off the contract again

Good he adapts it to the length of the initial punishment.

Angelina about 2 years ago i came home at 3am at night during the week and almost overslept the next day (my father had to wake me up to get me to school on time) that was very annoying and the essay was 48 pages long at the end

Long one!Had you a curfew,and broke it?

Sara2001

Vanessa Very hard punishment for these offenses,but I guess it was for all the offenses,and your father may have wanted to use it to end this rebellious phase(if it was the case,did it worked?).

In our family the second punishment for the same reason in a short time is harder then the first, the third is harder then the second and so on. He definitely wanted to and this phase and I have to say that it worked.

Vanessa Ok,it is adapted to the difficulty of the writing,good.

I think it's not realistic to have the same quality with copying a long text. I think copying lines is close to calligraphy.

Angelina

Vanessa Long one!Had you a curfew,and broke it?

i currently have a curfew of 10pm in the week, 2 years ago it was 9pm, so i broke that curfew very far

Vanessa

Sara2001 In our family the second punishment for the same reason in a short time is harder then the first, the third is harder then the second and so on. He definitely wanted to and this phase and I have to say that it worked.

Same for me.If it is a repeated offense,the punishment is harder(and it's pretty logical).Generally,I've to stay one month without doing an offense again to not consider it as a repeated offense.

Sara2001 I think it's not realistic to have the same quality with copying a long text. I think copying lines is close to calligraphy.

Right;especially several pages of text.

Angelina

Yes,6 hours late is very late!And even more as it meant you came back in the middle of the night...

If I was that late,I would have got a very severe spanking and cornertime,a long grounding and an earlier curfew for,probably,several months(and it could still happen when I've a curfew).

BikelockFugitive

Sara2001 Only a meds student can cram a bachelor thesis on 50 Pages lol.

Angelina

Vanessa

I was also grounded for 3 months and had a curfew of 7pm for another 6 months

but I've learned my lesson 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Strict punishment(and long one),but it was not illogical.

I guess you hadn't an essay needing 3 months to write,however!😉

Angelina

Vanessa

no, luckily I finished my essay after 2 weeks 😉

but for the rest of the time I was restricted to school and my room 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

Even with leisures allowed,I imagine it was still very frustrating for you!

Angelina

Vanessa

of course especially because house arrest means that I have to stay in my room and even have to tell my father when I want to go to the toilet 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

Oh,very humiliating if you have to tell it...A very bad part of the punishment!

Are you allowed to eat with him or have to eat in your room?

Angelina

Vanessa

i get to eat with my dad, as i wrote before, i also cook 😉

but I am not allowed to leave my room until my father allows it 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

If you cook,better you could leave your room for it,yes!😉

I hope he doesn't make you wait when you have to go to the toilet...

Angelina

Vanessa I hope he doesn't make you wait when you have to go to the toilet...

I tell him and then it is allowed, this was never a problem 😉 I am not locked in my room 😉

HHelen

Angelina i just still can't understand why

Because they think they are adult now and feel too much freedom.

Angelina

HHelen

your daughter is 18 years old, she should have this freedom, you can limit this freedom with the belt

HHelen

Angelina your daughter is 18 years old, she should have this freedom, you can limit this freedom with the belt

I had the rights to rule her before 18, so the belt with her consent as result of this freedom.

Vanessa

Laura

So you had time to accept it.

Laura

And,usually,during university,there is more sex(one night stand,short relationship,etc...).

Angelina i just still can't understand why

As I said,after starting university,there is often more sex.

Laura

Vanessa And,usually,during university,there is more sex(one night stand,short relationship,etc...).

These are the consequences of lack of parental control

Angelina

Vanessa As I said,after starting university,there is often more sex.

that's right, on the other hand you have to keep in mind that in many countries girls are 18 years of age, it is usually the point where parental control should end and not begin

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