Angelina both, but about the cb I still have to talk to camryn's parents, even if I'm a bit afraid of the conversation 🙁

i would choose what makes camryn happy 😉

I fear for you that their reaction is not very open about it. I hope it doesn't lead to a situation you don't want. Most parents are open to premarriage sex these days but feel a chastity belt is a very strange thing. Maybe they could accept the you have to wear one, but because camry is still very young they probably feel that it would be very irresponsible from their point of view to allow this. I still believe forced chastity could lead to psychological problems and I think they maybe won't be able to strictly separate between forced and consensual wearing, especially because it is not her wish but sometimes she has to accept to stay together with you. The worst thing would be if they think that your family is a bad influence for her. I hope everything went well. I think you should be VERY VERY CAREFUL with this topic. Maybe you should introduce your chastity belt first, so you get a better idea how they could react and then you should wait a few weeks to tell them about your plans with her.

      Sara2001

      so the talk will probably take place next weekend at camryn's home, my father will be there as well. i have now spoken to camryn for a long time, because she knows her parents best and can best estimate when it is time to have this talk. camryn's parents are very open and friendly and see how happy camryn is in the relationship.

      we have first discussed that camryn does most of the talking and i will keep quiet and hold back unless i am asked. my father will also keep quiet unless he is asked or the situation could escalate. we will calmly explain the situation and ......

      hope for the best

          Angelina

          I agree with @Sara2001,I think they could easily react very badly,and may decide that Camryn should not date you anymore...It would have been better to keep it secret,at least for a very long time.

          Telling them about it,and even more so soon after you started to date,and that she had to wear it,is not a very good idea,I think.

          I hope it would be going well for you,but I'm not sure at all it would be the case.

              Vanessa I hope it would be going well for you,but I'm not sure at all it would be the case.

              My biggest concern is that she is very young. My parents would NEVER allow my brother to make such a decision at the age of 14. They are way more responsible for her at this age as with the age of 16 or 17. I still think it is a very high risk. I think you should definitely start with your situation and see how they react. But keep in mind that if they react badly it could mean they can go to the police and bring your father in MAJOR trouble.

                  Sara2001 My biggest concern is that she is very young. My parents would NEVER allow my brother to make such a decision at the age of 14

                  camryn is very young that's true, but she is physically and mentally very mature for her age, otherwise i never would have started a relationship with her. i need someone who is on the same level with me 😉

                  you write it yourself your parents would not accept it. but camryn's parents are very different from your parents (as far as i can tell)

                  @Sara2001, @Vanessa

                  like i said i would probably have done it later, but camryn knows her parents very well and said that it is the right time because our relationship is best right now because we are very much in love. a fresh love is always more romantic than when we have been together for a couple of years. we talked to my father afterwards and he thinks that honesty is best and i just have to trust that it will work out. if we explain the situation calmly, i think we can succeed

                      Angelina i think we can succeed

                      I really, really wish you the best. But I really fear for you, too.

                          Sara2001

                          i am also very scared of it 🙁

                          but I trust camryn and that she knows her parents very well and knows how to best discuss it 😉

                              Angelina you write it yourself your parents would not accept it. but camryn's parents are very different from your parents (as far as i can tell)

                              Sure,but it is an unusual situation.

                              Angelina like i said i would probably have done it later, but camryn knows her parents very well and said that it is the right time because our relationship is best right now because we are very much in love. a fresh love is always more romantic than when we have been together for a couple of years. we talked to my father afterwards and he thinks that honesty is best and i just have to trust that it will work out. if we explain the situation calmly, i think we can succeed

                              I understand the argument about fresh love being more romantic,and it may be the case.But not sure it would play a major part in her parent's reaction.

                              Angelina

                              Let us know how it went;even if I fear it could easily don't be good news.

                                      Vanessa

                                      i talked to camryn about it yesterday, mainly because i am afraid of the conversation. camryn said that she would not let this break up our relationship, but i would make her very happy if i talked about it honestly. i don't know if it is good, but camryn wants to and my father thinks it is best because camryn's parents are part of my family after the wedding

                                          Angelina

                                          How would she act if her parents tell her she's not allowed to date you anymore?

                                          Not a problem if they're part of your family after the wedding,as you won't use a chastity belt after your wedding...

                                              Vanessa How would she act if her parents tell her she's not allowed to date you anymore?

                                              camryn is sure that this won't be the case because it has no influence on our relationship in the sense of improvement or deterioration. we are happy together and just because camryn's parents now know our secret doesn't change our relationship

                                                  Angelina

                                                  I hope she's right,but if they forbid her to date you,she could not be able to discuss it or make them change their mind...

                                                      Vanessa

                                                      i am very nervous before the interview tomorrow 🙁

                                                      camryn has already done some preliminary work. she already told her parents what it will be about tomorrow, she said that my father does not want us to have sex before marriage and that we should talk about it tomorrow

                                                      so far they have reacted positively, but this is understandable, because not many parents like it when their daughter has sex

                                                      i hope they remain positive when they see what measures my father is taking

                                                      anyway, camryn said that it would probably be best if we made the cb and the rest of my equipment as positive as possible

                                                        Angelina

                                                        Very good it went so well,I doubt a lot they would accept it.

                                                        It seems the main fact was she is very happy with you and the fact she only have to wear it during your dates.

                                                        I understand it was a hard and intense talk,but the outcome was good,so it was worth it.

                                                        Her parents haven't asked for a copy of the keys,in case of need?

                                                        Is she "happy" to get her own belt soon?Anyway,it should be your grand mother who does it(maybe with your help),not your father.Or her parents,but I doubt they would accept.Or he could use the measure of your precedent belt(the one she wears presently).

                                                            Vanessa Very good it went so well,I doubt a lot they would accept it.

                                                            I thought the same. For a family that has no relationship to chastity devices they where extremely open. I think any parents of my former classmates would have freaked out.

                                                            Very good for you.

                                                            Why don't they want to see if? Aren't they curious if it is comfortable for her?

                                                            I have to say that I don't really understand their reactions.

                                                                Sara2001

                                                                How they've reacted is very surprising,yes,and especially,as you stated,as they're not used to know much about chastity devices.

                                                                Angelina that was the main point, camryn's parents know that we are very happy and believe in our relationship despite all "circumstances" 🙂

                                                                Sure,but these circumstances are very unusual!

                                                                Angelina the belt is always unlocked at my home, therefore it is not necessary

                                                                Do they totally trust you(and your father)to never ask her to keep wearing it even at her home?

                                                                Angelina as soon as she has her own belt, we are allowed to sleep in the same bed together

                                                                Very good!It should soon be the case for Emilie and me,too!🙂

                                                                But,even if Emilie's parents accept it,it is ony the case this way.Even if my parents would allow it(which would never happen...),her parents would not accept Emilie and me sleep in the same bed in their house.Another proof that they tolerate,but dislike,the sexual orientation of their daughter...

                                                                Angelina I will take the measurements, my father will explain how to do it and watch us doing it. camryn will keep her underwear on so she is not naked in front of my father.

                                                                Better to do it this way.

                                                                Angelina this was all discussed in detail

                                                                Probably one of the reasons why the talk was long and intense.

                                                                            7 days later

                                                                            Angelina she wears the cb on all our dates. her parents do not want her to wear the cb if she does not have any dates. so she would never wear the belt more often than now. my father does not want camryn's parents to get a key because he is afraid that camryn will be unlocked

                                                                            I understand it,but I'm surprised they trust your father so much about not asking her to wear it more.But good this way.

                                                                            Your father opinion is understandable,even if it works only as her parents haven't asked for a key.

                                                                            Angelina in which house it doesn't matter, but the first times it will take place in my house, because if camryn doesn't make it through the night in the cb, someone has to be there who has a key

                                                                            Right,wise decision.How long was the longest time she worn it(even if it was your first belt)?

                                                                            Angelina it would be imaginable at least for him, because camryn's parents give in very easily which means if camryn would ask her parents to let her free, they would do it

                                                                            Not surprising,even more as they don't want her to wear one,but only accept it as it is her choice to accept to wear one.

                                                                                  Sara2001

                                                                                  it would be ok in a case of emergency, the problem is that I would be punished 🙁

                                                                                    Sara2001

                                                                                    Sure,but easier to unlock it.

                                                                                    Angelina

                                                                                    I'm still surprised by her parents' decision about the keys,but,if everyone is ok and happy with it,it is the most important part.

                                                                                    It would be a bit longer to wear it during the nights together,so.Maybe you should try for a longer time before...

                                                                                        Angelina on our trip last saturday she made 10 hours 😉

                                                                                        So it seems she would be able to wear it during the night,good for you both!🙂

                                                                                        Even if I think it is harder to sleep well with a chastity belt on,especially when not used to it.