Abstinence belt

Angelina

don't you think that a wedding would have a special meaning? it is a bit more symbolic than saying you are now 17 (or 18) and therefore you don't need the belt anymore

shinydiamond77

Angelina

I don't think that it's necessary to use the belt all the way up until marriage. The main goal is to keep the private area locked up until a certain age. After that, it's no longer needed.

Vanessa

Angelina actually i always thought it was the first years after the wedding 🙂

It would be logical,but I think it is more frequent during the student years.

In your case,if what you plan for your wedding work,you would be newly married and a student!😉

Angelina right, but I think it is better to have a fixed plan, I think then there will be less discussions

Token should be given on a specific day,and used once only,to not be in the same case than @Amira who was not in the mood during her opening day,but wanted to do it a lot a few days after...

Angelina

Vanessa In your case,if what you plan for your wedding work,you would be newly married and a student!😉

if we put our logics together it would mean twice as much sex as for anyone else 😂

Vanessa Token should be given on a specific day

i know what you mean and yes the thing with @Amira has shown that your idea is sometimes better, but it definitely leads to more discussions, which could be worse

Vanessa

Angelina if we put our logics together it would mean twice as much sex as for anyone else 😂

It's what I meant!😉

Angelina i know what you mean and yes the thing with @Amira has shown that your idea is sometimes better, but it definitely leads to more discussions, which could be worse

It should be clearly defined at the start.

Jonas

It is secure against sex(except oral sex).

Angelina

It depends how we define an abstinence belt.

Angelina to end their chastity at some point 😉

It's the case for us too,except the point where it would end would be when married!

Tobbe You can order most chastity belts without any second shield, except for MySteel which has a design that does not allow to remove it.

Unhappily...

Jonas

Angelina

"every good belt is secure"

Agree, for chastity belts. "Abstinence" belts not so secure!!

Angelina

Jonas Agree, for chastity belts. "Abstinence" belts not so secure!!

since it is about the way of wearing, i think it is not right, an abstinence belt can easily be made into a chastity belt. 😉

Tobbe

Angelina an abstinence belt can easily be made into a chastity belt.

It all depends on what chastity belt model you have. If it is delivered with the shield, it is simple, but if it has been ordered without, there may be no attachment points.

Angelina

Tobbe

but every belt can be unlocked and locked, then it is removed for breaks and put back on again afterwards. 😉

Fatherof3

Angelina Very true. My belt broke in October. I had to use a ball trap device while waiting on parts. Im Happily back in my belt now. No worries. 😃

Tobbe

Angelina But then we not talk about an abstinence belt, converted to be a chastity belt, when the perforated shield locks over the slit..

Angelina

Tobbe

an abstinence belt is nothing more than a chastity belt worn only to prevent sex and not to prevent masturbation.

no manufacturer sells abstinence belts and it is not about the construction of the belt but about what is "done" with the belt.

shinydiamond77 I don't think that it's necessary to use the belt all the way up until marriage. The main goal is to keep the private area locked up until a certain age. After that, it's no longer needed.

a rather rare opinion which i very much support, however, because it means that the girls are sure to end their chastity at some point 😉

Tobbe

Angelina no manufacturer sells abstinence belts

You can order most chastity belts without any second shield, except for MySteel which has a design that does not allow to remove it.

Angelina

Tobbe

i am aware of that, that is not my point. i just want to say that by taking short breaks to masturbate, any chastity belt can be turned into an abstinence belt. it was never about the construction but about the way it is worn.

Jonas

Vanessa It is secure against sex(except oral sex).

I think masturbation is a sexual act and, of course, anything a wearer can do for themselves, another could do for them. This isn't security imo.

Angelina

Vanessa It's what I meant!😉

good idea 😉

Vanessa It should be clearly defined at the start.

right, that is definitely the most important point

Vanessa It's the case for us too,except the point where it would end would be when married!

but most of us do not know if and when we are married. the 17th or 18th birthday is clearly defined. 😉

Vanessa

Jonas

Yes,an abstinence belt would not prevent the wearer to be masturbated by a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Angelina good idea 😉

😉

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,an abstinence belt would not prevent the wearer to be masturbated by a boyfriend/girlfriend.

well, it depends on the definition. in my opinion, an abstinence belt can also mean that the belt or only the secondary shield is removed as soon as you are alone.

Vanessa

Angelina

In this case,yes,it would avoid any sexual contact with a boyfriend/girlfriend,while still being an abstinence belt.

Angelina

Vanessa

i even think it can be more comfortable. i can't judge but i imagine masturbating with a belt on (without a secondary shield) can be a bit uncomfortable.

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