Tobbe Then she also have full access to the keys.

i would not say that you always need full access to the keys to wear an abstinence belt

HHelen Well, it's not a fear, I just don't see a reason for it. Just cons and no pros.

well, in my personal opinion i completely agree with you. i only ask because many parents see it differently

shinydiamond77

interesting, you approach the topic chastity belt differently than most other parents

          Ines

          I don't think so.I know I would have less troubles to accept it if I've some releases.And it seems it is the case for other wearers too,based on their experiences like @catherine98(which have releases every other Sunday),or @Amira(who have tried some time with no openings).

          However,I agree it should be willingly,of course.

          Laura

          Yes.Not sure it is needed,however,but the student years(at university or similar)are generally the most sexually active years.

          Angelina probably, but how big the difference is varies 😉

          Sure.

          Angelina this could perhaps be prevented by planning the openings of the belt beforehand

          I think it can be better to plan the openings,in this situation(or use "tokens" given at a planned time,but the wearer can decide when to use these).

          Tobbe

          It can be used this way too if the purpose is to only protect her virginity or avoid unwanted pregnancy and some STD.

                      Vanessa )are generally the most sexually active years.

                      actually i always thought it was the first years after the wedding 🙂

                      Vanessa I think it can be better to plan the openings,in this situation(or use "tokens" given at a planned time,but the wearer can decide when to use these).

                      right, but I think it is better to have a fixed plan, I think then there will be less discussions

                            shinydiamond77

                            don't you think that a wedding would have a special meaning? it is a bit more symbolic than saying you are now 17 (or 18) and therefore you don't need the belt anymore

                                Angelina actually i always thought it was the first years after the wedding 🙂

                                It would be logical,but I think it is more frequent during the student years.

                                In your case,if what you plan for your wedding work,you would be newly married and a student!😉

                                Angelina right, but I think it is better to have a fixed plan, I think then there will be less discussions

                                Token should be given on a specific day,and used once only,to not be in the same case than @Amira who was not in the mood during her opening day,but wanted to do it a lot a few days after...

                                      Vanessa In your case,if what you plan for your wedding work,you would be newly married and a student!😉

                                      if we put our logics together it would mean twice as much sex as for anyone else 😂

                                      Vanessa Token should be given on a specific day

                                      i know what you mean and yes the thing with @Amira has shown that your idea is sometimes better, but it definitely leads to more discussions, which could be worse

                                            Angelina

                                            "every good belt is secure"

                                            Agree, for chastity belts. "Abstinence" belts not so secure!!

                                                Jonas Agree, for chastity belts. "Abstinence" belts not so secure!!

                                                since it is about the way of wearing, i think it is not right, an abstinence belt can easily be made into a chastity belt. 😉

                                                    Angelina an abstinence belt can easily be made into a chastity belt.

                                                    It all depends on what chastity belt model you have. If it is delivered with the shield, it is simple, but if it has been ordered without, there may be no attachment points.

                                                        Angelina But then we not talk about an abstinence belt, converted to be a chastity belt, when the perforated shield locks over the slit..

                                                            Angelina

                                                            I don't think that it's necessary to use the belt all the way up until marriage. The main goal is to keep the private area locked up until a certain age. After that, it's no longer needed.

                                                                Tobbe

                                                                an abstinence belt is nothing more than a chastity belt worn only to prevent sex and not to prevent masturbation.

                                                                no manufacturer sells abstinence belts and it is not about the construction of the belt but about what is "done" with the belt.

                                                                shinydiamond77 I don't think that it's necessary to use the belt all the way up until marriage. The main goal is to keep the private area locked up until a certain age. After that, it's no longer needed.

                                                                a rather rare opinion which i very much support, however, because it means that the girls are sure to end their chastity at some point 😉

                                                                      Angelina no manufacturer sells abstinence belts

                                                                      You can order most chastity belts without any second shield, except for MySteel which has a design that does not allow to remove it.

                                                                          Tobbe

                                                                          i am aware of that, that is not my point. i just want to say that by taking short breaks to masturbate, any chastity belt can be turned into an abstinence belt. it was never about the construction but about the way it is worn.

                                                                            Angelina if we put our logics together it would mean twice as much sex as for anyone else 😂

                                                                            It's what I meant!😉

                                                                            Angelina i know what you mean and yes the thing with @Amira has shown that your idea is sometimes better, but it definitely leads to more discussions, which could be worse

                                                                            It should be clearly defined at the start.

                                                                            Jonas

                                                                            It is secure against sex(except oral sex).

                                                                            Angelina

                                                                            It depends how we define an abstinence belt.

                                                                            Angelina to end their chastity at some point 😉

                                                                            It's the case for us too,except the point where it would end would be when married!

                                                                            Tobbe You can order most chastity belts without any second shield, except for MySteel which has a design that does not allow to remove it.

                                                                            Unhappily...

                                                                                          Vanessa It is secure against sex(except oral sex).

                                                                                          I think masturbation is a sexual act and, of course, anything a wearer can do for themselves, another could do for them. This isn't security imo.