Vanessa

there are definitely worse girls than you,
but outside of your adventures I think you are a great girl 😉

but my father always asks exactly the same question, he expects the same from me. so he can uncover misbehaviour 🙁 but he always says, who does not ask must not expect an answer 😉

      Angelina there are definitely worse girls than you,

      I think it too,I was not ashamed of my sexuality,and my desires,but not a slut.

      Angelina but outside of your adventures I think you are a great girl 😉

      Thank you(I guess)!

      Angelina but my father always asks exactly the same question, he expects the same from me. so he can uncover misbehaviour 🙁 but he always says, who does not ask must not expect an answer 😉

      Even if you omit voluntarily something forbidden,for example,if he asks for something more general,but not specifically about the rule you break?

      Let's say,you go to a party when you were forbidden to go and you aren't caught;if your father ask you,the next day,"Have you slept well?",you can say "Yes,I had a good sleep!",while not telling you disobeyed,and it should not be considered as lying?

              Vanessa

              if I slept well despite the party it's not a lie 😉 even if it's unlikely that my father didn't notice it

              i may hide things, but i may not lie. however, my father always asks very precisely so that hiding is almost impossible 🙁

                  Angelina

                  Yes,it is not technically a lie,but very close to it...

                  It seems he knows well how to adapt to his rules to not be trapped in his own rules,and so,not give you some way to manipulate these to your advantage!

                      Vanessa

                      exactly, therefore it is very important to discuss the contracts in detail and to talk regularly about the rules and contracts 🙂

                          Vanessa

                          the contract will be discussed in detail at the signing and discussed at least once a year, but both my father and I can ask if we can discuss certain aspects again 😉

                              Angelina

                              Good it is reviewed regularly,and,even more,that you can discuss it if there is a need and not have to wait for the next review.

                              Is there often changes to the contracts during the review or not much?

                              Is it possible that,during a review,a contract is discarded?

                                  Vanessa

                                  there are mostly only few changes, it happens that contracts give me more freedom because I get older 😉 but it can also lead to a contract containing stricter rules than before 🙁

                                  so far no contract has been discarded but only changed 😉

                                      Angelina

                                      I understand contracts being less strict as you get older,but why some are stricter?

                                      Some examples?

                                          Vanessa

                                          Let me give you a very obvious example

                                          my contract about my chastity became stricter after I was in a relationship

                                              Angelina

                                              Classical to get a later curfew when we get older,but pleasant,sure.

                                              Generally,do the rules get easier or stricter?

                                                  Vanessa

                                                  generally easier, which is of course because I got older, but I also got more obligations

                                                      Angelina

                                                      Not that much.He could think you would rebel more as you get older,if you've too much freedom.

                                                          Vanessa

                                                          then he would question his own education 😃

                                                          he always says that his upbringing makes me a good woman 😉

                                                              Angelina

                                                              I agree partly with him.Even if some women are more rebellious,and will stay that way,education plays a part in it too.