😅 another thread to read completely in the queue

but starting for the recent posts..

Vanessa It is not uncommon that the "newlyweds" go away for some time to enjoy the wedding night,before coming back to the party!😉

I also was thinking something like that, if we have to wait until that day, for sure we are more important that any party (as I think my partner is always more important than any event, other persons or things), and for sure that can be handled properly at any moment just after ceremony, time enough until the banquet 😄

Also, as mentioned before, the performance is not the same after time/tired, so better assure leaving a first good impression!

      Something here that is about the threads question, every girl should be in chastity... Does that include Trans girls too?

        Sara2001 From my understanding this is common in other countries, but I have never seen this in Germany.

        then you have never been to a farmer's wedding 😉

        Daphne Does that include Trans girls too?

        in my opinion yes, but i have a liberal view. conservative people might see it differently. 🙂

              Angelina then you have never been to a farmer's wedding

              I think even countryside it's not common anymore. Almost all couples have sex before marriage anyway.

                  Sara2001 Almost all couples have sex before marriage anyway.

                  It happens a lot in my country too.

                      Rina It happens a lot in my country too.

                      I think I is the norm everywhere except in some parts of Africa and the Muslim World. I would say that >95% of couples outside of these areas have sex before marriage and >85% had sex with someone else before. But this is just my guess, I don't know any statistics about it.

                        Angelina in my opinion yes, but i have a liberal view. conservative people might see it differently

                        I agree with it hence why I'm permanently in chastity myself

                            Sara2001 Almost all couples have sex before marriage anyway.

                            that's true, but as a child i was at a wedding where the couple "withdrew" for a few hours at night. i now know why. 😉

                            Daphne I agree with it hence why I'm permanently in chastity myself

                            as long as you are happy, that's ok. besides, i don't think in terms of gender so much as i set the same premises for men and women. 😉

                                Vanessa Common in Spain?

                                In Spain is not common to wait until wedding, well, at least I don't know anybody did that (friends, etc) because if don't know the details for all, at least I knew if they were not living together before marriage, they spent holidays together, and things like that.. Is very common living together before marriage.

                                I can't talk about everybody, so is why I say "common"

                                I think you are from France, and it's true in the past Spain was "delayed" compared to other european countries like France with that let's say "free love" from the 60s..
                                Here we had old customs, heavy influence of church, etc.. but since 70s and 80s our parents become more europeans in their behavior and related to what they think acceptable for their sons and daughters..

                                I know you may be used to an example here 🙂 but I think she is a singularity, because I'll tell my experience and what makes me think that..

                                It's curious that the only girl I met trying to reserve her for the marriage was just the past year.. not when I was a young student.. nor she was not a young student, she was already working with some experience, and very polite and cult (even conservatory studies), and here also comes something funny, despite she was living alone in Madrid, she comes from a good family from the northern of Spain 😁 but I think is different longitude in the map 🙂
                                Well, at the end I realized everyone has his own audience, and I attract maybe more classy girls and also the kind of person what I like..

                                In other thread I told once I met a girl she was reserving until marriage, and I would cope with that at least if I'm free to balance the situation 😅 and/or if she helped with that.. And is not the same when you already experienced many things (no hurry to discover things in this field) and have temperance..
                                We aleady saw we were very compatible and could be more in most things and felt a connection, it was going quick.. and wouldn't be too much time because as told she was already working and if not, wouldn't delayed much more as I'm already stable and I could maintain both while necessary until she achieved her professional development.

                                But I decided to stop the incipient relation when we discussed more about intimacy and she clearly explained she was not very interested in "these things", just to fulfill duties towards her husband because she understood is necessary for him.. and to have children...
                                I could cope with the waiting, if I knew for example next year I was going to have a wonderful partner for life.. and I don't expect a perfect person, but at least not lack of libido/complicity/imagination/etc...

                                My non scientific conclusion is... nowadays, if a girl hasn't experienced intimacy relations is because she didn't felt that desire/need, often asexual people, that hard to believe, but exist..
                                Yes, with exceptions, I know... ¿semi-forced? girls in chastity.. I didn't knew any in real life..
                                or even willing wearers even with willpower for selfcontrol which also express their passion for the proper moment of release, and also later in hands of her partner, here is when I talk about singularities.....

                                I wish that girl had been another singularity, and able to find one! 🙂

                                    Maximus

                                    I think too it is very common to not wait until marriage nowadays,even if some men and women still prefer it(personally,all of my friends had sex without being married,and I already had several boyfriends/girlfriends).

                                    But I wondered if newlyweds "go away" a bit during the post-wedding party in Spain,or not!😉

                                        Vanessa But I wondered if newlyweds "go away" a bit during the post-wedding party in Spain,or not!😉

                                        I didn't get that because for me has no sense, when you already knows plenty well to your partner you are not waiting for that, and that day is more like "hurrying", with many people to attend... and a complete schedule..

                                        So common a "go away", isn't.. well, never saw that... never heard... nor anybody would think not seeing the couple is for that.. then good alibi if needed 😄

                                            When I was younger I worked at A LOT of weddings (enough to put me off ever getting married), and I can tell you no one ever has sex on their wedding day! 🤣

                                            When the bride and groom disappear it's usually to get photos with each other, then more photos with family, bridesmaids, groomsmen etc. Then if you're lucky a quick drink, freshen-up, toilet break (half-hour gone right there), make-up and hair check etc etc.

                                            So while it looks like they disappear to the guests, I can assure you there's no time for funny business when you're stuck in a wedding dress, you've had your makeup done and it takes two hours to do your hair!

                                            The rest of the night is about stressing over the little things... why isn't the cake out yet?! I can't believe this person wore white! Aunty Beryl's meal wasn't gluten free! The best man is too drunk! etc etc.

                                            When you finally get some time to yourself at 1am you need to undress (good luck), and all you can think about is showering and going to bed. Even if you've been waiting for this moment all your life, I can assure you your new husband is not gonna get it up at 2am after a day full of stress and drinking!

                                            Sorry to shatter the illusion but weddings are not romantic events! That's what honeymoons are for. ;-)

                                              Sin that's why I don't want the fuss dress and music only.

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                                                Sin and I can tell you no one ever has sex on their wedding day!

                                                The question is if they had before

                                                    Laura Everyone does! At least in Australia... I only know one person who was definitely a virgin when they got married, and he was a religious nutter.

                                                    All the "good" girls at school jumped straight into dysfunctional marriages, got knocked up early and now they're all divorced anyway (with excess baggage).

                                                        Sin Everyone does! At least in Australia...

                                                        That's what this topic is about 😂

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