Every girl should wear a chastity belt

Ines

Jane
You are still young, if you do not have experience it is much better that you first think about other options.
It is unlikely that without experience neither you nor your parents could face the challenge.
Wearing a belt may sound great and exciting, but many times it is exactly the opposite.

Angelina

Max9 or she does it like me and just drives there for a visit... abdbpays the belt herself... ok, I also only did it when I was full-aged... she'd have to take the train...

i believe if someone is a minor, that person will not be allowed entry.

Max9 depending on her looks. People usually estimate me 10 years older.

and i look 4 years younger, that's exactly why they do identity checks for things like this.

Renita but read similar story here recently.

yes me too, but that happens sometimes when we are in a forum for chastity 😂

Jane

so first of all i would advise you to talk to your parents about your problems, then think about alternatives. of course you can talk about the belt, but i wouldn't go directly full time or if so then only for a limited period of time. but the most important thing is that you talk to your parents about your problems, the solution can be sought afterwards.

Max9

Angelina and i look 4 years younger, that's exactly why they do identity checks for things like this.

do they? 🤷‍♂️ Can'r remember

Jane

Angelina Hi, do you think about what I wrote here, what I have, may I have problems, what can it cause? Yes, I slowly began to talk about the fact that I think I was worried about safety, so that I wouldn't slip on the wrong path, so that my sexuality and interest in it would not distract me from the essentials, obedience to school and so on. They acknowledge that it used to be better, that the girls were calmer, more focused and so wild, even in sexual matters, and that traditional values and order were right. And that they would like to help me somehow and the question arose. And that's exactly what it's all about, how to proceed, how to talk to them and possibly talk about the idea with CB. Don't know what to do next?

Angelina

Max9 do they? 🤷‍♂️ Can'r remember

I think with sexual things like that they would. if you look 30 like you, it's no wonder, but an acquaintance of mine had to show her ID for a beer when she was 22 (allowed in Germany from the age of 16)

Joh

Jane Belt can be for my safety, to avoid excessive sexuality, inappropriate behavior, excessive masturbation ... and the resulting lack of concentration or lack of interest in important things (school and other).

Do you see a risk for yourself?

James

Jane And that's exactly what it's all about, how to proceed, how to talk to them and possibly talk about the idea with CB. Don't know what to do next?

Jane To come back to my first question - why this sort of discipline? And what country are you from?

Because well, girls in 'those days' didn't wear belts - they had really strict and more restrictive discipline.

Joh

Jane nd that they would like to help me somehow and the question arose.

You should talk with your parents how they can great a guideline for you which help you to do the right things like learning for school, how to meet friends, what is the right behaviour, etc. You have to show you are working forward good grades and proper behaviour before it can be pushed further. Otherwise, they are sure to become suspicious and feel manipulated. This will surely cause a backlash instead of moving you forward.

By the way. Your posting are difficult to read what you want to point out.

Sin

Jane my sexuality and interest in it would not distract me from the essentials, obedience to school and so on... the girls were calmer, more focused...

Just a word of warning... I can't speak for others but I find a chastity belt heightens my feelings of sex and sexuality. Concentrating on mundane things (like school work) is much harder. There's no way it makes you calmer and more focussed, if anything it's a major distraction.

Angelina

Jane

@Joh is right, I hope I got that right now.

In my opinion, it is first of all important that your parents know that you should talk openly about your problems. your parents shouldn't interrupt but only speak after you're done. then you should work out solutions. you could use a piece of paper and write down alternatives with pros and cons.

you can also offer the belt as an alternative solution, just see how your parents react to it. if you did that and your parents don't completely reject the belt we can discuss further

Jane

Angelina
Yes, I talk to them. Today, according to your advice, I tried to write proposals for options such as various prohibitions and the like, or even a beating with all the pros and cons. Mostly, the negatives prevailed as I could cheat, it could be bypassed, poorly controlled, it was inefficient and so on. I also mentioned the chastity belt. They saw it with me so they asked what kind of paper it is. I said I was coming up with a solution. They more or less agreed with my comments and evaluation. They stopped at the CB and asked if I said it seriously or just for fun. When I said seriously. After a while, they carefully and perhaps shyly asked me how I found out and if it really existed and someone really used it. I said yes, I read about it and some really use it for a long time. You could see that they were wondering how it could be. So they probably aren't against it and it's a thing that probably interests them. At least in terms of how it is and works.
What should I tell them or what information and how to tell them next?

Joh

Jane
You should be careful evaluate how they further react. It could be that they worry you tend to go in a fetish direction. I would not force it. Talk of all option, pros and cons without focus on the belt. See what they say if you come to that point during the discussion.

Angelina

Jane What should I tell them or what information and how to tell them next?

the question is whether you think you can stand it and whether your parents are suitable key holders? it is good that they are not against it for the time being, but you should make sure that everything happens on your terms. it is best to create a concrete concept with concrete rules. choose a belt from the internet and show it to your parents. but if there are better alternatives, you should also think about it again.

Ines

I do not believe that not experienced key holders guided for a non experienced wearer can arrive to good destination.
You will need not only a constant attention, but also a constant guidance.
You should think in another possibilities.

Jane

Angelina
Thank you,
Could you help me advise some ground rules, how should it be? What should they contain? As I wrote, I expect long-term constant wear.
I was looking at some from my-steel.

James

Jane Thank you,
Could you help me advise some ground rules, how should it be? What should they contain? As I wrote, I expect long-term constant wear.
I was looking at some from my-steel.

Jane, I’ll say what I said before. Wearing a metal belt is not going to make you into a disciplined girl. Actually discipline will do that. While I’ve certainly devised and am in full support of discipline…that requires a system, and a belt alone, isn’t a system.

Angelina

Jane

i wear the mysteel total with continuous back part with anus hole and urinal holes. very comfortable and / but also very safe.

everything else, i'm sorry, i don't know you well enough. which rules are good for you, your parents and yourself know best, so i wouldn't comment on this matter.

But you can't start from 0 to 100, you would need a certain amount of training time.

but i would still recommend thinking about whether this is really the solution to your problems. it can be part of the solution, but it can certainly make your problems disappear.

Jane

James
thanks, but couldn't you write some more specific things or advice? For example, what do you mean by that system? what system? ...

Jane

Angelina what exactly model do you have? I have seen that it offers more options and combinations.
do you have anything else?
Yes, as James wrote, it wants a system and rules as well.

James

Jane thanks, but couldn't you write some more specific things or advice? For example, what do you mean by that system? what system? ...

I'm happy to be more detailed here, but we can have more of this conversation by email if you agree Jane, because it's not chastity specific at all.

Wearing a chastity belt may physically stop a girl from masturbation and increase her safety when it comes to sexual assault, maybe. But it wearing a metal belt isn't going to do much to prevent excessive sexuality or other levels of inappropriate behavior. Struggles with concentration are also not going to go away (will possibly get worse at times) when you are wearing a belt. Chastity belts are a pretty modern invention (last few decades at best) and while they have their benefits, wearing metal underwear is not going to address a number of things you identify.

You said, girls were "calmer, more focused and so wild, even in sexual matters, and that traditional values and order were right."

Remember, chastity belts didn't really exist in those times. Obediance was more caused by some very strict limits on what girls could do - limited time outside home, supervised activities, required study time, strict dress codes, chores, obedience tests and severe punishments for disobeying. So, less than the girls wanted to be calm than they learned to be silent and quiet and do as told. Now there are girls and ladies your age and older who still get treated like this, want it and like it (or at least tolerate it). However, it's the strict system and structure that enforces the 'calm, and traditional values and order'. Wearing a metal belt? Won't get to the outcome you're looking for. The belt can be part of such discipline sure, but an overall system and rules need to be worked out with your parents in detailed discussion.

Angelina

Jane

I have written above which model I have

here the link https://www.my-steel.de/total-chastity-belt-system-with-continuous-crotch-band-and-anus-hole-for-women

your other questions are difficult to answer, it is a very personal matter. why don't you suggest what you think the rules should be, then i can give an opinion

James

why should this be discussed by email, sorry but i don't know if, because if it's about a chastity belt it belongs here no matter what other aspects play a role

Sin

James we can have more of this conversation by email

I don't mean this as a personal attack against you specifically so please don't take this the wrong way, but I don't think it would be appropriate to take a conversation to email when it's regarding a child and what is or isn't acceptable behaviour. I think it's best if these conversations happen on the forum. Regardless of intentions, this could potentially lead to grooming and I think it's important that we are able to discuss these topics in the open, where differing viewpoints and opinions can be offered.

/Just sayin'!

Jane

James hi, so you can write xxxxxxxxxxxxx@yandex.com, and please write me more details about it.

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