Ines But what is it about it that makes you a "good" person? (I have no doubt that you are by the way!).
Or more specifically, why does it make me a "bad" person? How is it related to morality? Granted, you clearly have much more willpower than me. But am I somehow more evil now? Am I going to start torturing cute furry animals or something?
And conversely... there are many people who abstain who are what I consider "bad" people. Abusers in the clergy being a notable example. The point being that relieving oneself doesn't necessarily reflect on the quality of a person's character. There are good people who masturbate, and bad people who don't.
