High heels shoes

Tobbe

Foxies I would interested to add the chastity bra

I think that's a bad idea! Can possibly be used at nights, for shorter periods.
It locks the chest and makes it harder to breathe. The alternative, a full cup bra with padded cups is significantly better and makes it harder to touch the nipples. Not as safe as the metall chastity bra, but you can dress and breathe easier. Maybe a lock back at the bra buttoning to make it harder to take off.

Foxies

Tobbe It locks the chest and makes it harder to breathe. The alternative, a full cup bra with padded cups is significantly better and makes it harder to touch the nipples. Not as safe as the metall chastity bra, but you can dress and breathe easier. Maybe a lock back at the bra buttoning to make it harder to take off.

Oops - I didn't realise there was a difference 😅 The one I have (that I only have worn on a couple of brief occasions) has separate padded cups as you describe. When I wore it I could not touch my nipples but I could breathe without difficulty. It was awfully hot though ☹️

Vanessa

Foxies I have to admit that I would interested to add the chastity bra element to the relationship with my partner however both of us feel its a little too "BDSMish".

I think it depends how you consider it.But it is very hard emotionally.

Foxies Besides, finding the right clothing with my belt is bad enough without complicating it with a steel bra, not to mention more chains and padlocks.

I agree,a chastity bra make the choice of clothes even more restricted...

Tobbe

Foxies The most common chastity bra model is only two metal bowls, with silicone band around the edges.
If you read here, you will notice that many girls have problems with the chastity bra and heat, when it gets summer. A more airy model has been requested. @Angelina has one with home made drilled extra holes in the cups.

Vanessa

Foxies It was awfully hot though ☹️

I think it's always the case with chastity bras.

Foxies I am now wondering why she is asking 😀

It seems obvious!😉

HHelen

It can be hard,yes.Maybe if helped by someone.

Cornelia Hmm i do not know... but i do not want to give her ideas!

😉

Angelina another reason for me not to wear high heels thanks 😉

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Foxies

You should try it when it's not too hot.

HHelen

😉

Angelina

Foxies

well i have to disagree with you, if the bra is used seriously, it has very little to do with bdsm, but yes the choice of clothes will be much more limited

Tobbe . @Angelina has one with home made drilled extra holes in the cups.

exactly, @Foxies i have to be exact 2 bras. one for the summer with small air holes and one completely dense for the winter

Foxies

Angelina i have to be exact 2 bras. one for the summer with small air holes and one completely dense for the winter

How big do the holes have to be an how many (in each) cup to keep it cool. Do they compromise "security"? These questions are from my partner which is interesting lol. I am now wondering why she is asking 😀

I am wondering if the chains are bearable for every day wear?

Mary

I am only five feet three so fortunately I would look silly in six inch heels. 😂 But I agree that the look with heels also depends on what else you wear. One of the slight tragedies of my relationship with my partner is that she is eleven inches taller than me and the already huge discrepancy means she doesn't like wearing heels when we ae out together.

Mary

Foxies I agree: heels complete the professional look - but I'm always somewhat concerned about choosing the right height. Too low and they make me look like a a frump; too high and they suggest tramp. To make it more complex, for me it depends on what else I'm wearing. Yet, when I get it right the look is very satisfying. All in all, it's well worth the trouble.

Laura

Mary it depends on what else I'm wearing.

Thighbands?

Mary

Laura .... what Clothing I'm wearing: skirt, dress, blouse, jacket, scarf, ....

Mary

Foxies Unfortunately, the connecting chain is bearable for everyday wear. I managed when I went to work every day and now that Covid keeps me at home most of the time I have no excuse for not wearing it. Depending on my mood, it's something I'm insanely proud of or something I've learned to live with.

Angelina

Foxies How big do the holes have to be an how many (in each) cup to keep it cool. Do they compromise "security"? These questions are from my partner which is interesting lol. I am now wondering why she is asking 😀

well, my father used the smallest drill, so better more holes but only small holes. in order not to influence the safety negatively, the holes are also not on the nipples but only in the outer area

Foxies I am wondering if the chains are bearable for every day wear?

Do you mean those for the shoulders?

HHelen I can't imagine thighbands and high heels together.

another reason for me not to wear high heels thanks 😉

Cornelia Hmm i do not know... but i do not want to give her ideas!

is also better this way 😉

HHelen

I can't imagine thighbands and high heels together.

Tobbe

HHelen I hope no one does. The risk of falling and injuring is never worth combining them.

Cornelia

Vanessa Only if they have the key for the chastity belt!😉

Oh yes 😃

Vanessa Do you think she would like the idea?

Hmm i do not know... but i do not want to give her ideas!

Foxies

Angelina Do you mean those for the shoulders?

Sorry yes. I mean the extra chains and locks that keep the chastity bra secured. Can you hide them or can you no longer wear open blouses? And how uncomfortable are they? I have worn mine on only a couple of occasions but only for an hour or so and not taken it too seriously.

Cornelia

Angelina is also better this way 😉

Way better than to wear that bra.

HHelen

Angelina another reason for me not to wear high heels thanks

I think your dad can make an exemption from the thighbands while you wear your high heels. Locking high heels might help to convince him.

Angelina

Foxies

i didn't know you had a chastity bra

no i don't think the chains are too uncomfortable, you just have to be careful that the bra doesn't get too tight on top. clothing of course is a very big problem

Foxies

Angelina i didn't know you had a chastity bra

When we bought the belt I now wear (the original was a cheap Chinese one just to see if I could even manage one at all) we also purchased the thigh bands and chastity bra at the same time. But up until about two weeks ago we never seriously considered me wearing anything but the belt. I had tried the bra and thigh bands a couple of times just to see what they were like but basically they stayed in the closet. Then a couple of weeks ago we decided to try a months trial of the thigh bands. If this is a success (and I can still function 😅 ) then this will become 24/7 in that I will lose all access to the keys for them.

I have worn the bra on a couple of brief occasions but we never considered me seriously wearing it up until we started reading the threads here. My partner feels I should be fully accustomed to the thigh bands before we take the final step towards seriously contemplating me being locked in the bra.

Mary

Foxies Take thigh band wearing gradually and carefully. Eventually, it will become second nature.

Incidentally, I found that I could wear heels and the thigh bands. The connecting chain had to be of the right length but it was certainly possible. With practice, patience, perseverance, and the right technique, it too became second nature.

Angelina

Foxies

if you are serious decided about it, it should not be the cheap chinese bra, but a reasonable custom-made one that is also suitable for longer wear.

Foxies

Angelina

The bra I own is not Chinese (nor inexpensive 🤣 ). But I am not quite ready to submit to it again either. The last time I wore it we had gone out for dinner and my partner forgot to put the key on her neck chain. I was so hot it was awful and though she sympathized, there was nothing we could do until we got home. It rather put us off repeating the exercise despite the fact the basic concept is something we would like to adopt.

Angelina

Cornelia Way better than to wear that bra.

that's right, even if it would make your equipment complete 😂

Foxies

Do you mean hot in the sense of too hot temperatures or in the sense of sexual arousal?

the solution is quite simple, when you are ready to test the bra again, you should check that your partner really has the keys with her, this is generally a very important point, also for the belt

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