High heels shoes

Mary

Foxies Unfortunately, the connecting chain is bearable for everyday wear. I managed when I went to work every day and now that Covid keeps me at home most of the time I have no excuse for not wearing it. Depending on my mood, it's something I'm insanely proud of or something I've learned to live with.

HHelen

I can't imagine thighbands and high heels together.

Tobbe

HHelen I hope no one does. The risk of falling and injuring is never worth combining them.

Angelina

Foxies How big do the holes have to be an how many (in each) cup to keep it cool. Do they compromise "security"? These questions are from my partner which is interesting lol. I am now wondering why she is asking 😀

well, my father used the smallest drill, so better more holes but only small holes. in order not to influence the safety negatively, the holes are also not on the nipples but only in the outer area

Foxies I am wondering if the chains are bearable for every day wear?

Do you mean those for the shoulders?

HHelen I can't imagine thighbands and high heels together.

another reason for me not to wear high heels thanks 😉

Cornelia Hmm i do not know... but i do not want to give her ideas!

is also better this way 😉

Vanessa

Foxies It was awfully hot though ☹️

I think it's always the case with chastity bras.

Foxies I am now wondering why she is asking 😀

It seems obvious!😉

HHelen

It can be hard,yes.Maybe if helped by someone.

Cornelia Hmm i do not know... but i do not want to give her ideas!

😉

Angelina another reason for me not to wear high heels thanks 😉

🤣

Foxies

You should try it when it's not too hot.

HHelen

😉

Cornelia

Vanessa Only if they have the key for the chastity belt!😉

Oh yes 😃

Vanessa Do you think she would like the idea?

Hmm i do not know... but i do not want to give her ideas!

Foxies

Angelina Do you mean those for the shoulders?

Sorry yes. I mean the extra chains and locks that keep the chastity bra secured. Can you hide them or can you no longer wear open blouses? And how uncomfortable are they? I have worn mine on only a couple of occasions but only for an hour or so and not taken it too seriously.

Cornelia

Angelina is also better this way 😉

Way better than to wear that bra.

HHelen

Angelina another reason for me not to wear high heels thanks

I think your dad can make an exemption from the thighbands while you wear your high heels. Locking high heels might help to convince him.

Angelina

Foxies

i didn't know you had a chastity bra

no i don't think the chains are too uncomfortable, you just have to be careful that the bra doesn't get too tight on top. clothing of course is a very big problem

Foxies

Angelina i didn't know you had a chastity bra

When we bought the belt I now wear (the original was a cheap Chinese one just to see if I could even manage one at all) we also purchased the thigh bands and chastity bra at the same time. But up until about two weeks ago we never seriously considered me wearing anything but the belt. I had tried the bra and thigh bands a couple of times just to see what they were like but basically they stayed in the closet. Then a couple of weeks ago we decided to try a months trial of the thigh bands. If this is a success (and I can still function 😅 ) then this will become 24/7 in that I will lose all access to the keys for them.

I have worn the bra on a couple of brief occasions but we never considered me seriously wearing it up until we started reading the threads here. My partner feels I should be fully accustomed to the thigh bands before we take the final step towards seriously contemplating me being locked in the bra.

Mary

Foxies Take thigh band wearing gradually and carefully. Eventually, it will become second nature.

Incidentally, I found that I could wear heels and the thigh bands. The connecting chain had to be of the right length but it was certainly possible. With practice, patience, perseverance, and the right technique, it too became second nature.

Angelina

Foxies

if you are serious decided about it, it should not be the cheap chinese bra, but a reasonable custom-made one that is also suitable for longer wear.

Foxies

Angelina

The bra I own is not Chinese (nor inexpensive 🤣 ). But I am not quite ready to submit to it again either. The last time I wore it we had gone out for dinner and my partner forgot to put the key on her neck chain. I was so hot it was awful and though she sympathized, there was nothing we could do until we got home. It rather put us off repeating the exercise despite the fact the basic concept is something we would like to adopt.

Angelina

Cornelia Way better than to wear that bra.

that's right, even if it would make your equipment complete 😂

Foxies

Do you mean hot in the sense of too hot temperatures or in the sense of sexual arousal?

the solution is quite simple, when you are ready to test the bra again, you should check that your partner really has the keys with her, this is generally a very important point, also for the belt

Cornelia

Angelina that's right, even if it would make your equipment complete 😂

Well for now i am happy 🙂

Angelina

Cornelia Well for now i am happy 🙂

I also meant it more as a joke 😉

HHelen I think your dad can make an exemption from the thighbands while you wear your high heels. Locking high heels might help to convince him.

hmm, i think the only advantage for my father would be that i would never complain about thigh bands again because the high heels are worse. 😂

Ines

HHelen Locking high heels might help to convince him.

🤨

Vanessa

Ines

🤣

Angelina because the high heels are worse. 😂

You haven't wear high heels long enough to be sure of it!😉

Cornelia

I hope for you too...

Cornelia

Not a good hint...I got mine while they haven't discussed about it in front of me,I guessed it because I knew there was an ad for it in My-Steel box when a chastity belt is bought,and I've seen something that could be this ad on the desk of my father a few time before I got it...

Angelina well, i think you can influence that by not giving her a reason to do so 😉

Right,better to take care of it.

Angelina I tried high heels at home and have to say that thigh bands are more "comfortable". 😂

But only for a few minutes,if i remember well.

Angelina it's a matter of getting used to it at least a little bit.

Sure.If you wear high heels more often,you would be used to it,and maybe even like it!😉

Cornelia Yes, so i do not want to mention that at all.

Wiser.But if you're pretty sure she would buy it,you may have to have a talk with her before the order is done.

Cornelia

Angelina I also meant it more as a joke 😉

Well i hope that my mother will stop with new ideas...

HHelen

Angelina i would never complain about thigh bands again because the high heels are worse.

Especially since you never had a chance to compare.

Angelina

Cornelia Well i hope that my mother will stop with new ideas...

well, i think you can influence that by not giving her a reason to do so 😉

HHelen Especially since you never had a chance to compare.

I tried high heels at home and have to say that thigh bands are more "comfortable". 😂

Cornelia

to be honest, i think it's similar to the thigh bands. i think it's a matter of getting used to it at least a little bit.

Cornelia

HHelen Especially since you never had a chance to compare.

Well depends how long you have heels on and do you walk a lot.

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