Place for dates

Laura

Renita She can always bring a boy home

My parents think differently. I'm not allowed to bring boys home despite the belt.

Vanessa

How can you date someone,so?

Sure,you can date and meet him outdoor only,but if the relationship have to become serious,some intimacy,in your home or his,is needed(even without sex...At least for you,you still can use your hands and your mouth,if you want to give pleasure to a boyfriend,or to a girlfriend).

Laura

Vanessa How can you date someone,so?

Go somewhere outside.

Vanessa At least for you,you still can use your hands and your mouth,if you want to give pleasure to a boyfriend,or to a girlfriend).

That's also not appreciated although they can't prevent it

Vanessa

Laura Go somewhere outside.

Do they allow it?

Laura That's also not appreciated although they can't prevent it

Yes,they don't like it,but it can't be prevented as easily as intercourse and masturbation.And I think they probably know I do it to Emilie.

Renita Probably c and e for me too.Even if they won't like I do things "above the waist" too.

Laura Thank you for the nice list. I think we should start our own FAQ.

I agree.

Renita

Laura I'm not allowed to bring guys home at all

Even when they are not at home? In any case, I would not inform them of my relationship.

Laura

Renita Even when they are not at home?

That could be another kind of rebelling. Sure it's possible, but useless, because the belt.

Sara2001

Laura If a guy visits a girl at home and stay there for a longer time it's obvious to everybody what they are busy in.

That's different here. Even in our village it will be hardly noticed and even if so nobody cares.

Laura

Sara2001 it will be hardly noticed

Hardly noticed you are with a guy?

Sara2001 and even if so nobody care

Same here, but my parents care

Sara2001

Laura Hardly noticed you are with a guy?

Beeing with a guy is just normal. Nobody cares if it is just a friend or your boyfriend and even if it is you boyfriend they don't care what you do.

Laura

Sara2001 Beeing with a guy is just normal.

Being with a guy is normal, bringing a guy home is not normal, because it assumes sex between non-married people. That's my parents' position.

Ines

Laura
Same in my case. I have never dated a boy yet, but my sister has go out with some boy, and It was not a tragedy. It is a normal thing.
But go with a boy to home... I think I do not like the idea myself. In my opinión It Is not a correct behaviour.

Sara2001

Laura Being with a guy is normal, bringing a guy home is not normal,

Here in Germany it is totally normal.

There are tons of reasons why a boy can visit me at home like having a school project together.

Vanessa

Way too much to answer everything,I summarize a bit some answers.

Angelina

These rules were hard,but good the camera one was discarded and that is your grandmother,and not your father who care about showering.Hard to not be able to touche these parts at all,sure.A shower without the chastity devices on every 3 weeks?I'm not sure it is without risk,especially about hygien...

Angelina

In my opinion,it is harder,or even impossible,to make a man wear a chastity cage/belt(in a chastity belt for man,generally,the penis is in a tube inside),especially as it it way more painful for him to become erect in it than for us to become wet under the belt(my twin is totally unable to make love to his girlfriend when punished this way,it hurts him way too much to be aroused...).And,if worn for a long time,not sure there is no risk of damages.I thought not,but AmericanGraffiti(on misterpoll)had experienced it and seemed to have trouble after...

Laura

Not much problem about it,especially if he/she was approved,but looked closley to be sure we aren't having sex(if I was not belted).Even if I often find other times/places to be intimate,even with partners who haven't got the approval.

Sara2001

I think it is soon to allow him to spank you.Maybe he should ask to be allowed by your father each time he feels you "need" to be punished that way,at first?

I can't say I feel wrong you want to use your hand to service him sexually,at I often have sex with Emilie,even if belted and forbidden to do it...But prepare to become very aroused and frustrated!

Laura

Ines But go with a boy to home... I think I do not like the idea myself. In my opinión It Is not a correcta behaviour.

I agree. Coming with a boy to your bedroom rather to a dinner with your parents, for example, is mauvais ton. If you wish to do it, do it secretly somewhere outside home.

Ines

In my case, if would like a boy, first at all I would say it to my parents, and there will not be problems if I date an afternoon to go cinema, or go get some drink or talk. Over all, i would worry to be serious about distances. I am a little slow with decissions and I need know well before start as sweeties.
But arrive home with a boy? Of course me with my belt and parents present? No, OMG, i will die for shame .For me is unaceptable idea.

Angelina

in public i am allowed to meet with boys because i am bi the same danger goes out from both sexes with me. going home with someone or taking them with me is so far only allowed to my best friend because my father knows that i do not start a relationship with her

my father would only allow it if he met him before.

Laura

Sara2001 There are tons of reasons why a boy can visit me at home like having a school project together.

It's clear for everybody if boy and girl are in date or just colleagues.

Sara2001

Laura It's clear for everybody if boy and girl are in date or just colleagues.

Looks like this is different in Canada then in Germany but even if they think I would be in a relationship, nobody would think bad about me.

Laura

Sara2001 Looks like this is different in Canada then in Germany but even if they think I would be in a relationship, nobody would think bad about me.

I'm actually in the US, but it's mostly depends on your family, rather than country.

Renita

Sara2001 nobody would think bad about me.

Everyone thinks different.

Laura

Angelina You opinion is right 🙂 Especially since I'm not allowed to bring boyfriends home

Angelina

Laura

not even if you want a steady relationship, i think your mother would like to meet your future husband after all

Angelina

Laura Especially since I'm not allowed to bring boyfriends home

i know 😉 but for me this statement has opened a new question 🙂

Laura

Angelina That's not what @Esteban suggests 😃

Vanessa

Angelina not even if you want a steady relationship, i think your mother would like to meet your future husband after all

She can meet him outside,or they both have to be with her mother during all the duration he is in the house,too.

newbie

It is fair.But male chastity is more hard and dangerous than female chastity.