Hi, I am new here, avoiding lots of other sites that are fetish oriented, as my purpose isn’t even close to fetish.

So my realtionship with parents aren’t really good, they don’t know what chastity is, but my reason for chastity isn’t for that. Rather, I want to devote myself to be chaste until I get together with my cross border partner.

I have a cross border partner. Due to pandemic we can’t get married or live together despite we really want to. At same time I want to alleviate my bottom dysphoria (I am MTF transgender), I also want to keep myself from sexual acts like masturbation until I become together with my partner.

My parents are quite liberal about sexual acts including masturbation, but I want to devote myself to be chaste until I become together with my partner. My parents don’t know about what it is and wouldn’t even want to know about that in detail, and moreover, I wouldn’t be able to trust them to be holding keys. Moreover, my parents will think I am crazy if I ever say anything about chastity belt. They would say “does it ever really exist?!” to me since they are liberal people who don’t think chastity is really that important.

My partner basically saved me from completely breaking down and provides lots of emotional support. My partner isn’t willing / interested to hold keys, so it will make me to have to control myself. (Which would be hard but possible, I guess?)

My partner says she would be okay with me wearing chastity belt, and I am planning to wear it until I get together with her and live with her.

How would I be able to convince my partner to hold keys? It would start with convincing her that it is not bdsm thing what I want.
I am looking some brands like Fancy Steel, and Fancy Steel seems to offer good products for MTF transgenders. Have anyone tried Fancy Steel before?