In my case, if would like a boy, first at all I would say it to my parents, and there will not be problems if I date an afternoon to go cinema, or go get some drink or talk. Over all, i would worry to be serious about distances. I am a little slow with decissions and I need know well before start as sweeties.
But arrive home with a boy? Of course me with my belt and parents present? No, OMG, i will die for shame .For me is unaceptable idea.