Sex on the first date

Ines

Angelina
Yes, It is very hard, specially if families are conservative. In my family, we are not radical, but in general we are against abortion.
For that is so important education of the girls. You know my position, I would like my daughters accept to wear a belt, but anyway, girls have to have in mind what suppose a pregnancy in our own lifes.
If you decide go on with pregnancy, correct in my wiew, a baby is very demanding and you will have to make extra efforts.
And if the girl aborts, consequences are horrible. A girl in my class, she is going a year late, she is 18 currently. She was pregnant with 15. For pressures of the mother she aborted. Now is the day she is half crazy and she celebrates the birthday of the son that never was. Terrible. I can assure you.

Angelina

Ines

i agree with you, i am also against abortion, because (as you noticed) it can have severe psychological consequences for the girl. should my daughter become pregnant unintentionally, i will support her and convince her to keep the baby

I think the most important thing is a good education and talks about contraception

Vanessa

Angelina it could help, my main concern in this case would be an unwanted pregnancy, it would be very difficult, especially because I would never force my daughter to cb, it would be extremely difficult 🙁

Yes,but if she's careful,it could be avoided.I'm,as you know,pretty open about sex(but not a slut!),but I've always took care to be protected(pills+condom).

Ines

If I've a daughter and she's pregnant that soon,I would prefer she don't abort too(it can be devastating emotionally and,if there is problems during it,she can be sterile after it),but I would let her choose.If she decides to not abort,I would help her as much as I can,and I would do my best to let her be a mother but be able to finish her studies too.It is harder,but with support of the family,it is still possible.Even more if the boyfriend keep his responsabilities,too.

Angelina

Unwanted pregnancies,especially this soon,can be hard,but with support of the family,like you would too do,it is manageable.

I think too such talks are very important.

Angelina

Vanessa

i agree with you on all points. the most important thing is that many conversations about contraception take place, but if the child is already on the way, it is important to stick together as a family and support each other 😉

a cb is not a good solution for this and I would only use it if my daughter wants to do so

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,talks about her behavior and about contraception,help if it's too late,and no forced chastity belt wearing are important points to manage a good family life,even if not in the perfect setting.

If she would accept to wear one,however it would be very different.

Angelina

Vanessa If she would accept to wear one,however it would be very different.

of course, then there would be a solution, but it would definitely not be the first thing I would suggest, but rather the last resort (and only voluntarily)

Vanessa

Angelina of course, then there would be a solution, but it would definitely not be the first thing I would suggest, but rather the last resort (and only voluntarily)

If suggested too soon,or too abuptly,it can make her refuse it a lot(like for @strictfather's daughter).But if she admits her behavior is not perfect,or that she flirts too much,you can propose it as an help for her.I guess the first reaction would be "No way!",but if presented this way,she would probably think at least a bit about this possibility.

Angelina

Vanessa

my daughter would definitely have the advantage that she could decide for herself when to wear the belt, i would never lock her when she is at home, only if she decides that she cannot wear the cb it will be extremely difficult to find another way 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

If she would tell you she is ok to wear a chastity belt,you would let her decide when and how long to wear it?Or mainly basic rules like "only when outside or alone at home"?

Christine

I agree !😉

Angelina

No!😉

Laura

And dangerous for them to wear it permanently.

I guess if there was a totally safe,secure and comfortable enough chastity cage/chastity belt for men,there would be way more men wearing one,however...