Sex on the first date

Angelina

i agree with you on all points. the most important thing is that many conversations about contraception take place, but if the child is already on the way, it is important to stick together as a family and support each other 😉

a cb is not a good solution for this and I would only use it if my daughter wants to do so

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,talks about her behavior and about contraception,help if it's too late,and no forced chastity belt wearing are important points to manage a good family life,even if not in the perfect setting.

If she would accept to wear one,however it would be very different.

Angelina

Vanessa If she would accept to wear one,however it would be very different.

of course, then there would be a solution, but it would definitely not be the first thing I would suggest, but rather the last resort (and only voluntarily)

Vanessa

Angelina of course, then there would be a solution, but it would definitely not be the first thing I would suggest, but rather the last resort (and only voluntarily)

If suggested too soon,or too abuptly,it can make her refuse it a lot(like for @strictfather's daughter).But if she admits her behavior is not perfect,or that she flirts too much,you can propose it as an help for her.I guess the first reaction would be "No way!",but if presented this way,she would probably think at least a bit about this possibility.

Angelina

Vanessa

my daughter would definitely have the advantage that she could decide for herself when to wear the belt, i would never lock her when she is at home, only if she decides that she cannot wear the cb it will be extremely difficult to find another way 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

If she would tell you she is ok to wear a chastity belt,you would let her decide when and how long to wear it?Or mainly basic rules like "only when outside or alone at home"?

Christine

I agree !😉

Angelina

No!😉

Laura

And dangerous for them to wear it permanently.

I guess if there was a totally safe,secure and comfortable enough chastity cage/chastity belt for men,there would be way more men wearing one,however...

Christine

Nothing wrong with it.

Laura

Christine I understand your mom better now 😂

Renita

Christine I can imagine what your mom thinks.

Angelina

Laura

me too, maybe the cb was the right decision 😂

James

Angelina Speaking as a guy...forgetting the baby risk, no guy is that special lol.

Christine

Angelina me too, maybe the cb was the right decision

Fortunately I had the opportunity earlier like @Vanessa .

Vanessa I agree !

Thank you. We are on the same page.

Laura

James No good chastity belts for guys, that's the reason, not baby risk 😂

Angelina

Vanessa

we would calmly discuss when she will wear the cb and then write a contract 😉

Vanessa

Renita

Probably like the parents of must of us here.

Vanessa

Angelina

A good way to act.You will use contracts with your sons and daughters,too?

Christine

Maybe because we're of the same age,and with a similar situation(wearing a chastity belt permanently,with secondary shield on,and reluctantly)! 😉

Good you had the opportunity too.🙂

Angelina

Christine

even if I don't believe in sex on the first date, I can assure you that it was just a joke and I am not judging you 😉

Christine

Vanessa Maybe because we're of the same age,and with a similar situation

Coz our parents found chastity belts later on.

Angelina

Vanessa

definitely 😉

it has helped me a lot and I would do the same with my children, so that they behave better and prevent parental arbitrariness 🙂

Laura

Christine Coz our parents found chastity belts later on.

Do you think you would have worn a belt if she had found it before your marriage?
I hope this forum will let parents know about this option for their daughter when she starts dating

Vanessa

Christine

In my case,I wear it since several years(as punishment at first)but wear it permanently "only" since a bit more than 2 years and half,now.

Angelina

It seems it worked for you,so not a bad idea to act the same.

Laura I hope this forum will let parents know about this option for their daughter when she starts dating

If we give them ideas,I hope they'll discuss with them,not decide for them!😉

You're for letting them self-pleasure if they aren't dating,so?If yes,an abstinence belt would be a better advice!😉

Angelina

Laura I hope this forum will let parents know about this option for their daughter when she starts dating

please do not, if you are successful with it we will soon have many new girls in the forum 😂

Christine

Laura Do you think you would have worn a belt if she had found it before your marriage?

Ofc. It's pity for her.

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