Ines So, carefully with it, and always under medical supervision.

there are gynecologists for that 😉

honestly, there are of course always driven, but it is a contraceptive which has been used by women all over the world for several decades

      Christine

      not on the first date, but if it goes well, you will have to explain it soon 😉

          Christine

          Sure,in our parents' opinion,it should not go farer than a kiss on the first date(or even less).

          But they're not totally wrong;if he/she knows it,it won't lead to sex(as we're prevented to do it),but it is risked.There is not much chance to be sure he/she won't talk about it with other people(except,maybe,if you were friends before dating,meaning you can know each other pretty well).

          Angelina

          I agree.

                Vanessa

                i think it is generally very difficult, even if it goes well, he might expect too much and would be very disappointed if it would not be possible 🙁

                    Vanessa Sure,in our parents' opinion,it should not go farer than a kiss on the first date(or even less).

                    I agree with it, a girl shouldn't let him go below waist on the first date regardless if she wears a belt or not

                    Vanessa here is not much chance to be sure he/she won't talk about it with other people

                    Another reason for right behavior to not be ashamed later

                    Angelina he might expect too much and would be very disappointed

                    She shouldn't create such expectations

                            Laura

                            but then it could also be too little 🙁 in addition, he can have these expectations even if she does nothing in this direction

                              Vanessa re is not much chance to be sure he/she won't talk about it with other people

                              However it could be good for her reputation in the long run.

                                  Angelina

                                  It's why we should be clear not too long after we started to date,but it is not easy.We could tell we don't want to do it soon,while waiting to tell about our chastity belt.

                                  Laura I agree with it, a girl shouldn't let him go below waist on the first date regardless if she wears a belt or not

                                  Without belt,it depends! 😉

                                  Laura Another reason for right behavior to not be ashamed later

                                  Even with right behavior,we can be ashamed if someone talk about our chastity belt...

                                  Laura She shouldn't create such expectations

                                  I agree with @Angelina,he could expect it even if we don't hint it....

                                  And I think it was you who thought too it is difficult to make a relationship lasts without sex,and I agree.So there should be a bit,even if limited by our chastity belt.

                                  Renita

                                  I don't think most of us would like to have everyone knowing about their chastity belt,and I'm not sure it would be good for our reputation.

                                  A virginity ring,as they do sometimes in the US,yes...A chastity belt,I don't think so.

                                              Vanessa we can be ashamed if someone talk about our chastity belt...

                                              That's why you shouldn't demonstrate it to "someone" 🙂

                                              Vanessa A virginity ring,as they do sometimes in the US,yes..

                                              What is it?

                                                    Vanessa There is not much chance to be sure he/she won't talk about it with other people

                                                    That's her goal.

                                                        Christine I like your mom more and more 😀
                                                        You hide your belt well, but have to play a prude with random guys, otherwise your secret will be disclosed quickly

                                                            Laura Yes, but not on the first date 🙂

                                                            Even if I'm not against it,I agree,it is not necessary to have sex on the first date to make a relationship lasts.

                                                            Laura It's called purity ring, while "virginity ring" is chastity belt in my opinion 😂

                                                            Probably,I knew the idea about it,but was unsure of the name.

                                                            Angelina

                                                            Well,it is not a bad name for it for women who had sex,but decide to not do it again until married.

                                                            Renita

                                                            It is like a promise,as a wedding ring is a promise to be faithful to the wife/husband,too.

                                                            Christine

                                                            But let's hope you'll find someone soon who you trust enough to tell him about it,while being sure he would keep it secret.

                                                            Laura You hide your belt well, but have to play a prude with random guys, otherwise your secret will be disclosed quickly

                                                            Same when we start to date a new boyfriend/girlfriend.

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                                                                          Vanessa

                                                                          I agree with you, but the rules for mastubation should be clarified at the beginning of wearing and this should be the same as for cb 😉

                                                                          sorry but that's one point i can't discuss. decisions have consequences and who decides to wear this ring has to take the consequences

                                                                          small example: whoever wears a wedding ring must expect a divorce even if he/she cheats on the partner

                                                                              Vanessa But,then,meet someone,fall in love,think he/she is the right one,and want to go "more far",even if not married...

                                                                              That's how it usually happens.

                                                                                  Angelina I agree with you, but the rules for mastubation should be clarified at the beginning of wearing and this should be the same as for cb 😉

                                                                                  Sure,it must be decided at the start.

                                                                                  Angelina sorry but that's one point i can't discuss. decisions have consequences and who decides to wear this ring has to take the consequences

                                                                                  small example: whoever wears a wedding ring must expect a divorce even if he/she cheats on the partner

                                                                                  What should be the consequences for breaking the promise done when putting on the purity ring,in your opinion?

                                                                                  Laura That's how it usually happens.

                                                                                  I think too.

                                                                                          Angelina small example: whoever wears a wedding ring must expect a divorce even if he/she cheats on the partner

                                                                                          Divorce also means legal consequences unlike losing virginity.

                                                                                              Vanessa What should be the consequences for breaking the promise done when putting on the purity ring,in your opinion?

                                                                                              in any case it should be severely punished. i know this sounds hard but whoever makes a promise to keep it and if it is broken should be severely punished. this is my moral standpoint and therefore i am also against a purity ring

                                                                                              Renita Divorce also means legal consequences unlike losing virginity.

                                                                                              it's not about laws, it's about morality, that's something completely different