a_father it's not that hard to hide people in the fetish world do it all the time.

    It's not hard to always wear a belt and not be found out

    Now for the topic, I think I'm very much guilty of touching myself too much, and those thoughts of sex cloud who I am. And a belt will set me straight at last and be saved from those horrible urges

      Sara2001 I know it will be like that now and I stay with him, so I see it as kind of my choice but I think he would not allow me to work until the kids are old enough, so it's his descision, too

      I agree,if you know it and accept it before it is the case,it,more or less,become the choice of both of you.

      Sara2001 I think I will get the same amount of permissions.

      It would be harder,so.

      Sara2001 Yes, otherwise I would not stay with him. This is a red line for me.

      Wise decision.

      Christine No. I don't want her to be in my shoes.

      Better for your cousin,and your relationship with her.

      Christine

      Very unlikely,I think.

      amber it did help 🙂 but some reason i just feel very embarassed when talking about the belt and that stuff in person. She was bringing it up to talk about it though, so we ended up talking about it.

      Never easy to talk about it,but it is helpful.I've always been able to talk about it with my twin,with my best friend since she knows,with Emilie(of course),and with some my ex(when we were in a relationship).

      Ines

      I agree.I've doubts about it,too.

      Natescage And @Vanessa I think her aunt was going to get one anyways for her cousin.

      If @Christine's mother and her aunt discuss together often,and about it,it could be the case,yes...But no need to increase the risks!

      Daphne

      At 22 years old,it is not uncommon.And as long as it is not excessive,masturbating can be good for health,too.

                          Vanessa At 22 years old,it is not uncommon

                          It was exsessive and i began acting unlike myself which I hated

                              Daphne

                              Can I ask you at what frequency you touch yourself?

                              Every other day seems very common for us,and I think once a day is ok too.If more,it depends...

                                  Vanessa

                                  2/3 times a day, it was a coping mechanism but i dont want to rely on it anymore i want my belt to become my ally through life

                                      Daphne

                                      It is a bit much,yes,but does it affect your studies/work/social life/other leisures?

                                      It you used it to cope,it may be hard to stop totally it immediately...

                                          Vanessa

                                          sometimes it does yes

                                          i know, but i have talked about it with my keyholder and they will support and help me as long as i work towards permanent chastity

                                              Daphne

                                              Ok,don't hesitate to do it progressively if it becomes too hard.

                                                  Vanessa

                                                  yeah, before my cb arrives i will probably do it, and if it becomes too hard i will have my keyholder to keep me on the right path

                                                      Daphne

                                                      Maybe discuss with him about unlocking you a bit at first(if it's too hard),to reduce your needs progressively.

                                                          Vanessa

                                                          i will ask him, but i trust that he will be able to get me through even without unlocking

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                                                              Daphne
                                                              Mmmmm.... Daphne, do not believe in all extension stories where, "my belt has arrived and know I wear it 24 hours, more bands, more bra, more shackles, more gags, I live in a cell in a prison Island....
                                                              You need adaptation.

                                                                  Ines

                                                                  I'd be the same but when we talked about it it went really well and he really likes to see me in chastity

                                                                    Vanessa Better for your cousin,and your relationship with her.

                                                                    It wouldn't be my fault anyway.

                                                                        Ines You need adaptation.

                                                                        I agree.

                                                                        Christine

                                                                        That's the most important for your relationship with her.

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                                                                            Kaja Masturbation is normal en healthy at every age ;-)

                                                                            Sadly, many of our keyholders have a different opinion.