Belted siblings

Sara2001

Vanessa How did you feel when you looked at it?

That's just the experience from my sister. I don't know it myself. She described it like this.

Vanessa Not surprising the belt would stay on until marrriage.But if he gets the key to her chatsity bra before,it would be good for them.

I think my father will try to prepare her for a relationship with equal rights, but some aspects are to important for him.

Vanessa What freedom would she get while you would not have?

I don't know exactly. I think about some money that she can spend with him, maybe a curfew that is comparable with her classmates, maybe she can meet him without asking to leave the house or to ask permission to meet him when she made sure her tasks are done. Things like that.

Angelina

Sara2001 That's just the experience from my sister.

did she show you the bra, did you touch the bra?

Sara2001 I don't know exactly. I think about some money that she can spend with him, maybe a curfew that is comparable with her classmates, maybe she can meet him without asking to leave the house or to ask permission to meet him when she made sure her tasks are done. Things like that.

this is not surprising. your father is preparing you for marriage, while your sister will have the same rights in her marriage, you will be more submissive

Sara2001 She is used to undress in front of my father, so I think it is not as embracing than it would be for others.

if the two really love each other, he can also see the view well 🙂

i recently changed my clothes in my room while camryn was with me, she looked at my face and smiled the whole time 😉 there was no pity look at the padlocks on my body 😃

Vanessa

Sara2001 I think my father will try to prepare her for a relationship with equal rights, but some aspects are to important for him.

If I remember well,your parents have started with such relationship,and decided to switch to a man led one because it doesn't worked well for them,tight?

If yes,they have some experiences about how to manage a relationhsip with equals rights

Sara2001 I don't know exactly. I think about some money that she can spend with him, maybe a curfew that is comparable with her classmates, maybe she can meet him without asking to leave the house or to ask permission to meet him when she made sure her tasks are done. Things like that.

More classical relationship's rules,except for the chastity part.I guess she would like it a lot,however..

Sara2001 From what I know he is very supportive. I don't know, but I think they found ways to give him pleasure when they are alone 🙂

Good for her.

As I already said,even in chastity devices,we still have our hands and mouth which can be used for giving pleasure!😉

Sara2001 Maybe, but at least she didn't say something like this. I think she sees him as a kind of allied. She is used to undress in front of my father, so I think it is not as embracing than it would be for others.

Yes,but I think it is still not easy to show him that this part of her body is under metal,and out of reach for him too,now...

Angelina i recently changed my clothes in my room while camryn was with me, she looked at my face and smiled the whole time 😉 there was no pity look at the padlocks on my body 😃

Good she acted this way!🙂

Angelina this is bad for your sister and I feel very sorry for her 🙁

Me too...🙁

Sara2001

It seems it scares you a bit more than you expected.But I agree with @Angelina,the feelings(and how often it would be opened)would be way different after you're married.

Sara2001

Vanessa I hope it is the case,and her chastity devices would not endanger her relationship.But her boyfriend seems to know well what he can't expect while dating her,and accept it.

From what I know he is very supportive. I don't know, but I think they found ways to give him pleasure when they are alone 🙂

Vanessa It would be very stressful for her when showing it to him for the first time...

Maybe, but at least she didn't say something like this. I think she sees him as a kind of allied. She is used to undress in front of my father, so I think it is not as embracing than it would be for others.

Sara2001

Angelina did she show you the bra, did you touch the bra?

Yes, I have to say it's more or less as expected. She hates it very much.

Angelina this is not surprising. your father is preparing you for marriage, while your sister will have the same rights in her marriage, you will be more submissive

Yes, I am very happy for her. We will see.

Angelina

Sara2001 Yes, I have to say it's more or less as expected. She hates it very much.

this is bad for your sister and I feel very sorry for her 🙁

but i actually meant how it feels for you, you should (since you have the opportunity) deal with the feeling of the bras

Sara2001

Angelina but i actually meant how it feels for you, you should (since you have the opportunity) deal with the feeling of the bras

I can imagine how it is for my sister and a cold shower is running over my back when I imagine that I will have to wear it soon and that most probably it will be that way all the time for good. Or that I have to think in decades and not in years when it comes to the questions how long Iw will wear it.

When I see her bra I hope that Daniel will open me regularly and that I will have enough possibilities to enjoy my body. I feel a bit helpless in this moments but on the other side it is also a bit exciting.

Angelina

Sara2001

understandable, it's exactly the reaction i expected from you. i can imagine that it will be very difficult for you, especially since the belt and the bra are also a part of your marriage. but there is the positive point that it is a completely different feeling when you wear it out of love for daniel or under control of your father 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa If I remember well,your parents have started with such relationship,and decided to switch to a man led one because it doesn't worked well for them,tight?

Yes

Vanessa If yes,they have some experiences about how to manage a relationhsip with equals rights

Yes, but my sister has not much experience with responsibility in many aspects. Like me she is used to do what she is told to do. She has to learn that his boyfriend only talks about his point of view and that he expected her to go against it if she is not happy with it. Things like that. Talking is much different in a equal relationship. Expectations of the partner and what he/she will do or suggest is also much different.

Vanessa More classical relationship's rules,except for the chastity part.I guess she would like it a lot,however..

I think so, too

Vanessa Yes,but I think it is still not easy to show him that this part of her body is under metal,and out of reach for him too,now...

That's for sure.

Vanessa It seems it scares you a bit more than you expected.But I agree with @Angelina,the feelings(and how often it would be opened)would be way different after you're married.

I think it scared me as expected. Knowing what's coming doesn't mean it doesn't scare me even if I accept it 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001 She has to learn that his boyfriend only talks about his point of view and that he expected her to go against it if she is not happy with it

your sister can think for herself and say what she thinks of her boyfriend's opinion, I don't think it will be a big challenge, but her boyfriend has to tell your sister that he wants to hear her opinion 😉

i like your sister's boyfriend, he is basically what i would love to do when i am with a boy 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, but my sister has not much experience with responsibility in many aspects. Like me she is used to do what she is told to do. She has to learn that his boyfriend only talks about his point of view and that he expected her to go against it if she is not happy with it. Things like that. Talking is much different in a equal relationship. Expectations of the partner and what he/she will do or suggest is also much different.

Does he know how your family work?If yes,he probably understand she's not used to it and he would be able to help her learn how a relationship with equal rights work.And your father can have a talk about it with her too.

Sara2001 That's for sure.

Has she met him?Do you know if he reacted well and accepted it well too?

Sara2001 I think it scared me as expected. Knowing what's coming doesn't mean it doesn't scare me even if I accept it 🙂

I guess it is even more scaring when looking on a true one,even more if worn by someone.Much more than on the site picture,at least.

Angelina I don't think it will be a big challenge

If she's not used to it,it can be not that easy to learn...

Angelina i like your sister's boyfriend

He seems sweet with her,yes.I hope for them their relationship lasts,but,anyway,if he's her first boyfriend,it would be a good first relationship.

Angelina

Vanessa If she's not used to it,it can be not that easy to learn...

Why?

he just has to tell her that he would like to hear her opinion and that both should decide together 😉

Sara's sister should be very happy about that

Sara2001

Vanessa Does he know how your family work?

I don't know how detailed he knows it.

Vanessa Has she met him?Do you know if he reacted well and accepted it well too?

Yes, he accepts that he can not change it and that she can not change it, too. He hates her restriction and feels very bad for her but so far he doesn't want to quit the relationship.

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,but if it is unusual for her,she may feel a bit unsure about how and when doing it.

But,yes,she should be happy about it.

Sara2001 Yes, he accepts that he can not change it and that she can not change it, too. He hates her restriction and feels very bad for her but so far he doesn't want to quit the relationship.

He seems very understanding and compassionate,and probably an important support for her;

Angelina

I agree.Talks are important for them.

He seems to accept it well.

Lukas

I think you can tell her.Even if she didn't know the word,she probably have some guesses about the fact.And that the belt prevented her to touch her "there",too,to prevent it.As long as she didn't experience an orgasm before,knowing what masturbation means would probably not change much her frustration,I think.And it would be helpful for her if she doesn't want to tell her friend about her chastity belt,but want to make her think she have done it.

Sara2001

It is uncommon in France,I think.If I remember well,we had only one lesson,for 1 or 2 hours about it,and it was mainly about the risks and how to protect us from them.

Renita

I don't think it would be helpful.Her friend may be in trouble if her parents don't like it and don't know their daughter does it.And if she guess they discovered it due tu @Lukas' family,their friendship would stop.

Angelina

Sara2001

he should get used to it with time and your sister should talk openly about all the customs in your family with him, if he accepts it the two of them can have a happy relationship 🙂 if not it will be difficult 🙁

Lukas

Hey guys, I'm sorry to kinda hijack this topic but I have a "problem". My sister befriended a girl that came into her class last year after the summer holidays. She is my sister's only friend that isn't part of the mennonite community so she has some more "experience". The friend doesn't know about my sister being belted, nor does any other of her friends know. So long story short, my sister and her friend met up a couple of days ago and (quote by my sister) "Talked about the boys we like and other stuff". The friend (her name is Emmie) told my sister about her first kiss and that it was amazing and so on. But anyways, the problem is, Emmie also told her to try masturbation. Until that day, my sister didn't even knew about it and Emmie didn't want to tell her anything more than that she should try it. A few days later, last Saturday, my sister came up to me, told me all about it and asked me if I knew what masturbation is. I kinda dodged the question because I didn't know how to answer. I kinda want to tell her about it so she knows, but I also don't want to open "Pandoras Box", if you know what I mean. Right now it seems that she doesn't know anything about masturbation except the word itself. I think she might get really frustrated if she finds out about it and has no possibility to try it out. What would you do in my situation? And if you would tell her, can I give her my laptop so she can ask you a couple of questions about masturbation and the "problem" with being belted and masturbation?

Angelina

Lukas

hi, i think it's very strange that your sister at 17? doesn't know what masturbation is. i think she should know because she can't do it anyway. but that's just my opinion

Renita

Lukas But anyways, the problem is, Emmie also told her to try masturbation

Maybe there is a way to inform her parents about it also to prevent further "experience".

Lukas

Angelina Well, both our parents and the German school systems aren't that much about teaching sexual education. I learned about masturbation when a then-friend of mine told me and I tried it out. It seems my sister never found out until recently because nobody told her.

Laura

Lukas But she could find by herself that the belt prevented it

Angelina

Lukas the German school systems

You're German too? , welcome to the club 😉

Lukas It seems my sister never found out until recently because nobody told her.

i started doing it when i was 14 and knew what it was a little later but if your sister never did it is logical

Sara2001

Lukas Well, both our parents and the German school systems aren't that much about teaching sexual education.

I learned everything about sexuality and masturbation in the German school system. We had sexuality for weeks in biology class and society class. We learned everything from how to use a condom, how anti baby pill is working, anything about sex and pregnancy, even sex industry and prostitution was a topic. We had it several times, starting from elementary school.

Have you visited a private school? I thought even they have to teach it.

I also visited a school in northern Germany.

Lukas

Laura Yeah, that's probably right. Maybe she actually did and it's just that no one ever told that there's a name for what she can't do.

Laura

Lukas Most important that the belt works as supposed to

Lukas

Angelina You're German too? , welcome to the club 😉

Yeah, Northern Germany 😁

Angelina i started doing it when i was 14 and knew what it was a little later but if your sister never did it is logical

Well, I was 13 .

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