Which chastity belt do you recommend?

Angelina

hi, i tried to read your story again, because i honestly didn't know who you are anymore (too many users here) 😂
I gotta be honest, I didn't make it

so can you do a short intro again (so why you wear the belt and what has happened so far ) ?

Laura

Angelina i honestly didn't know who you are anymore

The topicstarter

Zoe

Angelina

Hi all,

my girlfriend suggested wearing chastity belts a few months ago. I thought it was a joke at the time and laughed it off. But she kept mentioning it from time to time. So I finally caved in and agreed to give it a go.

I am scared like hell. But what can I lose?

I know, it is silly, but I would like to wear one that looks nice as well as beeing as comfortable as possible.

It looks like a lot of you had not the luck to have a say. But if you had, which one would you want for yourself?

Many thanks,
(scared and curious) Zoe

🙂

Angelina

Laura

you really think I'll see that after 500+ posts in this topic ? 😂

Zoe But if you had, which one would you want for yourself?

i would definitely not wear a belt because i am convinced that i am a good girl even without a belt 😉

but i think it's different in a relationship. good luck to you both. i understand that you sometimes hate the belt, but in general the belt seems to have a positive effect on your relationship 🙂

shinydiamond77

Angelina but then you should make sure that she can breathe properly and does not get any problems with her skin.

Vanessa Not good,if it is that tight.It could injure her.

I take her health very seriously. We have a rule that if she feels any pain or she has any skin issues, she MUST tell me immediately. No issues so far. Also, I get a quick glance every time I unlock or lock her belt, although I don't look at that area too much to avoid embarrassing her.

Angelina

shinydiamond77

that's very good, that's the way it should be 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

Right.

Laura

It was used,but not permanently.

Zoe

Thanks for giving us some news!🙂

Some big changes for you and your girlfriend,but it seems it was pretty good for both of you,and you don't hate your chastity belt too much.

Not surprising Ann manage it better,as her sex drive is lower than your sex drive.

Angelina

I think too health must be the number one concern when wearing a chastity belt.

Angelina

Vanessa I think too health must be the number one concern when wearing a chastity belt.

this is exactly what i think, a chastity belt should never be worn at the expense of health

shinydiamond77

Vanessa I think too health must be the number one concern when wearing a chastity belt.

Angelina this is exactly what i think, a chastity belt should never be worn at the expense of health

This is why I don't understand thighband usage. Having to always walk slowly seems too restrictive, especially for a teenager, and is very hard to hide in public. Not being able to move legs freely sounds very unhealthy, too. I can't imagine making my daughter wear something like that.

Angelina

shinydiamond77 Not being able to move legs freely sounds very unhealthy, too.

well it sounds to me as unhealthy as wearing a cheap belt. i agree with you, it's a difficult situation to define. well there is a certain safety standard that our parents don't want to fall below and within this safety standard parents should take care of their daughters' health

Renita

shinydiamond77 I can't imagine making my daughter wear something like that.

Same. I can't imagine wearing it.

Ines

I think that both of you have part of reason.
Usage of bands most of time is not healthy, for sure, but you need them if you wish wear a totally secure belt, but for sure, as @shinydiamond77 says, be unable of move legs for long time is unhealthy. Or even sit so much time with them, I remember my skin issues in Christmas.
But, @Angelina is right in the usage of not branded belts can be source of problems for bad fit, bad long usage material, sharp, pinches...

Angelina

Ines

as i said before it is a difficult subject, so i would rather say that parents should take care of the health of their daughters within the safety standards set by the parents

bismarck

I understood the compliment and thank you for it 🙂 but what does this have to do with my height ?

shinydiamond77

Ines Usage of bands most of time is not healthy, for sure, but you need them if you wish wear a totally secure belt

The covered area is always in the middle, no matter how far apart the legs are. It seems that they only add security if the shield is loose and can be bypassed from the sides - in that case it's probably better to adjust the belt itself.

Ines the usage of not branded belts can be source of problems for bad fit, bad long usage material, sharp, pinches...

Even though there have been no issues yet, I would have gladly bought her a branded belt if it was as light and discreet as the one I got instead, but there simply weren't any.

Vanessa

Ines

I agree with you.

bismarck

And Emilie(my girlfriend)and me plan to use chastity devices as sex-toys,sometimes,after we'll marry.

Ines if stimulation is enough to achieve an orgasm: probably not

Not in my case,at least.It only frustrates me a lot...But I still try.

Angelina Well, I have no interest in having surgery just to get higher. 😂

You don't even use high heels for this purpose! 🤣

bismarck

Angelina I know as you've talked about that before, and playing basketball often in these days would definitely have an effect on your eventual height. I have a male friend who improve his height a lot after school, may be through surgical operations elongating his leg bones. Your partner's willingness to be belted like you during the transitory period before your marriage sharing your feelings really moved me. I am glad that you and Vanessa both have good partners during these strange experience.

bismarck

Renita Yes, but if it is a just short time and not every time you may get excitement or excite your partner up then it may worth considerable.

bismarck

Yes once I worked with a female colleague who has graduated from a local island cheongsam school uniform secondary school for one year. I think she did not wear cheongsam all the day outside school or during the holidays, but her upper thighs always joined together when sitting or walking, although she was then wearing trousers. That is very strange posture. So if you have worn thigh bands 24/7 you are custom to it, you may still act like someone wearing very tight skirts even you are not and free from the bands. But how changes happen is worth reporting
.

bismarck

I also can't think of putting someone in a belt, except in cases like Indonesia rioting 1998 or some years ago there were news reports of mass raping in Germany, then wearing a belt is just protective like wearing masks. I think belting if it is a long term or wear more equipment that would cause hardship in real life. And at least masturbation should be allowed for long term wear. The difference is huge. Mental health affects physical health. If there's no other person, masturbation only make you feel well with no side effect if it is not excess while not affecting someone's chastity or relationships.

Laura

bismarck then wearing a belt is just protective like wearing masks

https://unwedchastity.org/d/24-chastity-belt-for-own-protection

bismarck

Laura Exactly but being belted for a long time may be too restrictive and uncomfortable?

Laura

bismarck Of course, long term wearing has other purposes

bismarck

Laura Many Christians here, without being belted, avoid premarital sex . A male schoolmate of mine even pray and stop masturbating . A man met another Christian and refrain from having sex for eight years until they married. There are some 'one night stand' people, but generally people in Far East are very family oriented and culturally sex conservative. https://chinese.gospelherald.com/articles/26007/20170731/%E5%AD%AB%E8%80%80%E5%A8%81%E9%99%B3%E7%BE%8E%E8%A9%A9%E5%AE%88%E8%B2%9E%E5%85%AB%E5%B9%B4%E6%AD%A5%E5%85%A5%E6%95%99%E5%A0%82-%E9%96%8B%E5%B1%95-%E6%84%9B%E7%9A%84%E6%95%85%E4%BA%8B%E4%B8%8B%E9%9B%86.htm

bismarck

Vanessa Yes besides role playing, many toys are fun, too. Actually some equipment you experienced are usually used as toys.

Ines

bismarck
Hello bismarck. Have you done a introduction in the "Introduction thread"? I encourage you to do it, everybody likes know to whom is talking.
And about your statement, I am sure it is not correct, I mean, you (and me too) are more used to be this as a toy because this is a public issue.
But, I am very sure of the hidden part of iceberg is much bigger, not only in Europe in some conservative people, but specially in Middle East.
In Tobbe's forum there is a gentleman that has a lot of information about this point.
I, particularly, am every time more interested in this topic.

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