PaulE
I'm sorry,but can't answer most of your questions,as I only wear one sort of chastity belt.There is a few women here who can help a bit as they wear more than one,but you're too specific.I'm not sure there is a lot of women who were wearing 2 belts totally different(necessary to compare these).
You should talk with your wife before taking too much time reading and asking about it,as it would be useless if she doesn't agree....And it would help you,if she agrees,as you can choose together what you both likes the most,and answer together your questions.
You talk often about security,so,I can tell you,the main brands' chastity belts are made to prevent the wearer to have an orgasm while wearing it.So,no matter the options you choose,it would be secure.And My-Steel are,generally,comfortable enough.
Angelina maybe it would be better if you discuss these questions with your girlfriend π
I agree.
Angelina does she already know about her "happiness" and does she agree 100%
It would be better to know it,yes.