Angelina Why do you think that? do you think a top/button relationship is more honest than an equal one ?
I think in this kind of relationship it's a day to day thing to ask yourself if everything is as it should be and with the weekly talks you can't forget it or get used to it, because both of us are kind of "forced" to think about things that are not as they should be.
Yes, I think it's working very well from their perspective.
Vanessa Never got an advantage worth the punishment?
I would say in 7 or 8 out of 10 cases I was caught after some time, but because the longer I have an advantage the harder the consequences will be, it's mostly very small things where I accepted the risk.
Vanessa I agree it is important.Good you discuss it during the waiting
Talking is the key and must always be possible on a regular basis.
Vanessa There is a lot of talks and trust needed for it to work,probably more than in classical relationship.
Yes, much, much more talk and trust. You can't submit to someone who you don't trust that he will take care of your wishes and needs as good as he can without struggling on a regular basis.
