Telling others about your belt

Avery

Jen But even stories- people shouldn't be thinking like that.

No they shouldn't, but some people theorize being able to describe stuff like that gives disturbed people an outlet so they do not act out their fantasies in real life.

Sin

Jen Actually from what you have described I don't have a problem with how you're approaching things (and if I did you'd be the first to hear about it!).
:-)

I think you're being quite sensible... you have maintained control of the situation, you are able to walk away whenever you like and you are exploring things in your own time at your own pace, with the support of those around you.

The issue I have is with the people who force their will upon others, and the ones who defend / glorify this behaviour.

Vanessa

Sin Actually from what you have described I don't have a problem with how you're approaching things (and if I did you'd be the first to hear about it!).
:-)

I think you're being quite sensible... you have maintained control of the situation, you are able to walk away whenever you like and you are exploring things in your own time at your own pace, with the support of those around you.

@Jen managed it very well,yes!🙂

Angelina

Sin

well, i admit that the example is very far-fetched, but what i want to say is that not everything that happens on my genetals is a sexual act. i don't find my father's actions right, but i can assure 100% that he has no perverted ulterior motives (and yes i know you don't believe me)

Joh

Christine Better impression.

This answer is not helpful.

Christine

Joh This answer is not helpful.

See the topic's name.

Joh

Angelina but they have very harsh consequences that i don't want.

Because of this harsh consequences your decisions are not mad freely.

Angelina well, then they have a different definition of sexual acts than i do.

To explore freely your sexuality is protected by the law in Germany. The restriction which your father had put on you violates your free development of your sexuality and is certainly also seen as a degrading measure, which is inadmissible according to the law.

Angelina

Joh Because of this harsh consequences your decisions are not mad freely.

that's why i never called myself a volunteer wearer and if you remember we had a discussion about that definition.

Joh To explore freely your sexuality is protected by the law in Germany. The restriction which your father had put on you violates your free development of your sexuality and is certainly also seen as a degrading measure, which is inadmissible according to the law.

I know that, but it doesn't change the fact that I have the choice to do without this right or to do without many other things (even if they are not protected by law).

Jen

Hey new message in this old thread. In truth or dare tonight I asked a girl truth if she would rather wear a chastity belt or have her boyfriend locked. And then I nearly died 🙈, but everyone was looking at my friend. Like they all reacted but wanted to know what she'd answer - I was ok!
She's gonna get me back for sure🤭. She said boyfriend (boo hoo).

I'm sick of no-one knowing though, like my two best friends are sleeping over but I've come home to wear my belt.

Saintprudence

Jen I’m not sure I understand. Do you mean you skipped a sleepover to come back home and sleep? Could your belt not have been unlocked for the sleepover?

Jen

Saintprudence I’m not sure I understand. Do you mean you skipped a sleepover to come back home and sleep?

Yep, birthday party and some of the girls slept over. I planned to but then my thoughts - I was like looking forward to the challenge of sleeping and not touching - like just laying there and ignoring it. And yeah that's not OK.

Laura

Jen Therefore your belt worked as it should

Angelina

Jen

i don't quite understand, did you leave because you were worried about breaking your chastity at night and that's why you wanted to put on the belt? or were you angry because your friend said she would rather lock up her friend than herself?

Saintprudence

Jen The nuns who educated me would have called this "avoiding the near occasion of sin." They'd have approved of giving up social time for the greater goal of evading even the chance of doing something unvirtuous. It's a big sacrifice to put aside otherwise innocent fun for this purpose. I'm not sure if I'm impressed, or a little worried for you!

lucy

Never told anyone about my belt.

Angelina

lucy

not even your best friend ?

lucy

Angelina no, not even her...dont know how she would react, if she would not tell anyone...

Angelina

lucy no, not even her...dont know how she would react, if she would not tell anyone...

If she is your best friend she will understand. for me it was a coincidence but i am grateful for it. now i have someone to talk to about it. 🙂

Lea

lucy Maybe you should try strategy to ask what she thinks about chastity and chastity belt in general?

Kris

Angelina Yes, I agree 🙂

Jen

I'm telling 3 friends - I think it's best - they'll talk anyway so I think just telling all three is best. Gonna show them Saturday - parents are out. Not telling them how much I wear it though but the price like I think I'll say I found it second hand cause like I never have money. Don't want them to know mum bought it that's way weirder than just having one

Laura

Jen I'm telling 3 friends - I think it's best - they'll talk anyway so I think just telling all three is best.

And suggest them to start wearing too? 😂

Angelina

Jen

that sounds good, i wish you good luck. i think it's right not to say everything, that way you can surely get the most support. let us know how it worked out 🙂

Laura And suggest them to start wearing too? 😂

😂

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