Talk to parents about sex and masturbation

Christine

Dee It felt like they thought I am still their innocent little girl that doesn’t know anything

My mom thought the same, I'm lucky she didn't know about chastity belts by that time.

Laura

Christine My mom thought the same

My parents were not so naive, however 🤣

Dee I think he meant if I try to play with my breast or get smart with the belt?

So, they didn't care until the last month, and not they even don't want to touch your breast.
Also having the secondary shield off in not an option now, despite the initial purpose was to prevent from fooling around with boys

Laura

Dee Dad told me if I try to pleasure myself

How could you do it if you have your belt always on now?

Dee

Laura I think he meant if I try to play with my breast or get smart with the belt? I do get some pleasure from my breast but no where close to getting an orgasm...

Renita

Dee if I try to play with my breast

Why didn't they order chastity bra together with belt?

Vanessa

Ines

I agree(except I don't think thigh bands should be worn with a chastity belt);especially,as,often,when there is a stricter rule,it is harder to make them reduce the strictness of it...

Try to have good arguments to tell if your parents want you to wear your thigh bands more often(even if I think it would be hard to make them change their minds,if they want you to wear the thigh bands more often).

Dee

Too much fighting the belt too?

Ines I think that for conservative parents is not bad notice at all that their girls can not achieve a masturbation. And since they decided to buy a chastity belt with bands, it is clear, I think, that the purpose is avoid bad touching.

I think too.They probably decided to stop her to masturbate too,as the belt can easily prevent both sex and masturbation.

Laura So the answer is yes

You're lucky!😉

Renita

They probably don't think it is useful,at least for now.Based on this board,it seems chastity bras are often oredered some time after the chastity belt.

Natescage At least there's that an occasional orgasm would make it more bareable I would think.

I think too.

Ines

Laura

Laura So, they didn't care until the last month, and not they even don't want to touch your breast.
Also having the secondary shield off in not an option now, despite the initial purpose was to prevent from fooling around with boys

I think that for conservative parents is not bad notice at all that their girls can not achieve a masturbation. And since they decided to buy a chastity belt with bands, it is clear, I think, that the purpose is avoid bad touching.
I feel a bit sorry for Dee, because she is not a convinced wearer, but maybe, before accept, she should read us, because a chastity belt is a very, very secure item.

Laura

Ines I think that for conservative parents is not bad notice at all that their girls can not achieve a masturbation. And since they decided to buy a chastity belt with bands, it is clear, I think, that the purpose is avoid bad touching.

I don't think she didn't know she has discovered masturbation much earlier when she was 15-16, but didn't try to put a belt on her until now when she is about to go to college where she will not be under their control anymore

Natescage

Laura you have been belted for a while correct Laura? Are you ever allowed to orgasm? Or just frustration?

Laura

Natescage That was not the purpose of my belt. So the answer is yes

Natescage

Laura so your parents don't care if you masturbate sometimes they just want to prevent premarital sex? Do you ask then for a release?

Laura

Natescage they just want to prevent premarital sex?

Correct

Natescage Do you ask then for a release?

I will be declined if ask for it without a valid reason

Natescage

Laura how do you argue that wanting to masturbate is a valid reason? I would think they would let you every so often so it's not excessive and gets addictive.

Laura

Natescage how do you argue that wanting to masturbate is a valid reason?

I don't. Basically I prefer to not buzz them with it. If you are asking about an example of a valid reason, it includes visit to doctor, cleaning and, of course, period.

Natescage

Laura I see but you could always masturbate in the shower while cleaning since it seams like you are not supervised anymore. At least there's that an occasional orgasm would make it more bareable I would think.

Laura

Natescage you could always masturbate in the shower while cleaning

I'm wondering why everybody likes to know it 😂

Natescage

Laura people wonder how you can resist doing it if you have opertunitys to do it sometimes like furring cleaning. Because how could you not do it sometimes lol 😀

Megan

Laura I'm wondering why everybody likes to know it 😂

Because you are the leader and we are trying to measure what is crazy, ethical or what?

Natescage

Vanessa the thing is though wouldn't a parent just argue back that giving a few orgasms would lead to wanting more and more, so better to just not do it. I guess I could understand that but it does seam unnesaceraly cruel to protect from pregnancy and sex. Chastity belt should be like armor not a prison I feel, although I guess I could understand restrictions as a punishment for disrespect of disobedience or bad grades or something.

Ines

Vanessa Try to have good arguments to tell if your parents want you to wear your thigh bands more often(even if I think it would be hard to make them change their minds,if they want you to wear the thigh bands more often).

At the end, there are a lot of motivations to ask parents releases of thigh bands, if they do not want make us life miserable, there are plenty of activities that can not be done with bands.
Main discussion must be focused in it... Go to a walk with friends... well you can say that you can not walk well... but it is not true when you are used and you wear a nice chain as Dee. As my parents are fair, I prefer do not cheat them so much, because they allow me a looot of things, and, frankly, do not give me so much problems when I need a release.

Renita

Vanessa ,it seems chastity bras are often oredered some time after the chastity belt

That's right, they are ordered after a while and as result of chastity experience, but not immediately after belt has arrived. That doesn't make sense for me.

Sara2001

Natescage I guess I could understand that but it does seam unnesaceraly cruel to protect from pregnancy and sex

Protecting pregnancy and sex is just one aspect for parents. Many parents of the girls here explicitly want to prevent them from masturbation or sexual pleasure at all.

For my parents it's also a part of teaching us that woman should have less freedom then man.

Vanessa

Natescage the thing is though wouldn't a parent just argue back that giving a few orgasms would lead to wanting more and more, so better to just not do it.

It is true they can easily think about it this way,but it would make easier for the wearer to manage it.

Sara2001 Protecting pregnancy and sex is just one aspect for parents. Many parents of the girls here explicitly want to prevent them from masturbation or sexual pleasure at all.

Right.

Ines At the end, there are a lot of motivations to ask parents releases of thigh bands, if they do not want make us life miserable, there are plenty of activities that can not be done with bands.

Right.But not sure all parents would accept it...

Ines

I agree,there is similarities,but often a lot of differences between the cases of anyone here....

Renita

I think they may want to increase the level of chastity,or want to be sure she can't feel pleasure(or reach orgasm),even while wearing a chastity belt.In my case,it was mainly to prevent me to feel any pleasure if I want to have sex with Emilie.

Ines They help to maintain safety of the belt, do not forget it, Renita.

I don't think it is useful.Chastity belts are very secure,even without it.

Natescage

No,but I wear a chastity belt since several years,as punishment at first,and now permanently;I often have to wear a bra,and,sometimes,thigh bands.Both during the night too if it is a punishment.I masturbated,and had sex with men and women.However,I don't think I'm a leader here either.

Sara2001

Good for both of you.

Renita But I believe there is only one way to lose it and chastity belt is enough.

No.Riding horses,or doing gymnastics,for example,can lead to it,too(or,at least,break the hymen)!😉

Natescage

Sara2001 I know I meant I understand your parents why they want the belt to prevent pleasure even if I think it is strange, but if it makes you all happy and you feel apriciated and loved then it works but it sounds very difficult to accept even if you were raised that way and always told that's how things are. Do you ever get to talk about how to cope with your mom and sisters?

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