Talk to parents about sex and masturbation

Laura

strictfather try to understand my ideas, please don't look at how i wrote them.

I can't understand your ideas either. @Ines just tells her view only and nothing more, you can agree or disagree to you. If you disagree we are happy to hear yours. However I don't see it

Renita

strictfather How about me? I wear it by choice.

Angelina

strictfather

i agree with most of the points you get 😉 but @Ines is allowed to write her opinion as often as she wants and sometimes she makes me think about it 😉

Ines I think I have right to my opinion, Right?

you definitely have 😉

Ines It is very interesting since in my own home, my sister never has been belted.... But... I am starting to think you twist my words or forget some facts.

that's right, in your family there is no obligation to wear a cb

Vanessa

Angelina

At least,a very different one than the ones of our parents.It is good to know very different opinions.

Ines

Ok,if I understand well,preventing masturbation is more considered(by you,at least)as a side-effect,the feelings(of being protected,mainly)being the main part?

strictfather

I don't think @Ines have wanted to tell her point of view is the only good one,it is mainly her opinion,and she only want to share it,not impose it.

Of course,we feel different,but I can understand how she feel(and obviously,it is very diffrent than for us,as she wears it voluntarily).

Ines

I agree.You could share your opinion here,and it is interesting for most of us,even if we feel diffently.I never felt you wanted to impose your opinion as the only right one.

Angelina that's right, in your family there is no obligation to wear a cb

Better this way,no doubt!

Dee

So I talked to my mom and dad, they were always thinking that I don’t know anything about sex, have not ever masturbated... until mom saw me playing with myself. Now I’m told that masturbate is not allowed and sex before marriage is a big no no. I have tried to get behind the belt for the last few days but without any success.... I did manage to get a piece of cloth under the belt when I don’t have the thigh bands on though. I’m just afraid that if I get caught again, they will have me wearing the thigh bands all the time.

Laura

Dee they were always thinking that I don’t know anything about sex

Do they know for sure if you are still virgin or not?

Vanessa

Dee

So,the main reason for your forced wearing of a chastity belt is because she caught you masturbating?It seems it is a pretty common reason...

Do you manage to be stimulated enough with the piece of cloth?

Be careful,if caught,they may make you wear the thigh bands permanently,yes.

Dee

Knowing you masturbate doesn't make them think you've lied about the fact you're still virgin?

So,you knew what would happen if caught masturbating before you were caught?

I don't want to scare you,but,for the 4 of us wearing a chastity bra(and I'm the only one having to wear it part-time only),we didn't have to wear one at first,it was added later...

Dee

Laura I told mom and dad I’ve never had sex. I think they believe me. It felt like they thought I am still their innocent little girl that doesn’t know anything and now they know I’m not, they’re disappointed.

Dad told me if I try to pleasure myself, I will be punished and will have to wear equipment to keep me from doing dirty stuff. I guess the only missing piece now is a chastity bra.

Christine

Dee It felt like they thought I am still their innocent little girl that doesn’t know anything

My mom thought the same, I'm lucky she didn't know about chastity belts by that time.

Laura

Dee Dad told me if I try to pleasure myself

How could you do it if you have your belt always on now?

Ines

Vanessa Be careful,if caught,they may make you wear the thigh bands permanently,yes.

Hello, Dee,
Since your family has the view than a chastity belt includes thigh bands (and I agree), you should be careful if you want avoid wear them more time.
Anyway, and my intention is far of scare you, due your parents have the thinking, and they are right, that a belt includes thigh bands, I am almost secure about they will propose you wear them more time. You should think that probably only reason for you dot wear them in home is that they are newbies.
When they see that with a long chain as you have, you will not any problem, probably they will decide that is better for your safety you wear it in home, that is where is more necessary we are safe, because is when we have more fights.
Only limit, is the activities you can not make wearing bands, to be safe is not excuse to erase activities or hobbies of your life.
If your parents' idea is you are protected, I would not care about bra. I think it is a bit extreme device.

Kisses!

Vanessa

Ines

I agree(except I don't think thigh bands should be worn with a chastity belt);especially,as,often,when there is a stricter rule,it is harder to make them reduce the strictness of it...

Try to have good arguments to tell if your parents want you to wear your thigh bands more often(even if I think it would be hard to make them change their minds,if they want you to wear the thigh bands more often).

Dee

Too much fighting the belt too?

Ines I think that for conservative parents is not bad notice at all that their girls can not achieve a masturbation. And since they decided to buy a chastity belt with bands, it is clear, I think, that the purpose is avoid bad touching.

I think too.They probably decided to stop her to masturbate too,as the belt can easily prevent both sex and masturbation.

Laura So the answer is yes

You're lucky!😉

Renita

They probably don't think it is useful,at least for now.Based on this board,it seems chastity bras are often oredered some time after the chastity belt.

Natescage At least there's that an occasional orgasm would make it more bareable I would think.

I think too.

Laura

Christine My mom thought the same

My parents were not so naive, however 🤣

Dee I think he meant if I try to play with my breast or get smart with the belt?

So, they didn't care until the last month, and not they even don't want to touch your breast.
Also having the secondary shield off in not an option now, despite the initial purpose was to prevent from fooling around with boys

Dee

Laura I think he meant if I try to play with my breast or get smart with the belt? I do get some pleasure from my breast but no where close to getting an orgasm...

Renita

Dee if I try to play with my breast

Why didn't they order chastity bra together with belt?

Ines

Laura

Laura So, they didn't care until the last month, and not they even don't want to touch your breast.
Also having the secondary shield off in not an option now, despite the initial purpose was to prevent from fooling around with boys

I think that for conservative parents is not bad notice at all that their girls can not achieve a masturbation. And since they decided to buy a chastity belt with bands, it is clear, I think, that the purpose is avoid bad touching.
I feel a bit sorry for Dee, because she is not a convinced wearer, but maybe, before accept, she should read us, because a chastity belt is a very, very secure item.

Laura

Ines I think that for conservative parents is not bad notice at all that their girls can not achieve a masturbation. And since they decided to buy a chastity belt with bands, it is clear, I think, that the purpose is avoid bad touching.

I don't think she didn't know she has discovered masturbation much earlier when she was 15-16, but didn't try to put a belt on her until now when she is about to go to college where she will not be under their control anymore

Natescage

Laura you have been belted for a while correct Laura? Are you ever allowed to orgasm? Or just frustration?

Laura

Natescage That was not the purpose of my belt. So the answer is yes

Natescage

Laura so your parents don't care if you masturbate sometimes they just want to prevent premarital sex? Do you ask then for a release?

Laura

Natescage they just want to prevent premarital sex?

Correct

Natescage Do you ask then for a release?

I will be declined if ask for it without a valid reason

Natescage

Laura how do you argue that wanting to masturbate is a valid reason? I would think they would let you every so often so it's not excessive and gets addictive.

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