Home and family rules

Angelina

the only people who read it outside my father are my girlfriend and later maybe my children. 😂

bismarck

Angelina That's not difficult. There are plenty of tall men in Germany that you and your partner can make children with. Here to find such people are rather difficult and time goes by.

Vanessa

Angelina

Is it only remembering the reason for something to be punished that work,not remembering what was the punishment?

bismarck

I think it would be related to her experience,feelings and rules,it may not be useful for other people...

Angelina

Vanessa Is it only remembering the reason for something to be punished that work,not remembering what was the punishment?

well, it's always about the why.

it reminds me why something is forbidden.

Vanessa I think it would be related to her experience,feelings and rules,it may not be useful for other people...

i have often thought about writing a book about my life, but then i realize that i cannot do that to humanity 😂

Vanessa

Angelina it reminds me why something is forbidden.

Is it enough to make you avoid to misbehave?Even if you don't agree much with the rule?

Angelina

Vanessa

sometimes yes, sometimes no
it always depends on the rule and the punishment

Vanessa

Angelina

So,the possible punishment is also considered,not only why it it is forbidden.

Angelina

bismarck

uh tall men ???????

i don't understand you

Angelina

Vanessa

of course, before I decide to do something forbidden, I always think about why it is forbidden and what kind of punishment I will get if I get caught

Vanessa

Angelina

Me too.My punishments are less precisely defined as yours,but I can guess more or less what punishments I could get for misbehaving.

Angelina

Vanessa

well, you probably know your parents very well and know how they will react

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,especially if I've already misbehaved in the same way before,it would generally be the same punishment(except if it is a repeated offense,of course).

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,especially if I've already misbehaved in the same way

that's what the essays can keep you from doing 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Knowing what the punishment would be can be effective,too...

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, which is why I can often avoid being punished 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

In my case,it depends.If my misbehavior is worth the punishment,and if I've good chances to not be caught!😉

For example,I liked to sneak out to meet friends or boyfriend/girlfriend,but I often hesitated a bit because being caught would mean the thigh bands;if thigh bands haven't been a part of the punishment,I probably have did it more often.

Angelina

Vanessa In my case,it depends.If my misbehavior is worth the punishment,and if I've good chances to not be caught!😉

there I give you to 100% right. the difference is also only that I can read the whole again in writing

Sara2001

Vanessa In my case,it depends.If my misbehavior is worth the punishment,and if I've good chances to not be caught!😉

I think if Daniel would think that I think like this about a rule, he would increase the possible punishment up to a point where I definitely don't ask myself if following my rules would be better.

Vanessa

Angelina

Do you think if it was not written,and you only think about it like I do,it would change much how you act?

In my case,I don't think it would have much impact...

Angelina

Vanessa

i think i would do more forbidden things, because i might forget why it is forbidden and if i don't see the sense in a forbidden thing, i won't follow it 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

So it seems it is more useful for you than it would be for me.

Sara2001

Hard,but logical.

Angelina

It is the purpose of making the punishment for a repeated offense more severe,too.

Angelina

Sara2001

understandable, my father would do exactly the same. therefore it is important to keep your own thoughts to yourself 😂

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