Vanessa Mainly right,but there should be a safeword to be used only if the wearer feels bad,which,when used,means an immediate unlocking without any questions(and discussing what happened after).
And,of course,the wearer should not use it except if it is very necessary.
I don't like the idea of a safeword for this. A safeword means that it is still my final descision. I think a keyholder must see situations of emergency when the belt needs to be removed. I don't have a safeword nowadays, why should I need one after marriage?
Angelina there must always be the possibility to rethink the decision, but if you have decided how sara has chosen this lifestyle, it is difficult to revise this decision without consequences 🙁
I think life changes permanently and any descision can be redone any time. Nobody knows how we feel in 5 or 10 years. I think changes like this with a big impact on your lifestyle should have some kind of waiting period. Like when we decide, that we don't want the belt anymore, there should be a period of one or two months where anything stays at it is, and if we still feel the same after these months, we chould do the change.
I think the same.
Angelina of course your argumentation is logical, but it doesn't matter how you do it, because if the conversation doesn't give a good reason after the release, the belt will simply be put on again.
I think that's how it should be. As the wearer you often have "short time" wishes and the system must ensure, that you stay happy, not that you can get out of the belt whenever you want. It's the keyholders descision to release you or not. I don't want to have any kind of final saying in it, I think it would work, because I would use my power to easy.
Vanessa I think of cases like distress or panic attack,for example.Mainly useful for new wearers.
For an obvious emergency, no safeword should be needed. I would never give the key to someone that doesn't know me well enough to see an emergency.
