Saintprudence Her “claiming” my orgasms is a mental life-hack

I think I understand your position quite well. A chastity belt is an extreme measure, and is almost never appropriate. On the other hand thinking outside of the box, including fantasies about weird stuff, can often be good for a marriage.

I do believe that each spouse's orgasms "belong" to the other spouse in some sense, and to "steal" them can be an offense. I personally would feel uncomfortable, and sometimes guilty, if I self-pleasured instead of waiting for the right time to share with my wife. Secret masturbation can be a turn-on if it comes up, but it can also be a betrayal.

Anyway, you shouldn't have to take the heat for the idea. Just tell your wife that Rick thinks she should wear a chastity belt if she can't control herself. I'm sure we're all interested in hearing how that conversation goes.

      Renita has explained already. That's pretty much it.

      that's true and I've understood it by now 😉

      Rick Just tell your wife that Rick thinks she should wear a chastity belt if she can't control herself. I'm sure we're all interested in hearing how that conversation goes.

      this could be a really interesting conversation, if her wife registers here we could start a voting 🤣

            Angelina this could be a really interesting conversation,

            I haven't succeeded in finding Prudence's funny bone yet, so I aimed this one at her wife.

                Rick I have a funny bone; it’s just very dry and dark!

                My wife assumes everyone here makes everything up, so she has no interest in posting. (In a few cases I think she’s right, and in a few others I hope she is.)

                    Nothing’s keeping anyone from starting a vote anyway, even if only for our own amusement 🙂.

                      Saintprudence I have a funny bone; it’s just very dry and dark!

                      I like that 🙂

                      Saintprudence My wife assumes everyone here makes everything up

                      i don't know how much she has read, if she has only read a few posts, i can understand why she thinks so

                      Saintprudence Nothing’s keeping anyone from starting a vote anyway, even if only for our own amusement 🙂.

                      but it's only fun if your wife participates 😂

                              Laura

                              Rarely the case if they tend to think a chastity belt is useful.Difficult to convince them it is not the case.

                              Angelina but they have more control over the chastity belt 😉

                              Right.

                              Saintprudence One can be completely certain virtue is maintained with a belt.

                              Yes,it is very effective!

                              Laura Less worry for them when they know the belt is on me

                              Logical.It is not your decision anymore to have sex when unmarried or not.

                              Saintprudence And every so often I start thinking like my parents and believe all adults should be locked until marriage.

                              actually, that’s not even my parents talking, but my wife. Her interval justification for belting me is that a woman’s orgasms belong to her spouse, and so belting before marriage is essential to preserving that “virtue.” And after marriage your spouse has the right to keep them safe!

                              I don't agree at all with this!😉

                              Saintprudence

                              It would still be very hard,but I think knowing more people have to wear it could be a bit helpful.Less fearing it is discovered if more common,more people to talk with,and easier to get advices.

                              Saintprudence I could ask my wife to wear a belt 🙂. She’d get a good laugh out of it and stand me in the corner while she plays video games, just for suggesting it!

                              However,it would be more fair.And if "a woman’s orgasms belong to her spouse",her orgasms should belong to you!😉

                              Rick I do believe that each spouse's orgasms "belong" to the other spouse in some sense, and to "steal" them can be an offense. I personally would feel uncomfortable, and sometimes guilty, if I self-pleasured instead of waiting for the right time to share with my wife. Secret masturbation can be a turn-on if it comes up, but it can also be a betrayal.

                              It is not unusual to still masturbate alone,even if married.And it can be healthy for the relationship too.But doing it secretly,while hiding it,can be different.

                              Rick Just tell your wife that Rick thinks she should wear a chastity belt if she can't control herself. I'm sure we're all interested in hearing how that conversation goes.

                              it would be interesting,yes!🙂

                              Angelina i don't know how much she has read, if she has only read a few posts, i can understand why she thinks so

                              And if she participates,she would know us better.

                              Angelina but it's only fun if your wife participates 😂

                              And accept to follow the results!😉

                                                      Vanessa And if she participates,she would know us better.

                                                      that's exactly what i mean, if an outsider reads our forum, that person will think that this is all fantasy. because to believe all this, those people have to know our background 😉

                                                          Angelina

                                                          I agree.If someone want to understand us better,he/she sould subscribe and discuss a bit with us.It would be hard to understand us only by reading us,even more as there is a lot to read,now!

                                                              Vanessa

                                                              exactly, it would be best if a user who doubts our stories would sign up and start a new conversation with us and this without prejudice 🙂

                                                                10 months later

                                                                Hi!

                                                                As I said here: SummerNight

                                                                Hi! I am a long-time reader, first-time poster. I am a man in my mid-twenties, software-engineer. I have been fascinated by the idea of women's chastity belts ever since I read about them as a nine year old boy. To me they represent a symbol of loyalty, absolute dedication, a symbol of purity. I dream to find a woman who would entrust with the keys to her heart (and her chastity belt), but my career keeps me busy, so it's rather difficult for me to meet someone new.

                                                                I am looking for a woman who wouldn’t mind wearing a chastity belt after marriage. Given this is all public, I want to keep the amount of unique identifiers to a minimum, but I don’t mind being more open in a private chat.

                                                                My other requirements are:

                                                                • age <25
                                                                • patient (I want to get to know her well first)
                                                                • kind (more and more I find kindness to be the most important aspect of a person)

                                                                In return I can offer myself, my love and all that God has given to me. All in time.

                                                                Note: Please forgive me, if any of this is out of place here. I saw an opportunity and I took it.

                                                                    Laura I am a virgin myself (that is to say, I never had sex with anyone). I would strongly prefer my future partner to be a virgin as well. However, I am still willing to give a chance to any girl regardless of her virginity - what matters to me is the present and the future, not the past.

                                                                      SummerNight I am looking for a woman who wouldn’t mind wearing a chastity belt after marriage.

                                                                      Be aware, that most girls here must wear a chastity belt before marriage.

                                                                          HHelen I am aware. A belted wife is a good role model for her (future) daughters. The belt also means that she belongs to her husband alone - all the more reason to love and care for her.

                                                                              Max9 I am not. I was always attracted to the idea of women's chastity. I'd like to take the role of husband-protector and to reward such cessation of independence with all the love and attention I could give. I think such love would come naturally to me, a woman wearing a chastity belt is already fulfilling my childhood dreams, so I would do all that I could to fulfill hers.

                                                                                I have decided to share a little more information about myself:

                                                                                • I live in the Czech Republic. The nationality, ethnicity and current geographical location of my future partner is irrelevant.
                                                                                • I am a Christian. My motto is “do not judge, lest you should be judged”.
                                                                                • I lead a modest life, but I could afford to support myself, my wife and my hypothetical children. It would be up to my hypothetical wife to decide if she wants to stay at home, work or pursue further studies. I would also ensure all of my hypothetical children have a university degree.
                                                                                • I don't smoke. I tried a cigarette once.
                                                                                • I love chili peppers. I can eat a fresh habanero (minus the seeds).
                                                                                • I take weekend road-trips to old towns, mountains, spas, zoos, castles, museums, anywhere interesting that's not too far.
                                                                                • I play computer games to relax. I like games with high skill-ceiling that I can become good at.

                                                                                  SummerNight Maybe add some of the details of who you are looking for to you bio? That way, as you talk on the forum, readers will always know to contact you if they're interested.