Vanessa

like i said, first try to achieve your goal that you don't have to wear the bra in summer.

if your parents still insist on it, you have to do everything you can to at least get air holes

if it gets hotter the next week, you should talk to your parents about it this weekend

      Angelina

      Yes,I will do it in this order.

      It should soon be hotter,so I think I will talk about it with them soon.But I prefer to wait until it is hot before I start the talk,if they feel it is hot,they would understand better it is hard for me.

          Vanessa

          i would do it already, the problem is if you wear the bra for the first time in summer and your parents think it's ok, it will be difficult to demand anything else 🙁

              Angelina

              I think this talk would happen soon,yes.

              However,if I start this talk quickly after it starts to be hot,it would not impact it much.If I wait too long,of course,they would think if I've managed it until now,I can manage it longer,sure.

                  Vanessa I wait too long,of course,they would think if I've managed it until now,I can manage it longer,sure.

                  That's exactly what I mean.

                  it is already very warm in our house, i am glad that i have the air conditioning and the air holes

                      Angelina

                      I had this talk yesterday,and my parents understand me,but they want to think about it a bit,I would know their decision the next week-end.

                      On one hand,they understand it could be very uncomfortable for me,but on the other hand,they like it prevents me to get stimulated on my breasts,especially when alone with Emilie...Anyway,it will still be used this week,even if it is going to be very hot in France...

                      I don't suggest air holes for now,as they could think it would be enough to make it more bearable for me and,so,it could still be used in Summer.But I would suggest it if they decide I should wear it,even in Summer.

                      Good the air conditioner help you!🙂 Even if it seems the meteorologists have changed their mind and think it won't be very hot,closer to the average temperature.

                          Vanessa

                          i hope you can make it at least this week, good that you talked to your parents.

                          i hope your parents will decide quickly, if you have to keep wearing the bra you should still ask for air holes.

                          But I understand why you haven't done it yet 😉

                          yes the air conditioning helps, it is very hot in our house right now

                              Angelina

                              No decision for now,and,as it starts to be hot in France,it starts to be very awful,especially as I've to wear it everyday,presently...

                              It adds a lot of physical discomfort to the emotional impact of wearing this chastity bra...I hope my parents would tell me their decision this week-end,but,at least,they can notice it is very hard for me presently,it could impact their choice;I hope I would be allowed to have it off during Summer!

                              Air conditioning help,yes,however!🙂

                                  Vanessa
                                  Frankly Vanessa, and please forgive me, but... I can not understand the intention of your parents making you wear a chastity bra ☚ī¸.
                                  I mean, if I can understand the intention, bad one, after the parents of some girls here, I can understand that they have, I think, some mental disability, and they decide that is good for us wear it, to avoid, touching, to avoid wear nice clothes... etc.
                                  But, since your parents do not think is necessary nothing more than belt, (bands are punishment for you, so they do not think you have always that protection), I can not understand why they are, suddenly so cruel towards you 😔
                                  I wish you the best of lucks

                                      Ines

                                      Mainly because they doubt I do nothing with my girlfriend,and want to make it way less interesting for me(at least,they think),by locking away my second most sensitive area.It's why I've almost never worn it when we're confined,as I was almost never alone with Emilie,and why I'm generally far from wearing it permanently.

                                      Thigh bands can be used if I'm alone a lot of time too,to not let me spend too much time trying to cheat on my chastity belt.But I never have to wear these when going out,nor when I go to work,nor when I'm not alone a long time;so I've not worn these very often since the change of the rules.

                                      If punished by using these devices,I must wear it permanently,day and night,for a few days.But it doesn't happen often.

                                          Vanessa

                                          i understand you, despite air conditioning and air holes i am currently sweating a lot, in germany it is also very hot . i am emotionally also quite offended and sweat a lot 🙁

                                          i can imagine that it must be horrible in your situation and i hope that there will be a positive decision for you soon

                                          Vanessa

                                          the problem is that all situations currently come together and the rules are therefore very bad for you. you are currently often alone at home and the weather is very hot 🙁

                                                I hope everything will be clarified for you, soon. I hope they decide, that it is not needed for the summer but I worry they may not decide like this. Then I hope you get at least you're airholes, soon.

                                                I got mine when it became hot here, too. It is definitely less inconvenient.

                                                  Sara2001 I got mine when it became hot here, too. It is definitely less inconvenient.

                                                  this is very good, it was very hot this week and without the air holes it is very uncomfortable

                                                  a little tip for you and @Vanessa , in winter it is the other way round, so i would always recommend to have 2 bras. one with air holes for the summer and one without air holes for the winter

                                                  this makes the bra (unfortunately) not less safe, but a little more comfortable to wear 🙂

                                                      Angelina i would always recommend to have 2 bras. one with air holes for the summer and one without air holes for the winter

                                                      Why two? In the winter you wear more clothes and air holes will not be any problems.

                                                          Tobbe Why two? In the winter you wear more clothes and air holes will not be any problems.

                                                          because in winter the air holes could be a disadvantage, you are right, nevertheless it is more comfortable 🙂

                                                            I understand, but I think it is better to have ONE with air holes then have only one without any.
                                                            Two is of course the best, but the cost to buy one chastity bra can probably do it only becomes a standard with no air holes.

                                                            The use can be much more frequent, if there are two different ones to choose from!

                                                              Tobbe

                                                              of course i can't speak for all women, it helps me personally to have this choice, so it's just a tip 🙂

                                                                  I got the answer,and its is pretty good,as they allow me to be free of it during Summer,but there is rules for it.

                                                                  Firstly,I should accept to wear it again without discussing in Autumn,or if it is way less hot several days in Summer.Secondly,it doesn't apply for punishment,if I have to wear thigh bands and chastity bra day and night during a few days as punishment,I would still wear the chastity bra,no matter how hot it is.Thirdly,I'm not allowed to play with my breasts,not let Emilie play with my breasts.Fourthly,they can tell me to put it on at anytime,but in this case,they would explain me why and we would discuss it to try to find another way to achieve the goal without wearing it.

                                                                  Not to bad one,and pretty logical ones;I was surprised by the third one,as playing with my breasts was never clearly forbidden before,but they explained me allowing me to avoid the chastity bra in Summer is a sign of trust,and I should prove them I can control me enough to warrant it.Not very happy with this one,but better than having the chastity bra on(which would prevent me to do it anyway).

                                                                  Angelina i understand you, despite air conditioning and air holes i am currently sweating a lot, in germany it is also very hot . i am emotionally also quite offended and sweat a lot 🙁

                                                                  i can imagine that it must be horrible in your situation and i hope that there will be a positive decision for you soon

                                                                  I'm sorry for you too.I hope it would be better soon in Germany .

                                                                  Angelina the problem is that all situations currently come together and the rules are therefore very bad for you. you are currently often alone at home and the weather is very hot 🙁

                                                                  Yes,it was clearly not the best time to be alone at home that often...It was very hard.Now,no chastity bra anymore,but still thigh bands...Better,but not perfect...

                                                                  Sara2001

                                                                  I'm lucky they allow it,yes.But it is not permanent wearing as it is for you or @Angelina,so easier for me to avoid it,I think.

                                                                  Good you were allowed to get air holes too,however.

                                                                  Tobbe Two is of course the best, but the cost to buy one chastity bra can probably do it only becomes a standard with no air holes.

                                                                  I guess if parents can afford a chastity belt+chastity bra only to prevent their daughter(s) to masturbate,have sex and get sexual feelings,they can pretty easily buy another chastity bra 6 months after...

                                                                  Tobbe The use can be much more frequent, if there are two different ones to choose from!

                                                                  Not sure it would impact much the frequency of the use of it...

                                                                              Vanessa Not to bad one,and pretty logical ones;I was surprised by the third one,as playing with my breasts was never clearly forbidden before,but they explained me allowing me to avoid the chastity bra in Summer is a sign of trust,and I should prove them I can control me enough to warrant it.Not very happy with this one,but better than having the chastity bra on(which would prevent me to do it anyway).

                                                                              You are very lucky, I think this is an extremely fair compromise. I hope you will be able to not play with your breasts, if so, it may become a long time thing.