Chastity contract

Angelina

even if I sometimes disagree with him, we should not insult him

Avery

Avery I am pleased to announce that I now have a chastity contract. It's not written down but was agreed to verbally by me and my boyfriend. Sort of. I was enthusiastic in my agreement, he was kind of like, what? What are you talking about?

If I may reply to my own post, my Father has joined my boyfriend with a huh, what? response to my wearing the belt. He knows me well enough to know I'm not going to cheat (with another person) so he can't figure out why bother.

Avery Finally, I plan to spend as much time as I can at the beach with my breasts bare. This is a bit of a reach in the US but possible at the national park near Bar Harbor if you don't stretch it.

I reported maybe a year ago my father and I were at odds as to how much coverage I needed at the beach for my bottom. We compromised by my modeling stuff for him before wearing it. Oddly enough he has said nothing about bare breasts. Now I'm the one that's confused.

bdsamm

Avery First, nice to see you back. You were much missed. Next, glad you have a chastity contract with the boyfriend. Does that mean he is or will wear on too? I would highly recommend the QIUI device that is app controlled (by you). Are you wearing a lot of the time or only for risky situations.

Whatever, I am sure you will benefit in many ways from chastity.

Sam

Avery

bdsamm Hi. I didn't realize you were still around. No, he's not participating in any way, nor do I think he would consider it. He's kind of a in days of old when knights were bold and women weren't particular ...... perpendicular.

I try to wear it all the time except when I work or go to the beach or run or workout or shower. I do feel good about the chastity bit knowing it's only temporary.

bdsamm

Avery I check in occasionally. Not very interested in much on here any more but do enjoy chatting with long term serious belt wearers. You are a very interesting belt wearer, intelligent, athletic, probably attractive and a good writer. You express yourself well.

Milord

bdsamm

What’s your interest in chastity? You used to be active here. if i may ask

bdsamm

Milord Back in the 1980's I had a lady that wasted a lot of time trying to orgasm when she had plenty of housework and other things. I ordered a NeoSteel Classic belt and after considerable adjustment and trial and error it solved the problem. She adjusted to the belt and I kept her locked most of the time but especially when left alone.

I was surprised at how comfortable she was with it. I had not planned for her to wear it to work but she insisted that it made her feel safer when out in remote areas alone so she did wear it to work and with no key.

Then I started to realize how much better my sexual health would be if someone had made me wear a chastity device as a young man to prevent masturbation. Male masturbation develops some bad habits.

Milord

bdsamm thanks for explanation

luhuixin

Avery why cant you wear during your job?

Avery

luhuixin why cant you wear during your job?

Have to wear my bathing suit.

Joh

Avery This make sense.
I suppose you can't choose another style to hide it.

luhuixin

Avery not familiar with that term - swimwear?

Avery

Joh Avery This make sense.
I suppose you can't choose another style to hide it.

No, that's part of the job. We sell coffee and pastries on the dock every morning to fishermen and tourists who come off the tour boats. My job is to wear as little as the law will allow and we do see our share of cops for one reason or another. The tips are awesome, though it's so far North it's often quite chilly mornings.

Spork

Avery My job is to wear as little as the law will allow

You don't think you'd sell more if you had a belt on show? At least to a certain audience that would give you increased appeal 😆

Avery

Spork You don't think you'd sell more if you had a belt on show? At least to a certain audience that would give you increased appeal 😆

The cloth bikini creates the impression, I think, that the suit will easily come off. Maybe not there on the dock but somewhere. Actually, every day I expect to be replaced by someone with a bigger rack.

youdontknowme

Add a metal bra and you will have the most dazzling bikini on the whole beach ;P

Joh

Avery Big is not better by it delfe. Important is the whole impresszand how everyone feels valued when you serve them.

Spork

Avery Actually, every day I expect to be replaced by someone with a bigger rack.

Hey, variety is the spice of life. All boobs are good!

Avery

Joh Important is the whole impression and how everyone feels valued when you serve them.

I try to make sure they leave with a smile on their faces.

Avery

Spork Hey, variety is the spice of life. All boobs are good!

Without boobs girls are just guys with pretty faces.

mina

I haven't read this whole thread but is it common for people to have written contracts for this?

I don't have a contract, but we have an agreement. It's not something that is written down. I think an expectation and an understanding is enough.

pestulens

mina I can see the utility of writing everything out in advance, not only so you can go back to it if there is ever a disagreement about what was agreed to in the future, but the process of writing everything down can help make sure everyone is on the same page about there expectations and understandings to start with.

Of course, everyone knows these 'contracts' aren't legally binding.

Angelina

mina I haven't read this whole thread but is it common for people to have written contracts for this?

i think it is at least helpful to establish rules beforehand and not when it comes to emotional exceptional situations. of course it is not legally binding, but it can be a basis for the values and rules to which one has committed oneself for wearers and key holders

Sasha

mina In my experience writing everything out and both sides agreeing to what was written helps make sure everything is covered and lessens cases of interpretation.
It’s pretty hard for the KH to interpret something one way and the wearer the other way when it was written down and agreed to.
Of course none of it’s legally binding, just helps in the dynamic

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