Chastity contract

Sin

Avery Hooray! Another normal person with realistic expectations!!

Milord

Sin after trying myself I have the same exact idea than you.

Milord

Hi all, I take the title from @Sin post

Sin Avery Hooray! Another normal person with realistic expectations!!

Now, it's been a couple of months since my wife has been wearing a chastity belt, and I've realized a lot of things that reading others experiences I have been unable to understand before.
Here are mine, and of course ready to discuss
1) 24 is not 24. The simple idea of having a girl closed in a belt for 24 hours is silly. Time for cleaning, getting out for various reasons, pinching, chafing, sports, other unplanned reasons (going to beauty salon, traveling are just examples), and just plain discomfort (when for example, having to stay several hours sit at the desk) makes the idea of continuous wearing impossible and for long time utterly dangerous
2) Pinching and chafing. It happens. Even after 2 months sometimes the belt is not comfortable. Body change shape, this is a truth that cannot be denied. When it happens, open, use aloe cream or other soothing cream, and wait before putting it
3) Panic attack. It happened just once, but when it happens, you just have to open.
4) Just not wanting. Ok, this is tricky. There are times when she's very distressed. When it happens, the belt is removed.
5) Out when she wants: it's pretty easy to understand, living daily with the belt, that you can't keep someone unwilling in a belt. NO WAY. IMPOSSIBLE. Maybe I will do a post on this, but if she wants to get out, she will get out. True for my wife, true for everyone wearing it. Unless maybe you live in a remote country, you will not be able to get the Internet or the forum.

Avery

Joh It is interesting to read why you have now a chastity contract and what your goal is. But I do not see exactly where you want to go with it.
I understand the different exception not wearing it but I can't follow why you wear it loose. I think if no exception apply you should wear it well fitted.

Think of it like wearing a wedding ring. A wedding ring does not prevent you from doing anything. It's a symbol. An announcement that you are in a serious relationship.

Part of the reason I want to do it is just to show my partner I take the relationship seriously, that I'm willing to undergo the inconvenience to show some fidelity. Also, I'd really like to understand better what people who wear belts experience. Also, I'd like to see if using the belt adds something to the relationship.

I wear it loose because the belt is more symbolic than anything. I am not going to have sex with someone else and I don't need a belt to prevent that. I have not sworn off masturbation so I don't need it for that. I will only masturbate with my partner in mind. I can control that without a belt. I simply won't do it otherwise.

Sasha

Avery wear it loose because the belt is more symbolic than anything.

Thank you for the explanation, and that’s a very good reason to wear it like you’ve described.
Sorry for the incorrect speculation

Joh

Avery Thank you for the Detail explanation. Now I understand what you will achieve.

Avery

Sasha I’m guessing she’s not entirely used to the commitment of wearing it as the contract says she should just yet, so wearing it loosely leaves “options”.
Of course I’m just speculating and I’m sure she will answer herself when she’s ready

Maybe I should remind that I have my own key. Wearing the belt tight proves nothing. If I wanted to cheat I'd just take the belt off and do it. And if I want to masturbate thinking of my partner I just go ahead and do it. We do not consider masturbation cheating. Some folks do and I respect that.

Max9

IHATETHISFORUM @Milord, is that you?

Angelina

Max9

even if I sometimes disagree with him, we should not insult him

Avery

Avery I am pleased to announce that I now have a chastity contract. It's not written down but was agreed to verbally by me and my boyfriend. Sort of. I was enthusiastic in my agreement, he was kind of like, what? What are you talking about?

If I may reply to my own post, my Father has joined my boyfriend with a huh, what? response to my wearing the belt. He knows me well enough to know I'm not going to cheat (with another person) so he can't figure out why bother.

Avery Finally, I plan to spend as much time as I can at the beach with my breasts bare. This is a bit of a reach in the US but possible at the national park near Bar Harbor if you don't stretch it.

I reported maybe a year ago my father and I were at odds as to how much coverage I needed at the beach for my bottom. We compromised by my modeling stuff for him before wearing it. Oddly enough he has said nothing about bare breasts. Now I'm the one that's confused.

bdsamm

Avery First, nice to see you back. You were much missed. Next, glad you have a chastity contract with the boyfriend. Does that mean he is or will wear on too? I would highly recommend the QIUI device that is app controlled (by you). Are you wearing a lot of the time or only for risky situations.

Whatever, I am sure you will benefit in many ways from chastity.

Sam

Avery

bdsamm Hi. I didn't realize you were still around. No, he's not participating in any way, nor do I think he would consider it. He's kind of a in days of old when knights were bold and women weren't particular ...... perpendicular.

I try to wear it all the time except when I work or go to the beach or run or workout or shower. I do feel good about the chastity bit knowing it's only temporary.

bdsamm

Avery I check in occasionally. Not very interested in much on here any more but do enjoy chatting with long term serious belt wearers. You are a very interesting belt wearer, intelligent, athletic, probably attractive and a good writer. You express yourself well.

Milord

bdsamm

What’s your interest in chastity? You used to be active here. if i may ask

bdsamm

Milord Back in the 1980's I had a lady that wasted a lot of time trying to orgasm when she had plenty of housework and other things. I ordered a NeoSteel Classic belt and after considerable adjustment and trial and error it solved the problem. She adjusted to the belt and I kept her locked most of the time but especially when left alone.

I was surprised at how comfortable she was with it. I had not planned for her to wear it to work but she insisted that it made her feel safer when out in remote areas alone so she did wear it to work and with no key.

Then I started to realize how much better my sexual health would be if someone had made me wear a chastity device as a young man to prevent masturbation. Male masturbation develops some bad habits.

Milord

bdsamm thanks for explanation

luhuixin

Avery why cant you wear during your job?

Avery

luhuixin why cant you wear during your job?

Have to wear my bathing suit.

Joh

Avery This make sense.
I suppose you can't choose another style to hide it.

luhuixin

Avery not familiar with that term - swimwear?

Avery

Joh Avery This make sense.
I suppose you can't choose another style to hide it.

No, that's part of the job. We sell coffee and pastries on the dock every morning to fishermen and tourists who come off the tour boats. My job is to wear as little as the law will allow and we do see our share of cops for one reason or another. The tips are awesome, though it's so far North it's often quite chilly mornings.

Spork

Avery My job is to wear as little as the law will allow

You don't think you'd sell more if you had a belt on show? At least to a certain audience that would give you increased appeal 😆

Avery

Spork You don't think you'd sell more if you had a belt on show? At least to a certain audience that would give you increased appeal 😆

The cloth bikini creates the impression, I think, that the suit will easily come off. Maybe not there on the dock but somewhere. Actually, every day I expect to be replaced by someone with a bigger rack.

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