Chastity contract
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I had this talk yesterday,and my parents understand me,but they want to think about it a bit,I would know their decision the next week-end.
On one hand,they understand it could be very uncomfortable for me,but on the other hand,they like it prevents me to get stimulated on my breasts,especially when alone with Emilie...Anyway,it will still be used this week,even if it is going to be very hot in France...
I don't suggest air holes for now,as they could think it would be enough to make it more bearable for me and,so,it could still be used in Summer.But I would suggest it if they decide I should wear it,even in Summer.
Good the air conditioner help you!
Even if it seems the meteorologists have changed their mind and think it won't be very hot,closer to the average temperature.
i hope you can make it at least this week, good that you talked to your parents.
i hope your parents will decide quickly, if you have to keep wearing the bra you should still ask for air holes.
But I understand why you haven't done it yet 
yes the air conditioning helps, it is very hot in our house right now
No decision for now,and,as it starts to be hot in France,it starts to be very awful,especially as I've to wear it everyday,presently...
It adds a lot of physical discomfort to the emotional impact of wearing this chastity bra...I hope my parents would tell me their decision this week-end,but,at least,they can notice it is very hard for me presently,it could impact their choice;I hope I would be allowed to have it off during Summer!
Air conditioning help,yes,however!
Vanessa
Frankly Vanessa, and please forgive me, but... I can not understand the intention of your parents making you wear a chastity bra 
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I mean, if I can understand the intention, bad one, after the parents of some girls here, I can understand that they have, I think, some mental disability, and they decide that is good for us wear it, to avoid, touching, to avoid wear nice clothes... etc.
But, since your parents do not think is necessary nothing more than belt, (bands are punishment for you, so they do not think you have always that protection), I can not understand why they are, suddenly so cruel towards you 
I wish you the best of lucks
Mainly because they doubt I do nothing with my girlfriend,and want to make it way less interesting for me(at least,they think),by locking away my second most sensitive area.It's why I've almost never worn it when we're confined,as I was almost never alone with Emilie,and why I'm generally far from wearing it permanently.
Thigh bands can be used if I'm alone a lot of time too,to not let me spend too much time trying to cheat on my chastity belt.But I never have to wear these when going out,nor when I go to work,nor when I'm not alone a long time;so I've not worn these very often since the change of the rules.
If punished by using these devices,I must wear it permanently,day and night,for a few days.But it doesn't happen often.
i understand you, despite air conditioning and air holes i am currently sweating a lot, in germany it is also very hot . i am emotionally also quite offended and sweat a lot 
i can imagine that it must be horrible in your situation and i hope that there will be a positive decision for you soon
the problem is that all situations currently come together and the rules are therefore very bad for you. you are currently often alone at home and the weather is very hot
I hope everything will be clarified for you, soon. I hope they decide, that it is not needed for the summer but I worry they may not decide like this. Then I hope you get at least you're airholes, soon.
I got mine when it became hot here, too. It is definitely less inconvenient.
Sara2001 I got mine when it became hot here, too. It is definitely less inconvenient.
this is very good, it was very hot this week and without the air holes it is very uncomfortable
a little tip for you and @Vanessa , in winter it is the other way round, so i would always recommend to have 2 bras. one with air holes for the summer and one without air holes for the winter
this makes the bra (unfortunately) not less safe, but a little more comfortable to wear
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I understand, but I think it is better to have ONE with air holes then have only one without any.
Two is of course the best, but the cost to buy one chastity bra can probably do it only becomes a standard with no air holes.
The use can be much more frequent, if there are two different ones to choose from!
I got the answer,and its is pretty good,as they allow me to be free of it during Summer,but there is rules for it.
Firstly,I should accept to wear it again without discussing in Autumn,or if it is way less hot several days in Summer.Secondly,it doesn't apply for punishment,if I have to wear thigh bands and chastity bra day and night during a few days as punishment,I would still wear the chastity bra,no matter how hot it is.Thirdly,I'm not allowed to play with my breasts,not let Emilie play with my breasts.Fourthly,they can tell me to put it on at anytime,but in this case,they would explain me why and we would discuss it to try to find another way to achieve the goal without wearing it.
Not to bad one,and pretty logical ones;I was surprised by the third one,as playing with my breasts was never clearly forbidden before,but they explained me allowing me to avoid the chastity bra in Summer is a sign of trust,and I should prove them I can control me enough to warrant it.Not very happy with this one,but better than having the chastity bra on(which would prevent me to do it anyway).
Angelina i understand you, despite air conditioning and air holes i am currently sweating a lot, in germany it is also very hot . i am emotionally also quite offended and sweat a lot
i can imagine that it must be horrible in your situation and i hope that there will be a positive decision for you soon
I'm sorry for you too.I hope it would be better soon in Germany .
Angelina the problem is that all situations currently come together and the rules are therefore very bad for you. you are currently often alone at home and the weather is very hot
Yes,it was clearly not the best time to be alone at home that often...It was very hard.Now,no chastity bra anymore,but still thigh bands...Better,but not perfect...
I'm lucky they allow it,yes.But it is not permanent wearing as it is for you or @Angelina,so easier for me to avoid it,I think.
Good you were allowed to get air holes too,however.
Tobbe Two is of course the best, but the cost to buy one chastity bra can probably do it only becomes a standard with no air holes.
I guess if parents can afford a chastity belt+chastity bra only to prevent their daughter(s) to masturbate,have sex and get sexual feelings,they can pretty easily buy another chastity bra 6 months after...
Tobbe The use can be much more frequent, if there are two different ones to choose from!
Not sure it would impact much the frequency of the use of it...
Vanessa Not to bad one,and pretty logical ones;I was surprised by the third one,as playing with my breasts was never clearly forbidden before,but they explained me allowing me to avoid the chastity bra in Summer is a sign of trust,and I should prove them I can control me enough to warrant it.Not very happy with this one,but better than having the chastity bra on(which would prevent me to do it anyway).
You are very lucky, I think this is an extremely fair compromise. I hope you will be able to not play with your breasts, if so, it may become a long time thing.
Vanessa I got the answer,and its is pretty good,as they allow me to be free of it during Summer,but there is rules for it.
very good I'm happy for you 
Vanessa Thirdly,I'm not allowed to play with my breasts,not let Emilie play with my breasts
an unnecessary rule, because I see no way to control it without the bra
Vanessa but they explained me allowing me to avoid the chastity bra in Summer is a sign of trust,and I should prove them I can control me enough to warrant it
this has nothing to do with trusting or controlling yourself, you will do it just because it is natural
Vanessa I'm sorry for you too.I hope it would be better soon in Germany .
this week it is ok so far
Vanessa Yes,it was clearly not the best time to be alone at home that often...It was very hard.Now,no chastity bra anymore,but still thigh bands...Better,but not perfect...
exactly, after all a little success for you, that makes me really happy for you (even if I'm a little envious), maybe I'll get at least some easier rules soon
Vanessa they can pretty easily buy another chastity bra 6 months after...
like i said, my father could theoretically buy a whole new set of equipment every month
Vanessa Thanks Jesus you are now more free! Look like hot weather are not always a bad thing (e.g. now covid-19 virus become less active, people who are being forced to wear uncomfortable conservative clothes of some religious background family may get some relief). As a common reader it really worry me learning that you still have to suffer the hot days until the weekend decision but there no more posts from you in the Saturday and Sunday. Fortunately your parents appears a bit wise and you get happy result. I think fetish toys could be a good thing if voluntary and in both ways, that is, after out of your current situation, as you said you and your partner each wear it one time for short term, and play some games, and share the fun in this forum. But long term discomfort is definitely not a good thing.
Tobbe Sorry, I feel very relieved finally knowing her situation improved that I leave a few lines. I think these equipment should be use to make fun, not to make people unhappy. And at the same time as their partners can also share and understand their experiences with the equipment, it can be a good thing. If some situation makes people feeling bad they won't endure it for a long time. Also I would hope this forum can keep running after a few years every woman here quit their current situation of involuntary locking!