Diana
my training went on for 2 weeks. i started with 4 hours of wearing a day and always increased by 2 hours, after 2 weeks i was "ready" to wear the belt permanently. however, my father put a lot of pressure on me to do this, but i think volunteers can also do it
I can't say anything about the toilet to pee because it works differently for you than for me
when you have to poop (forgive my choice of words, i always talk very direct) you should make sure that the hole is in the right place, so that there is not too much dirt
