Sara2001 If my explanation convinces him that I did nothing bad, I only had done the corner time before the lecture to think about the situation and this is exactly the reason why this corner time exist.
Ok,so,in this case,you get the corner time,but not the other parts of the punishment?
Sara2001 His mistakes shouldn't have any impact on my power.
It would not impact it,as you wouldn't choose the compensation.It is like the additional pillow on your chair;you would get something to compensate his mistake,but won't choose which one.
Sara2001 He will technically have the final saying, but he would never decide something like that without me feeling the same.
Good.
Sara2001 it would mean that we have a kind of he vs me discussion about it and one of us would be disappointed for not getting what he/she said.
Not if you discuss it,but,if it is very clear you would never agree,he would be the one deciding.But only if you can't find an agreement before.
Angelina
I always think it would be very good for him to know how it feels for @Sara2001.
Sara2001
What if you apply it to everything except chastity(your father can keep the keys during it),and,if you are not comfortable with it at all,spanking?
It would still give him good understanding of your usual role.And you would understand well his,too.I think it could be very good for both of you.
Sara2001 He is not forced to get it,. it's something he wants to get knowledge.
Interesting;so he choose to get one,to remember how it feels?
Sara2001 It's necessary to talk prior to a decision, so both partners normally already know what the other partner normally prefers.
Not bad.
Sara2001
I agree.I hate being spanked,of course,but I "prefer" it than to be grounded.
