Should only females get belted?

Angelina

Joh I am not sure either what @gwen want to say. Maybe non-binary means real people. Here at the forum we ware only bits and byts?

i know what non-binary people means, i meant i am overwhelmed with the question 😂

gwen The popular short form these days is enby, which sounds cute compared to non-binary.

i would make it easier. if you don't want me to see you as a man or a woman, then just as a human being 🙂

gwen

In my country it is called divers (I also find this term terrible).

Vanessa The bases would be similar,I think.

not if someone has learned it completely differently

Vanessa

Angelina not if someone has learned it completely differently

I think it is better than not even knowing the bases.

Ines However, if you want discuss about this, open another topic, please.

Right;it would be better in a dedicated topic.

Sara2001 Yes but eating good food doesn't mean you can cook good food.

More easily than if you only eat junk food,I think(I want to precise that I don't compare your relationship with your boyfriend to junk food,however!😉 ).

Joh you can finally decide of it if you get the experience of the other side

I think so,too.

Joh But if you are happy with it that counts.

Right.

Ines

Biology is stubborn, no matter who becomes mad with this. Black is always absence of light.
However, if you want discuss about this, open another topic, please.

Sara2001

Joh You need time to get use of it

Definitely to much effort to get an idea of how it is. We are not looking forward to achieve this.

Vanessa You have also a good example on how a leader could act,with your father.

Yes but eating good food doesn't mean you can cook good food.

Joh There are enough men in Germany who do not want to lead but to be led.

Even if there would be enough man, I don't want to lead them.

Angelina i think it would feel wrong for her. but i would say that here in the forum she sometimes shows herself dominant towards other users, especially towards us women.

I don't feel the need to lead anyone and you, I am used to have strong conversations with women and I am very used in "fighting" for my opinion and that not everything that is different in my life then in the life of the majority of people is wrong.

Angelina

gwen

@Ines wants to poetically point out to us that this discussion does not fit the thread 😉

Sara2001 Yes but eating good food doesn't mean you can cook good food.

hmm... should I contradict now ??? hmm... 😂

Sara2001 I am very used in "fighting" for my opinion and that not everything that is different in my life then in the life of the majority of people is wrong.

yes, it shows and you always manage to impress me. i agree with you completely, but the question is not how much you fight for your opinion and your lifestyle but whether you can apply it equally to both genders (i'll leave out the third gender) 🙂

Joh

Sara2001 Definitely to much effort to get an idea of how it is. We are not looking forward to achieve this.

This is a valid argument.

Sara2001 Even if there would be enough man, I don't want to lead them.

This was not meant for you but a general answer to the statement of @Angelina

Sara2001 I don't feel the need to lead anyone and you, I am used to have strong conversations with women and I am very used in "fighting" for my opinion and that not everything that is different in my life then in the life of the majority of people is wrong.

Sorry. I didn't get it. What do you want to point out?

Sara2001 I am perfectly happy when others do it in their relationship in any think able combination. If this makes them happy, why should it be wrong? As you can see here, there are man man who are looking for a keyholder and I am sure there are many woman who love to have this power, but for me, for my personal life, not in general, but only for my relationship, it feels only right when the man is in charge and I am following his decisions, rules and wishes while he takes care of anything I need. This is what makes me happy and relaxed.

I agree and this is the only important point. If you are happy than it is the right thing to do. I hope it will be for a long time or forever.

Sara2001 Making big decisions, especially making big decisions that impact others with nobody else who double check my decision would stress me a lot and I am honestly impressed how well Daniel is able to do it.

I agree and I am not sure if I could do it all time independent how I feel at this moment. I am impressed.

Sara2001

Angelina but whether you can apply it equally to both genders (i'll leave out the third gender) 🙂

I am perfectly happy when others do it in their relationship in any think able combination. If this makes them happy, why should it be wrong? As you can see here, there are man man who are looking for a keyholder and I am sure there are many woman who love to have this power, but for me, for my personal life, not in general, but only for my relationship, it feels only right when the man is in charge and I am following his decisions, rules and wishes while he takes care of anything I need. This is what makes me happy and relaxed. Making big decisions, especially making big decisions that impact others with nobody else who double check my decision would stress me a lot and I am honestly impressed how well Daniel is able to do it.

Angelina

Sara2001

i understand what you mean and i am very happy that you have a happy relationship in which this system works so well. however, the question still remains for me whether you cannot live out this leadership function only towards men, but towards women and it still raises the question for me what your own upbringing with the view of men and women, you have always learned that men are the dominant part, this may have influenced you.

but well that is very theoretical now 🙂

Sara2001 That I don't need to be rescued 🙂

you definitely don't need to and i don't want to say you do, my theories are a mixture of some concern and interest 😃

Megan

Sara2001 but for me, for my personal life, not in general, but only for my relationship, it feels only right when the man is in charge and I am following his decisions, rules and wishes while he takes care of anything I need. This is what makes me happy and relaxed. Making big decisions, especially making big decisions that impact others with nobody else who double check my decision would stress me a lot and I am honestly impressed how well Daniel is able to do it.

I feel the same way to a point... Obviously I am a bit more of a 'tom-boy' and it takes time to physically realize up close that men are different then women...

Sara2001 That I don't need to be rescued 🙂

I believe you, if you are happy you don't need to be rescued and in fact you can NOT be rescued by any of us...
I am very sad to know that hitting you and punishing you is a natural part of your life. There is no reason for this even if it does not grow to a horror movie level.

Once you have your roll, how will cruelty to you make you more feminine??
There are a ton of very submissive women who have never been hit who make their partners very happy.
I would like to think I am one of them. For instance maybe I speak up about something but I have never been argumentative for the sake of arguing...
My point is if you want to be more happy and carefree maybe socializing with other submissive women woudl do that and not hitting you?!?!?!

I am very concerned for you, not critical of you if that makes sense.

Sara2001

Joh Sorry. I didn't get it. What do you want to point out?

That I don't need to be rescued 🙂

Joh I agree and I am not sure if I could do it all time independent how I feel at this moment. I am impressed

Yes, his role is very difficult, too. It's no situation where he can lead like a dictator. He has to take very good care of me at all times. He has to take anything into consideration. My happiness, our future, everything. I only have to submit to his rules and to accept his punishments. I think this is much easier.

Joh

Sara2001 That I don't need to be rescued

I know 😀

Joh

Sara2001 I only have to submit to his rules and to accept his punishments. I think this is much easier.

I am not sure about this and you can finally decide of it if you get the experience of the other side. Otherwise, it's prejudice.
But if you are happy with it thats counts.

Angelina

Vanessa (I want to precise that I don't compare your relationship with your boyfriend to junk food,however!😉 ).

🤣 🤣 🤣

Vanessa I think it is better than not even knowing the bases.

maybe, difficult topic i think.....

Vanessa

Angelina maybe, difficult topic i think.....

Especially as we don't know much about it.

Joh

gwen Thanks for clarifying. I am optimistic that someday I'll figure out the etiquette around how far threads can diverge from the titled topic.

You can open a topic if you want to discuss it further.

Angelina

gwen

I don't know yet after over 1 1/2 years 🤣 but @Ines usually draws our attention to it 😉

Angelina

Vanessa Especially as we don't know much about it.

I agree with you

Rina

I think not only females, but male / non-binaries are also should be welcome to wear a belt.

If it's for rape protection:
I think in this case, anyone can be a victim of rape. Although social stigma towards males standing up and expressing their difficulties as coping with trauma as a rape victim, it does happen.
If it's to remain chaste until marriage:
It would be self-explanatory, there are many kinds of ways to maintain chastity. Many people in my country tend to be liberal towards premarital sex, but people shouldn't be told to believe so, it's up to every different person. So, I feel if someone chose to remain chaste until marriage, it might be a good tool, regardless of gender.

Vanessa

Rina male / non-binaries are also should be welcome to wear a bel

If they want,sure.

HHelen why a chastity belt was not presented for her 18th birthday.

Not a good idea.@Angelina got her chastity bra and thigh bands on her birthday,and it makes this day less happy than it should,and,so,her father decided to not do changes about her chastity on her birthday anymore,and it was the right decision,in my opinion.

Foxies

🤣

Angelina

He read you and make some changes on his others posts,to try to make more people trust his story,and make easy for him to tell it for a longer time.😉

Laura

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Angelina at least there was a discussion and a compromise with your daughter

More probably,he guessed it would be easier for trolling if "his daughter accepted it".

Laura

mark12423 All women in my family were belted (including my wife)

Who else in your family is belted?

Sara2001

mark12423 All women in my family were belted (including my wife), but I would not want the same for my son.

My mom and my sister are belted, too. Many other girls are belted earlier then your daughter, have you ever thought about belting her earlier?

HHelen

mark12423 However now that she is 18 I would like her belted as soon as possible

Why is she still not belted? Unlike me you knew about chastity belts for a long time.

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