Should only females get belted?

Angelina

Joh Than try to change his thinking. 😁

that is impossible in my opinion 😂

Vanessa Don't you think cages are easier to hide?

You can discuss this with your brother 😉

Vanessa However,it seems it is @HHelen who wants it,not her daughter.

I think so too, but she seems to be able to convince her daughter of her will.

Vanessa Why he doesn't unlock your belt when you're alone with your girlfriend,so?

because I am not married yet 😉

Vanessa

Jen

I can understand you,it's not an easy decision.Both have pros and cons.

Personally,I had several experiences and I don't regret it,and it make me more skilled in sex.But being virgin during the wedding can be romantic too.Even if your husband isn't.

Mainly,I don't think others can't give good advices for you about it...It is a personal choice you would have to do.

MaximeJourennes

Yes,it seems easy.

I don't know what cage it is,it seems very classical.And many cages are similar(and I don't look at it closely,as my parents keep it in a closet when not used,so,if it can be looked,it is when it is on him...).

He doesn't have to wear it everyday,only if punished this way.

GoodyProctor Which is another thing I worry would have been suppressed with a belt.

Not necessarily,based on several members here(not including me,as I didn't wear the belt permanently at first).

Laura But why did you even start?

To try,I guess.

GoodyProctor they weren't that easy to come by!

Internet helped a lot about it,yes.

HHelen I would have bargained more.

For what?

Saintprudence

Me too...

Jen

Don't let it worry you too much,you're not going to marry tomorrow,probably,so you have time to decide.

Angelina You can discuss this with your brother 😉

It seems,with the right pants,it is ok.He has not to care about tops,length of the pants(well,he maybe not wear short shorts),etc...

Angelina think so too, but she seems to be able to convince her daughter of her will.

Difficult to say,with @HHelen's pretty cryptic answers,it is hard to know if her daughter is a convinced wearer or a reluctant wearer(probably not a willingly wearer)...

Angelina because I am not married yet 😉

But you said:

Angelina for my father, it's not the end of the world if i lose my virginity, it's about who i lose it to.

So,in fact,more than your partner,the most important fact for him is you're married,right?

Joh

Jen Thankyou though. Mostly waiting feels right but I don't always know.

No one knows for sure at any time. I still do, even though I have more experience.

Angelina that is impossible in my opinion

The steady drop wears away the stone.

Vanessa Don't let it worry you too much,you're not going to marry tomorrow,probably,so you have time to decide.

Right.

Max9

@a_father I know you were recebtly asked the quesrion somewhere aleeady, but I couldn't find it anywhere... so... how about your children? Are they belted? Are they alllwed to masturbate? Do you make a difference berween your daughters and your son?

Angelina

Max9 Are they belted?

if @a_father's kids are belted , i'll eat a broom 🤣

Max9

Angelina I just can't remember all the peoples life story here

Angelina

Max9 I just can't remember all the peoples life story here

neither do i, but when someone launches such an open attack on chastity, it stays in the memory. 😂

HHelen

Saintprudence haha, I’m not sure if you’re saying you like Goody’s plan or her mom’s plan!

I like to disrupt Goody's-like plan.

Vanessa For what?

For ordinary things that girls at this age need.

Jen

Vanessa Don't let it worry you too much,you're not going to marry tomorrow,probably,so you have time to decide

Yeah thanks

Angelina

Vanessa It seems,with the right pants,it is ok.He has not to care about tops,length of the pants(well,he maybe not wear short shorts),etc...

I think it would be harder if he wore a real belt (for men) like you do (for woman)

Vanessa Difficult to say,with @HHelen's pretty cryptic answers,it is hard to know if her daughter is a convinced wearer or a reluctant wearer(probably not a willingly wearer)...

probably a mixture of both, an involuntary wearer who has been manipulated into thinking she is a voluntary wearer (my guess).

Vanessa So,in fact,more than your partner,the most important fact for him is you're married,right?

then i will make it clear again. i have written that it is important to my father who i lose my virginity to and by that i mean that it is important to him that i lose my virginity to my spouse. i hope you understand what i mean.

GoodyProctor

HHelen I like to disrupt Goody's-like plan.

I can see why Pru likes you. (I mean, beyond the strict-mother-figure thing she has going on.) Your blunt honesty is a strange breath of fresh air! I've convinced myself pretty well that my mother was kind of a psycho and an outlier, but it's not bad to be reminded plenty of other people would genuinely think I should have gone to college, married a nice bland man, and not created any fuss about my rights or how I just don't like men. But that's just not my style, laughs!

Vanessa

HHelen I like to disrupt Goody's-like plan.

About experimenting during university?

Angelina I think it would be harder if he wore a real belt (for men) like you do (for woman)

I think so,too.

Angelina probably a mixture of both, an involuntary wearer who has been manipulated into thinking she is a voluntary wearer (my guess).

Possible...

Angelina you understand what i mean.

Now,yes.😉

GoodyProctor I was constantly wondering if my slight bow-legged stance or kind of awkward walk would give me away

It's normal to fear almost anyone can notice something and guess you're wearing a chastity belt,especially at start.

GoodyProctor I'm eager to get out of this thing and put Pru back where she belongs!

🤣

How does she feels about it?.)

Foxies I am really finding your "CB wearing" diary of interest.

Me too!🙂

GoodyProctor I feel like it will make me even more committed as a keyholder.

So this trying have one of the expected effect!🙂

GoodyProctor

Fourth day in the belt. I'm at our shared computer during my relatively short belting break. Just two hours unbelted (and closely supervised) today, down from four yesterday and six the day before. My body is handling it okay. A little soreness and redness, but desitin and talcum powder take care of that with no problem. Much as it irks me to say that Tobbe was right about anything, it was a good idea to scale down breaks over several days and not go full-force up front. The relief my skin feels at release, and the extent to which it heals itself in a few hours of freedom, makes a difference. I can feel the beginnings of deeper soreness, but I think that would only concern me if I was wearing longer than a week. I only have three days to go! Last night Pru and I went grocery shopping. I figured I would take it fine, but it turned out it was kind of unnerving to go out in public while wearing a belt. It wasn't a huge thing, just a trip to the neighborhood market, but I was constantly wondering if my slight bow-legged stance or kind of awkward walk would give me away. And all this made me a lot more aware of the fact I was the only person in the place wearing the equivalent of a medieval interrogation device that she can't take off. It's like, imagine walking through a supermarket while wearing handcuffs, except absolutely nobody sees them and everyone assumes your state is just normal? That's what it was like. Pru and I were totally reversed from our usual selves. I take up a lot of space and don't care who knows it. Pru loves that and enjoys hanging on my arm in what she imagines it is to be a compliant version of housewife femininity. This time she was taking up the space and I was leaning on her arm for comfort. Jesus, I really can see how long-term wearers get so attached to their keyholders and eager to please them. Clinging to Pru made me feel safer and less exposed. I'm glad we're still wearing masks in my county, because it felt better to feel a little anonymous. If any of my friends had seen me holding Pru's arm like the girlfriend in a horror movie, I'd never hear the end of it! Afterwards, a very nice early dinner by sunset on the patio cafe a few blocks down from our building. I was a lot less self-conscious while I was sitting there than I was walking around. It felt good to spend some quiet time outside with Pru. We have not done that much in the last year, and I've only been to an outdoor cafe a couple of times since vaccines started. Overall, this is still a worthwhile experiment, though I'm eager to get out of this thing and put Pru back where she belongs!

Foxies

GoodyProctor

I am really finding your "CB wearing" diary of interest. I can identify with a lot of what you say and I see that you get a sense of the power the device has on your mind and they thoughts it creates. I remember in the time before i convinced my partner to allow me to wear a CB thinking that it would have some considerable effects on my thoughts. I was not disappointed once the belt went on.

I can say that effects on my mind have not significantly waned over the course of my "incarceration" smiles

Angelina

Joh The steady drop wears away the stone.

but not a mountain of rocks 😂

GoodyProctor

Foxies Thank you! It means a lot to me to know that this diary is of value to others. It's definitely been very eye-opening for me, even if my incarceration is a bit of a shorter sentence than yours!

Joh

Angelina but not a mountain of rocks

As well. It is only a mater of time 😂
You are young. Start now!

Angelina

Joh As well. It is only a mater of time 😂
You are young. Start now!

it's not like i haven't tried it yet, but the chances of success are extremely low

GoodyProctor It means a lot to me to know that this diary is of value to others.

i have never replied to any of the points in your diary because i would have to respond to at least 10 of them, but i enjoy reading your experiences and i like the way you describe your relationship. 🙂

Foxies

GoodyProctor

My "sentence" is perhaps longer than yours - smiles. However, my sentence isn't the typical experience of CB wearers. The frequency of sexual play and relief, is now actually greater than before we acquired a CB. So truthfully I do not suffer at all. Rather the two of us enjoy the pleasure of life even more and as a side effect, it has "bound" ourselves even closer together. Perhaps, after your experience, you can now get a glimpse of how that might be the case.

GoodyProctor

Foxies I feel like it will make me even more committed as a keyholder. Now that I have some sense of the mental buttons being pushed, that can enhance how we work with this and, as you say, make us closer! I haven't really "played around" with Pru's belt much. Putting her in tightbands was my own way of amusing myself with this. This is giving me ideas - good ones, I hope! Remembering how safe I felt on Pru's arm when we were out in public makes me understand how she looks at me most of the time, and I want to learn more about that from my end.

HHelen

Vanessa About experimenting during university?

Yes, and usually most girls have it in mind.

Joh

Angelina it's not like i haven't tried it yet, but the chances of success are extremely low

What do you expect from a stone? It will be slow but steady when you are like the constant dripping.

Vanessa

Angelina the chances of success are extremely low

And you would likely be free of the belt before you manage it!😉

Angelina i enjoy reading your experiences

Me too!🙂

HHelen Yes, and usually most girls have it in mind.

Most,not sure,but many,yes.But the ones wanting to experiment during university don't want to stay virgin until marriage.

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