Should only females get belted?

Angelina

Vanessa Not sure it would be useful for a few months;anyway,let's hope your relationship lasts long and so,what he would do if not would not matter!😉

my father will do it nevertheless unfortunately 🙁 but I hope this will not be necessary 😉

Vanessa and it happened once for me...🙁 Very hard!).

that must have been very bad for you, but look at it positively. maybe you wouldn't know emilie today otherwise 😉

Vanessa

Angelina I hope this will not be necessary 😉

Let's hope so,yes!🙂

Angelina that must have been very bad for you, but look at it positively. maybe you wouldn't know emilie today otherwise 😉

Possible.And I think our relationship would have not lasted long,anyway,if he decided to dump me due to this,he was not truely in love(but I was,so,yes,it was very hard for me).

Angelina

Vanessa ,if he decided to dump me due to this,he was not truely in love

that's true, even if the belt is a burden on the relationship, it is not a reason for separation when we are really in love 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

I totally agree,even if it can be hard to manage,and accept.Even more when knowing it would take years before we would get the keys...

Angelina

Vanessa

of course, but you can also look at it positively. only someone who really loves you is willing to wait several years with you 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree it could be a good test and can be considered as a proof of love.

But I still think the bad parts are too important...

Angelina

Vanessa I agree it could be a good test and can be considered as a proof of love.

that's true and that's very good to know 🙂

Vanessa But I still think the bad parts are too important...

of course, I agree with you 100%, but we can't change it, so I try to look at the positive side

Vanessa

Angelina that's true and that's very good to know 🙂

I agree,it is reassuring and comforting when he/she knows it and want to stay in the relationship with us,and we can be sure he/she truely loves us,especially if he/she knows it means we won't be able to have sex until marriage.

Angelina of course, I agree with you 100%, but we can't change it, so I try to look at the positive side

Good way to think about it,but I've troubles to do it often...

Angelina

Vanessa I agree,it is reassuring and comforting when he/she knows it and want to stay in the relationship with us,and we can be sure he/she truely loves us,especially if he/she knows it means we won't be able to have sex until marriage.

exactly, that's why i already had a lot of conversations with camryn in the beginning about a marriage

i have said from the beginning that the relationship has to lead to a marriage so that we can be completely happy in the long run

Vanessa but I've troubles to do it often...

me too 🙁 but I still try to motivate others 😉

Vanessa

Angelina exactly, that's why i already had a lot of conversations with camryn in the beginning about a marriage

i have said from the beginning that the relationship has to lead to a marriage so that we can be completely happy in the long run

You're right.Even if it can frighten our partner to tell him/her our new relationship should lead to a marriage(especially nowadays),it should be clear at the start,and to be clear too that,no matter how much we want to be more intimate,it would not be possible until married.

Angelina me too 🙁 but I still try to motivate others 😉

If it can help people,it is good to try to motivate them to consider the positive parts of it,sure.

Angelina

Vanessa You're right.Even if it can frighten our partner to tell him/her our new relationship should lead to a marriage(especially nowadays),it should be clear at the start,and to be clear too that,no matter how much we want to be more intimate,it would not be possible until married.

exactly, that's why i had to try out a lot in the beginning, if the relationship will last for a long time, fortunately camryn and i are very compatible and look forward to a long future together

Vanessa If it can help people,it is good to try to motivate them to consider the positive parts of it,sure.

I don't know how you see it, but when I motivate others, I feel better myself 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina exactly, that's why i had to try out a lot in the beginning, if the relationship will last for a long time, fortunately camryn and i are very compatible and look forward to a long future together

Yes,it is very good when our partner accept our situation and still consider marrying and spending our life together!🙂

Angelina I don't know how you see it, but when I motivate others, I feel better myself 🙂

I like too when I can help other people manage it better!🙂

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,it is very good when our partner accept our situation and still consider marrying and spending our life together!🙂

i admit that i would not have entered into this relationship if it had been different

Vanessa I like too when I can help other people manage it better!

😉

Vanessa

Angelina i admit that i would not have entered into this relationship if it had been different

I guess that,if the potential partner don't agree to this,both would decide to not enter in a relationship.

Angelina

Vanessa

of course to be completely happy in the end sexual pleasure is very important and if camryn does not want to marry me there will be no sexual pleasure so no completely happy relationship

Vanessa

Angelina

Right,if he/she knows that there would be no sexual pleasure(well,there can be some,but only for the free one,and not the main one)until marriage,even if we both want,and he/she doesn't want to marry,he/she can understand it won't be useful to start a relationship,as,without sex,it would very probably fail,sooner or later.

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, unfortunately (or fortunately, as you want to see it) there is only this one way for a 100% happy relationship

and I am very happy that camryn is going to go this way with me 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

I would say unfortunately;without chastity devices,we could start a relationship with no plan to marry,or even think we(us or our partner)don't want to marry,and,with time,we can change our minds,and marry.With our chastity devices,it would likely not happen...

So,someone wearing a chastity belt until marriage may miss some very good and long-lasting relationship,which can lead to marriage.

Angelina

Vanessa

that's right, without a chastity belt we could have a completely happy relationship for many years without getting married and maybe even marry after 10 or 20 years of relationship 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

It happens pretty often that a couple wait a long time before marrying,even if truly in love,which would be very hard while wearing a chastity belt until marriage.It impacts a lot our decision about it.🙁

Angelina

Vanessa

of course it has a big influence, i have thought about it and probably i would marry camryn also without the belt, but then probably not before 10 years

Sarah

Vanessa so are you saying your wearing of the belt could influence you to get married earlier because getting married is required for the belt to be removed,?

« Previous Page Next Page »