youdontknowme I suppose that this is not really something you can easily discuss with a priest (I imagine that he would look quite surprised if you asked him "We want to give up sex for lent, when is the best time to give my husband a blowjob on weekends?"
Well, I've started something ;-). As I said, we are not so strictly religious. And I would never (!) bother our priest or anyone else with the subject.
By the way, I'm sorry that I can't get back to you on some topics until now. Last week we still had autumn holidays at school and my sister-in-law and her 3 daughters came to visit us very spontaneously. I had my hands full. The advantage was that I didn't have to keep wearing the bra and the bands. The girls are still quite small and we are very close and we did a lot of things together. That wouldn't have been physically possible and I would hardly have been able to hide anything while romping and cuddling. The subject has no place in this context. Whereas I wore my belt anyway, of course.
The disadvantage now is that I have had a good 1 1/2 weeks of my 2s around, but as of today I am packed again for a complete week.
