Age to begin

Laura

dvoraks We promised her that we had my old CB and that we would eventually adjust it to her. She will be able to try it, train ..

Let her observe yours first while it's on

dvoraks

Hi, so we tried my old CB on her yesterday morning, as we promised. CB didn't sit so badly because I also had it as a teenager and we have similar figures. After a small adjustment/ modification, it sat quite well. The first trial wear took place in the afternoon. The daughter came to ask if she could wear it, to try to wear it. So she undressed and we put it on and locked it. She was instructed to say so immediately if there was any problem. Then she said she liked it, that it was nice and more comfortable than she expected. And also if she can continue, that she would like to go the next day again and maybe longer.

carg

dvoraks
Very nice for you that she is so willing to try it out. But I assume only within the safety of home, and not e.g. to school.
I'm not sure why she would like them, though. I can imagine she might like the idea of being chaste, if that is an important value in her upbringing, and that it makes her feel like she is a big girl now, wearing what mommy wears. But I don't think anyone would consider them more comfortable than a normal pair of panties, especially not if they are not made to her exact measurements, and accept all the inconveniences only because they look good.
For now it of course is mainly trying out something that mommy wears. So I expect that sooner or later the novelty wears off, and she will probably tell you she is no longer interested in wearing them. Perhaps after a few days, weeks or months, when she realizes all the other kids talk about how great masturbation is, and she can't even try. How will you react then? Will you be telling her "Too late now. You've made your choice and now you'll be stuck in them until your marriage"? Or will you just let her out again, and try to get her in again at a later age, when you planned to get her belted anyway?

Avery

dvoraks The daughter came to ask if she could wear it, to try to wear it. So she undressed and we put it on and locked it. She was instructed to say so immediately if there was any problem. Then she said she liked it, that it was nice and more comfortable than she expected. And also if she can continue, that she would like to go the next day again and maybe longer.

Very similar with what happened to me. When I got my own finally it helped to have had previous experience and have an idea what measurements were appropriate.

Joh

dvoraks
I agree with @Ines @carg @youdontknowme it is too early for her to decide. She can not oversees what consequences it has.
Let her wear it in house as long as she likes but not outside. If she start to explore her sexuality let her do it. If she know what sexuality is how it works to get pregnant what it means to wear the belt until a defined time than she will be in the situation that she can decide. Not earlier.

Angelina

dvoraks

glad she liked it 🙂 but as others have said she is still very young, you can of course continue to try things out, but more should really only happen in a year or two, if she still wants it then.

Ines But, let her try it, I believe is go a bit far.

why? i once ate beef brain and realised i didn't like it. one try is not a decision. as long as nothing binding is done, everything is ok.

Joh Let her wear it in house as long as she likes but not outside.

If I have understood correctly, there is nothing else up for debate.

Ines

In my opinion is a big mistake let her try the belt is go very fast.
I believe that it is hypersesualize a girl. I think at this age is not a good idea let her wear it.
Obviously, with 13 she can ask, and she, for sure, has curiosity, and can be good idea of talk about it with her.
But, let her try it, I believe is go a bit far.

youdontknowme

Ines definitely locking it and wearing it on a regular basis. I am all for allowing kids to explore the world, but sanctioning chastity belt wear, even if completely voluntary, seems a step too far.

Ines

youdontknowme sanctioning chastity belt wear, even if completely voluntary, seems a step too far.

With that age is out of place. I agree.

youdontknowme

Joh Let her wear it in house as long as she likes but not outside.

Frankly, even that seems on the high side. Letting her try it out is one thing - it is making an experience that is not inherently harmful. But actively supporting regular wear around the house is beyond where I would draw the line. Turning a blind eye if she decides to put it on herself is different, but I feel she is too young to get parental blessing for it. But that may just be my opinion.

Vanessa

Ines @alison_cd5 , we would be nice a little introduction of you, please, in introduction topic, tell us something about you.

I agree.

Joh I agree with @Ines @carg @youdontknowme

Me too.

Joh

youdontknowme Frankly, even that seems on the high side. Letting her try it out is one thing - it is making an experience that is not inherently harmful. But actively supporting regular wear around the house is beyond where I would draw the line.

To make it clear. I mean she can have the belt and wear it if she like it or not. The parent should not encourage her in any way.

youdontknowme

Angelina more should really only happen in a year or two

A year or two would still leave her quite young for more to happen. I still believe that age of consent is the earliest where use of a chastity belt on the wearer's own terms should be wholeheartedly accepted or maybe even encouraged, and not before the age of majority should chastity belt wear become part of any negotiations. I am sure everyone only has her best interests at heart, but everything you can do is something people with less beneficial intentions can also do. As much as being made to wear a chastity belt as a minor is part of the experiences some people report about here, we should not normalize that.

Laura

dvoraks CB didn't sit so badly because I also had it as a teenager and we have similar figures

Anna, what age did you start wearing at?

dvoraks

Laura I was approx 1 yesar older

Angelina She should write here? Itś possible.

Continue .... the next day she begged if she could again and if she could continue. Again, we alerted her to report any issues immediately. On Sundays and then during the following days during the week, she was allowed to wear her CB at home in the afternoon and with gradually increasing time. She always brought CB and asked for a lock. We checked daily for problems. It was ok. This weekend we allowed her (because she already "trained") for a long time in the garden and the like.

Angelina

youdontknowme A year or two would still leave her quite young for more to happen

i even agree with you, the problem is that i am not really sure what this "more" means. i would have to know the exact agreement to be able to say if i think it is ok or not and the girl should write here so that i can assess if she has the maturity to make this decision. so yes i agree with you under some restrictions

carg

dvoraks

Thanks for the update. So you are saying that every day after school, she came to you asking to be locked in 'her' belt again? I have a hard time imaging what drives your daughter to do this. If it was just curiosity, it should have been satisfied by now.
Still, I think the only safe way to proceed, if she still wants to, is to let her hold her own key, so she stays in control. Otherwise you are very quickly reaching a point where it becomes child abuse. (What she wants is secondary to what is good for her in this situation., as defined by the law.)

Angelina

dvoraks

thanks for the update. i am surprised that she shows so much interest. i hope it is for the belt and not just because she wants to be an "adult", because then the interest will quickly decrease. But I dont't understand this

dvoraks She always brought CB and asked for a lock.

what do you mean?

Laura

dvoraks She always brought CB and asked for a lock

She can't lock up herself? Why?

a_father

carg Sure @dvoraks isn't a troll? What is told here doesn't sound realistic to me. Otherwise it is child abuse. A chastity belt and a 13 years old girl don't match.

carg

a_father

Of course not. But I prefer to treat it as true, in case it is, since then the parents need to know they should be very careful. Just proclaiming they are trolls would be slightly better if they are (don't feed the trolls), but much worse if they are not, since we will lose whatever influence we might have.

dvoraks

Angelina she was always bringing CB and asking for locking...

Laura she does not want do it alone, because CB is usually locked by other person

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