Fooling around with boys

HHelen

Vanessa Logical,but not bad,if they took care to protect themselves.

I disagree.

Vanessa With a chastity belt,they can't have the same intimacy than without it,however...

That's the purpose.

Angelina

HHelen That's the purpose.

but it could damage her relationship 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

It added a reason,I think.

HHelen I disagree.

I'm not very surprised!😉

HHelen That's the purpose.

🙁

Angelina but it could damage her relationship 🙁

It's a risk,yes.But it would depends;if they're truly in love,they may manage it(even more if they haven't had sex before,they would miss it less).Let's hope it would be the case!

HHelen

Angelina but it could damage her relationship

Then it was a weak relationship if it could be damaged this way.

Angelina

Vanessa Let's hope it would be the case!

of course that's why I write could 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Right! 😉

HHelen

I've to admit you may be right....However,it is understandable he could be shocked,and react badly(like breaking-up with her),it is pretty uncommon to wear a chastity belt.Let's hope it wouldn't be the case.

Angelina

Even if the relationship has started soon,I doubt it would change @HHelen's decision...

Angelina

HHelen

that may be true, but you really need to talk to your daughter and know how long the relationship has been going on, this is very important

Angelina

Vanessa Even if the relationship has started soon,I doubt it would change @HHelen's decision...

this is not the point, but it would help to understand the feelings of the daughter and her boyfriend, because they can be very different depending on how long the relationship has lasted

HHelen

Vanessa However,it is understandable he could be shocked,and react badly(like breaking-up with her),it is pretty uncommon to wear a chastity belt.Let's hope it wouldn't be the case.

Don't worry about it, really.

Vanessa

Angelina

About it,I agree.Knowing more about her daughter's relationship would help @HHelen understand more how she would react(I doubt she cares about her daughter's boyfriend's feelings and reactions).

Angelina

Vanessa (I doubt she cares about her daughter's boyfriend's feelings and reactions).

even if it is not her task, this is also an important gesture 🙂

Vanessa You should.If her chastity belt is the reason for a break-up between her and her boyfriend(not because he only wanted sex,but because he's shocked),she could react very badly about her chastity belt,and get some resent towards you,too.

if this is the reason, she will definitely never want to wear the belt again

I absolutely agree with you.

Vanessa

HHelen

You should.If her chastity belt is the reason for a break-up between her and her boyfriend(not because he only wanted sex,but because he's shocked),she could react very badly about her chastity belt,and get some resent towards you,too.

Vanessa

Angelina even if it is not her task, this is also an important gesture 🙂

It would be,sure.

Angelina if this is the reason, she will definitely never want to wear the belt again

Yes,as she was in a relationship before having to wear it,and it seems it would be very sudden for him to discover it,he could feel it very weird and be shocked enough to decide he should stop the relationship,even if he would truly love her and could have waited.It is a very difficult situation for her,and I think @HHelen should care a lot about it.Even more if it is the first serious relationship for her daughter.

It would be good if her daughter could come here to discuss it a bit,we could help her to manage it and try to help her to find how to announce it to her boyfriend.

Angelina

Vanessa It would be good if her daughter could come here to discuss it a bit,we could help her to manage it and try to help her to find how to announce it to her boyfriend.

that's true, it's a very risky subject, especially for her it's even riskier than for us. we already had the belt before our relationship started.

who knows, maybe the two of them were already sexually active and now (for maybe several years) to do without it is certainly very hard 🙁

HHelen

Vanessa Even more if it is the first serious relationship for her daughter.

It's not serious.

Vanessa

Angelina

It seems they were not,but even in this case,knowing it won't be possible,even if they both want,would be hard.

HHelen

If they were close to have sex together(what you told before),and she's still virgin,it is probably serious for her.If she cares to stay virgin until she's over 18,I doubt she would give it without being in love.

Angelina

HHelen

how do you know that ?

HHelen

Angelina how do you know that ?

Because I'm a parent.

Vanessa If they were close to have sex together(what you told before),and she's still virgin,it is probably serious for her

I didn't mean sex, however.

Sarah

Angelina parents know these things

Angelina

Vanessa It seems they were not,but even in this case,knowing it won't be possible,even if they both want,would be hard.

I agree, hard situation 🙁

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