Chastity bra

saras

Renita i did stuff to him but not the other way around

Joh

saras
Then why was he in a relationship with you? Sex with my girlfriend is great, apart from whether she pleases me or I please her.

Renita

saras i did stuff to him but not the other way around

Secondary shield?

saras

Joh well i kinda had no choice in doing stuff lol
we still did none sex stuff just the sex stuff was one way

saras

Vanessa basically if i can wear it i will. im let out sometimes when out with him but never alone

i hope to get new place but need to save up more money for deposit which is hard when my income decreased due to covid

the virginity saving is gone now but hes always hated me masturbating

i discovered i could orgasm from boobs by trying anything after my first belting as i was so aroused. im not sure if he knew i was able to orgasm but when hes caught me playing with them and looking 'happier' than normal, he put a stop to that

i never moved out with belt, it was after a little time he wanted to try it so we got another.

I am unsure the brand I am in now, I have not seen one online exactly the same so i dunno if its an old design or from a place ive not looked. i dont want to ask dad can we shop for more gear & give him ideas lol

Angelina yes pretty much

Angelina

saras I am unsure the brand I am in now, I have not seen one online exactly the same so i dunno if its an old design or from a place ive not looked. i dont want to ask dad can we shop for more gear & give him ideas lol

understandable, now only the thigh bands are missing

Vanessa

Angelina unlike the belt my father felt it was not necessary,

I would have thought so,too.And I hadn't a training before my first wearing of it(but unlike you,it is not permanent wearing,it may impact how we feel about a training for it).

saras basically if i can wear it i will. im let out sometimes when out with him but never alone

So,often in it,right?

saras i hope to get new place but need to save up more money for deposit which is hard when my income decreased due to covid

I hope you would manage it soon,however!Do you still need a lot of money before moving?

saras i discovered i could orgasm from boobs by trying anything after my first belting as i was so aroused.

I think we've all tried it!😉

saras hes caught me playing with them and looking 'happier' than normal

Too bad he caught you and noticed it...

saras i never moved out with belt, it was after a little time he wanted to try it so we got another.

Were you surprised when he suggested to you to use one again?

Have you accepted quickly?

saras i dont want to ask dad can we shop for more gear & give him ideas lol

Wise decision! 😉

saras

🤣

saras

Otherwise,it would be an abstinence belt.😉

Christine Yet.

Let's hope it stay this way!

saras i now know what im missing given i had lots of sex. it would i think be easier if i was still a virgin who hadnt touched herself since my teens if that makes sense

I agree;I'm not a virgin,and I think too it is harder to have to wear a chastity belt after we had sex before.

Joh

Right...🙁

Angelina I have often discussed this with @Vanessa, it really seems to be the case that it is a little easier for virgins, but I can't judge.

As @saras have known both situations,it seems it is the case;It seems it is harder for her now.

Joh

saras
Sorry, I don't get it. I thought he had the key when you moved together. Why was it than an one way?

saras

oh I misunderstood
after we moved in together and we started it then i was unlocked for sex

Joh

saras
OK. This looks different as I got the impression before.

saras

Angelina you say missing i say shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh in case dad hears 🤣

Angelina

saras you say missing i say shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh in case dad hears 🤣

🤣

Christine Wow. One more crazy parent.

There seem to be a lot of them 😂 🙁

saras it would i think be easier if i was still a virgin who hadnt touched herself since my teens if that makes sense

I have often discussed this with @Vanessa, it really seems to be the case that it is a little easier for virgins, but I can't judge.

saras

Renita it has one of those

Renita

saras it has one of those

Do you also have it now?

Christine

Laura @Christine is in similar situation

Wow. One more crazy parent.

Laura but doesn't have to wear bra or thighbands yet

Yet.

saras when it was looking like more than a couple weeks it was put on me, to remove the temptation. 18 months later ive not had any pleasure that way since. the belt

What is his reason to keep your chaste while you live in his house? To prevent sex with your ex?
How does it feel to be belted in mid 30s?

saras

Christine not that, he knows me and my ex are finished
he has always been against masturbation and sex before marriage and is (if this is the right word) kinda dominant so he would only let me move back in if i obeyed the rules
it sucks to be back locked now. not so much for dating and doing activities with friends because covid kinda ruined that anyway, moreso for the fact i now know what im missing given i had lots of sex. it would i think be easier if i was still a virgin who hadnt touched herself since my teens if that makes sense

Joh

saras would i think be easier if i was still a virgin who hadnt touched herself since my teens if that makes sense

It totally does because now you know what are you missing. This is hard.

HHelen

saras I am in my bra now but only wear it on and off (not up to me of course)

What are the rules? Do you only wear it at home or also outside?

saras he would only let me move back in if i obeyed the rules

I think he was right. His home his rules. You always had a choice to not move back.

Christine

saras he has always been against masturbation and sex before marriage

However he let you move out without marriage and the belt.

saras it sucks to be back locked now.

What was your first reaction? "Daddy, do you remember how old I am?"

Angelina There seem to be a lot of them

No, her situation seems more extreme even than mine.

saras hopefully i will soon

I doubt.

saras

Vanessa

Vanessa So,often in it,right?

yes

Vanessa I hope you would manage it soon,however!Do you still need a lot of money before moving?

some yes. hopefully i will soon

Vanessa Were you surprised when he suggested to you to use one again?

Have you accepted quickly?

It was always going to be a situation where i had sex often. It was more a prolonged foreplay

Vanessa I agree;I'm not a virgin,and I think too it is harder to have to wear a chastity belt after we had sex before.

was that why you were put in it?

Angelina

Vanessa I would have thought so,too.And I hadn't a training before my first wearing of it(but unlike you,it is not permanent wearing,it may impact how we feel about a training for it).

yes, i think in your case it is acceptable that there was no training because you don't wear it permanently (even though it would be better of course).

Vanessa As @saras have known both situations,it seems it is the case;It seems it is harder for her now.

right, i think that clears up a big discussion here on the forum 😉

saras so i do not know what to do

first of all, ask him why he doesn't want to drill air holes? otherwise, if you are handy, you can do it yourself.

Renita

saras some yes. hopefully i will soon

Then don't worry about air holes or a new bra.

Vanessa

saras yes

Sorry for you...

saras some yes. hopefully i will soon

Good luck!

saras It was always going to be a situation where i had sex often. It was more a prolonged foreplay

Very different than now,so.

saras was that why you were put in it?

At first,it was a punishment for masturbating/having sex;now,it is permanently,to prevent me to do it.

saras he said he will not drill into it

Why?

saras bras which are not solid but have slits in side

Would he accept these ones?

saras see it as an investment to lock me for longer

Anyway,it seems it would be the case until you move out,so not much changes...

saras decide i need new stuff and buy thigh bands

It is a risk,yes,even if not very related.

Have you the D-rings on your belt?

Laura Move out now

She may not afford it.

Angelina yes, i think in your case it is acceptable that there was no training because you don't wear it permanently (even though it would be better of course).

I agree.

Angelina right, i think that clears up a big discussion here on the forum 😉

Yes!

saras at first I thought it was a joke but i soon realised he wanted to relock me and if i wanted to move in i had no choice, If not for Covid I would have moved out a long time ago so it wouldnt hae been a big deal

Understandable;if only for a while,it seemed bearable(even if unpleasant and uncommon),but lasted longer than expected.

saras

Except if you need his financial support,or if he tells you it would break the relationship with your family,for example.

saras

HHelen What are the rules? Do you only wear it at home or also outside?

outside as well. essentially he lets me out only if he if there and hes in a good mood. Never can I be alone without it

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