Chastity bra

Angelina

so i threw your text into a good translator again now and withdraw my questions regarding the wearing time. now i know everything 😂

Sara2001

I followed @Angelina suggestion and asked Daniel what he thinks about me having a chastity bra (not as a suggestion to wear one but in general).

He wonders why I came up with that point. I told him about the points we talked about here. At the end I'm still not sure if would be a good way.

His opinion is, that he would agree to it if he is the one with the key to it and my father has the spare key for showering on Sunday. He would only keep me in the bra when he don't want to play with me and my body. This means it would not prevent me from getting horny and I only loose more self control. He now likes the idea but for completely different reasons then I do

He said he will think about it for a while now, then I will know if I have to ask my fathers permission to buy a chastity bra from my money or not. I will of course have chances to state my opinion and he will take my points into his descision.

Raziel

Sara2001
There's nothing to talk about with your father or Daniel, don't buy the belt. The moment Daniel said they wanted to hold the key, means you both have a disagreement, so you do not need to mention the bra or buy one at all. If you do not want Daniel to touch you in certain places, say so, or that is considered sexual assault.

I found proof of what you said earlier about your rules and expectations before he controls them:
Aug 6, 2019:

Sara2001 I told him I can accept him as a leader as long as I have the feeling that my happiness, wishes and dreams are more important for him then his own.

Aug 7, 2019:

Sara2001 He said he likes how I instantly address the the things that are important for me

Aug 11, 2019:

Sara2001 The good thing is that I now feel that he would not implement something that I don't want

Simple solution: be your own chastity bra keyholder or don't buy one at all.

Angelina

Sara2001

no no no, what's he supposed to do? he completely misused my idea for his own purposes. it was a strange idea that i brought in for your own protection.

if you buy the bra only when you have the keys, there is no other reason for it. the bra was meant to protect you from getting horny and not to give you more power over yourself.

generally i find some aspects of your relationship very disturbing, i have the feeling you are going to marry a man like your father. apparently you can't talk to both of them about such problems without them using it against you

Laura

Sara2001 In my opinion, if you would like to wear a chastity bra, keys must be held by your parent or sister, but not by you or Daniel.

Vanessa

Laura Maybe it's time to think about a chastity belt for her again? In my opinion it's always better to be locked in a chastity belt that in a room.

I don't want her to wear this,and my parents would probably think it is inappropriate for them to do it...Even if I think Emilie may accept it.

Maybe I could suggest to have a spare one,with my parents have the keys for it,and put it on her only for the night,when we sleep together.I may talk with Emilie about it,but I'm afraid that my parents decide she should stay in it when not together too,even if at start,they won't accept to decide it...Or add she must wear a chastity belt if she wants they allow me to date her.It would be good to sleep with her,but can backfire on us easily...

Laura What is the make? My-steel? What measurements did you need for it? Like for regular brassière digit and letter?

Yes,My steel.Only a letter(A to D).

Angelina the psychic pain is much stronger than the physical pain

Totally right!

Angelina now if locking the doors is one of your parents' rules, you either have to agree or emilie no longer sleeps with you. as laura says, a CB would be an idea for her but your parents have no authority over her body, in my opinion.

I agree it could help,but only for the night.But it is risked,and I don't want her to have to wear one for dating me.

Angelina i don't think your twin is interested in emilie, he has a girlfriend of his own if i remember correctly. if emilie is actually bi or does she only like women, then the problem is solved anyway because then your parents don't have to worry. and yes if you bring her to orgasm it is also a kind of sex even if you have little of it.

She's bi,and had only one lesbian experience before me,only once,with her best friend,to know how it feels.But Emilie and my twin won't cheat,no doubt about it. I agree,making her orgasm can be considered as having sex.

Angelina by the way, if i had the choice, i would wear a CB myself before i let myself be locked up Laura Same for me. If I was Emily I would prefer chastity devices in her situation.

Emilie could accept it,if it is necessary for sleeping with me/dating me.

Sara2001 sked Daniel what he thinks about me having a chastity bra

Not a good idea,it is very hard!And I agree with others posters,if you do it,only you or your parents should have the key.And,personnaly,I think you should be the only one to have the keys,otherwise,your parents may decide you have to wear even when not on dates...

Quick update for my case:Not much news,but I know the "permanent wearing" of my chastity bra will end next Friday,and,if there is no problem,the new rules will start to apply Saturday(including allowing Emilie to spend the night at home).Still bearable physically,but hard emotionally;and still crying often...

Sara2001

Angelina she probably won't be able to buy it secretly.

but if she doesn't get support for the idea at home, she shouldn't.

Of course I am not able to buy it secretly. As I said I have no access to my bank account and have to ask my father for anything I buy. It is completely unthinkable in my family that I have the key to a chastity device. That's not how the things should work for my father.

Laura I think if her parents wanted her to wear a chastity bra they would do it already. So it's her choice only.

My parents don't see the need for a chastity bra, I think I wear my chastity belt and tightbands for other reasons then most of your. It has nothing to do with staying good by having no sex. The important aspect for my parents (and for Daniel) is to prevent me from having orgasm so I can focus on other things and to remind me that man and woman are not equal in what they are allowed to do.

Angelina generally i find some aspects of your relationship very disturbing, i have the feeling you are going to marry a man like your father

I think you are right in some ways, in others you are not. I don't think my father is a bad man or did a bad job with us. I can talk with Daniel about everything and he takes it into account. It is just not ok to fight with him. He has the final saying, if I don't respect that I agreed that he has the task to punish me for that with a lecture I understand and whatever he sees that is necessary for me to learn my lesson.

I can talk about the chastity bra with him and I don't have to fear that I will get one tomorrow. He was just opened to my idea but set some borders I would have to accept.

I don't believe it's important that Daniel waits with his orgasms until I can have orgasms. I don't feel that this would mean that he is more interested in me as a person. I am very happy that I'm able to make him happy. I think it is more beautiful when he has his orgasms with me than when he is not with me. He is not expected to stay in chastity. Not by my and not by his parents or the society.

For the chastity bra, Daniel and me agree that it would not be a good thing for us, so we will not work on this topic any further.

Angelina

Laura

if the parents have the key, she won't be able to get out of the bra anymore, that's not the point. sara has to keep the key and hide it at home then she can unlock again when her dates with Daniel are over.

Laura

Angelina she can unlock again when her dates with Daniel are over

She could ask her parents to do it when a date is over. That's matter of an agreement only.

Angelina

Laura

do you really think this is gonna work after everything sara wrote about her father?

I don't think so 🙁

Laura

Angelina do you really think this is gonna work after everything sara wrote about her father?

I think if her parents wanted her to wear a chastity bra they would do it already. So it's her choice only.

Angelina

Laura

she probably won't be able to buy it secretly.

but if she doesn't get support for the idea at home, she shouldn't.

Angelina

Vanessa

I'll try to answer briefly.

i'm very sorry for you that you still have to wear the bra permanently until friday, but after all don't wear it 24/7 but be careful, when i read your story here i have the feeling your parents are getting stricter and stricter the older you get, don't be careful that you'll soon also be 24/7 in belt, bra and bands

Laura

Vanessa Maybe I could suggest to have a spare one,with my parents have the keys for it,and put it on her only for the night,when we sleep together.

That's basically what I mean, or what @Renita mentioned, she is supposed to wear a belt when she stays in your home.

Laura

Lea Yeah i think so, to measure it.

Are there special measurements for bra? Because according to @Vanessa

Vanessa Yes,My steel.Only a letter(A to D).

Vanessa

Angelina

I think it is not due to my age,but to my situation,from studying,and so,a lot in university to searching a job,and so,a lot alone at home;but I think it is to strict with the cahstity bra if I've to wear it outside too...I don't think they'll do it as strict as your father,however.

Laura

Something that could be used,but I'm scared about what it could mean after...

Laura

Vanessa I think it is not due to my age,but to my situation,from studying,and so,a lot in university to searching a job,and so,a lot alone at home;but I think it is to strict with the cahstity bra if I've to wear it outside too..

In my opinion it should be opposite, because you are close to a financial independence, however they might just want to motivate you more this way.

Angelina

Vanessa

i hope it very much for you but the belt was also meant to be a punishment at the beginning, and now you wear it permanently. so always pay attention not to what bad happens

Vanessa

Sara2001 For the chastity bra, Daniel and me agree that it would not be a good thing for us, so we will not work on this topic any further.

Problem solved,so!

Laura n my opinion it should be opposite, because you are close to a financial independence, however they might just want to motivate you more this way.

It would make sense,but I don't think they think about it this way.

Angelina by that i mean she has to be careful that her parents want her to wear the bra 24/7.

Right,but I don't think it is the purpose,even if wearing it when outside was a bit hard.I'll try to make them change their mind about it(hard,but not impossible,if I found good arguments,stay calm,and don't ask about it too often).

Laura I suppose it's the imminence if she doesn't find a job soon.

I don't think so.But,if I am lazy or does not do my best to get one,I may be punished(and it can include grounded at home for a few days,while wearing thigh bands and chastity bra during all my grounding,day and night).

Angelina then she should get married, she seems to have a very good relationship. so why not . as soon as she has a job she can finance the wedding as well

We talked about marriage and both of us would like it.But we want that at least one of us have a permanent job,and to live together for a while before,to be sure it would be right for us.

Laura

Angelina so always pay attention not to what bad happens

What could be worse? Chastity bra is the worst thing that might happen to a girl 🙂

Angelina

Laura

by that i mean she has to be careful that her parents want her to wear the bra 24/7. the belt was only meant to be a punishment in the beginning.

Laura

Angelina by that i mean she has to be careful that her parents want her to wear the bra 24/7

I suppose it's the imminence if she doesn't find a job soon.

Angelina

Laura

you can see how important a job is. 😂

seriously she is of age has a relationship and should urgently see that she moves out of her parents

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